Heartbreak, is part of the way we mature as individuals to be even wiser in responding to something that makes us feel down. Isn't it from every sadness and heartbreak that makes us stronger in the future? And wouldn't this life be more complete if we had experienced sadness, disappointment, anger, depression and finally happiness.

Our job is to accept, not be overly prejudiced against something that actually makes us disappointed

Sometimes the thing that makes us feel burdened is because of our own excessive prejudice without a proper basis. It is our prejudices that make us feel so disappointed and protracted in sadness and disappointment. Why did he break up with me?, Why did he leave me?

As if the answered questions we conclude so rashly and actually make us feel burdened in living our days. Even though it could be that the answer to every question is sometimes there is no answer, in fact the answer is only there if we want to accept it gracefully.

Believe what has been outlined to us, that's the best for us

Because the heart can always accept if it is placed in the right place. Whatever is the line of our destiny, is part of our life journey which is none other than the more we make us more mature. It's true that making peace with ourselves is not an easy thing, especially if we already believe what we are doing is the best, but why does he still leave us so tragically.

There is a saying that a fallen leaf never hates the wind, it allows itself to be sincerely carried away by the wind that blows it away from where it falls. Is not making peace with yourself is about how we accept each line of its destiny. If indeed he is not our soul mate, we want to be as close as a vein, it will be useless.

Losing is a part of life, and isn't it from every loss there will always be lessons we can take?

It's naive to lose a lot of us with feelings that are not right. Feeling that he left us is the origin of all the disappointments and sorrows in our hearts. If we think about it more deeply, what is eternal in this life? Isn't every time the wind blows, the waves in the ocean and the ground shakes on the earth will always bring loss.

And life itself is part of the loss, which sooner or later will be felt by all humans on this earth. So don't be silly to say that I am the one who suffers the most, I am the one who is the most disappointed.

Sad enough after that get back up

Be sad if at that time it was really needed, but just enough, don't overdo it, don't think about it too much. After all, being sad is a part of life, isn't it? If you do a population census on this earth, about how many people have had their hearts broken, surely everyone has experienced it.

It's naive if you think that you are the saddest person on this earth, it's naive if you think that you are the most disappointed person on this earth.

Seeing from a wider perspective

If only we want to see from a wider perspective every event in our lives, believe me we will be able to accept that everything that comes to us is not much compared to other people.

If you think your feelings of sadness and disappointment are the biggest and most extraordinary things on this earth, then that's too naive. Look at the problem from a broader perspective, from a different perspective. As the saying goes, if you want to see how small you are at the top of a mountain, reach the top.

You're not the center of the world, remember that!

We always feel we are the center of the world, because we always exaggerate the problems we face. It's as if we are the people who have the biggest problems on this earth, as if other people have no bigger problems than us. If you have ever thought as expressed above then try talking to other people, communicate a lot with other people then from there we will get a new understanding, that everyone has their own portion of the problem and God does not impose problems on us beyond our capabilities. our.

It is we who sometimes like to exaggerate our problems, as if we are the center of the world, if that doesn't make us believe, even worse, we are the center of the Milky Way galaxy. There and no one who leaves you has no effect on this earth. Earth is still moving with its rotation. The sun still shines on the earth, nothing has changed from the constellation of our solar system and galaxy because of your broken heart. All is still fine.

Remember you are not the only one who is heartbroken and saddest on this earth, everyone has experienced it, and there may be people who are more sad and less fortunate in their lives than us, but he can still smile for everyone.

Many people are more disappointed, heartbroken, and not as lucky as your life, but he can still smile