âI am busy today. Whenever I get time, Iâll message you.â
âSorry, Iâm not in the mood to talk right now. Letâs talk later.â
âIâm mad. I donât want to say anything that may hurt your feelings. Letâs talk about this once Iâm okay.â
COMMUNICATE. If youâre busy, let her know. If you donât want to talk, say so. If youâre upset because she had done something you didnât like, open up.
Sometimes, It is not the words that break us. It is the near absence of attention and communication. Itâs the deafening sound of silence that can break someone. And I donât know why other people do not understand this concept.
It is mentally and emotionally exhausting to play the waiting and guessing game. I know you donât owe anyone an explanation or anything. We are all busy and we have other priorities, but please donât leave someone stranded just because you donât feel talking to that person, youâre not in the mood, youâre mad or you are âbusyâ.
If you slept last night with no weariness, good for you, but I hope youâll know that there is someone who slept with a heavy heart trying to figure how your day went by, if you arrived safely from work or if she did something that suddenly made you give her that cold shoulder.
We donât need a bit much of your attention, we only want to hear from you. We only want you to communicate. We hope that isnât too much to ask.