Hi all mothers here or all women that soon will be mother. I just wanna share something about being mother.
It's Not Easy To Be A Mother: 'Whatever You Choose They have something Can Say'Often both of your moms will say harsh words.It's not easy being a mother. That's what others often say. It is not a joke to raise a child. But it is harder when you do your best to raise them properly but many around you disagree with what you are doing.That's exactly when you are.When you're a mother, many eyes look on. They were all watching. They all have something to say.When you beg, they'll say, "Oh, man! You're just kidding." When you chew, they'll say, "You're fat! You're just kidding."
When you dress up and have a picnic, they'll say, "Wow! But they had something different in mind. "Well done, she can't take care of her son." When you don't have time and don't have time for a photo shoot, they'll say, "Just kidding."
When you have one child, the one to say is, "Follow it. It can be difficult without a sibling. The sequel is great for the same difficulty of raising." But when the pregnancy is only one or two years away, the exclamation is, "Are you pregnant again? How old is that?"
When you have a job, they will worry. "What about your son? Who cares? Oh, it's hard when Mom doesn't care." When you're unemployed, "You're just home? You're fine. Nothing's done." If your child is with you at work, it is to say - "Why are you with me? Unfortunately. Doesn't anyone care for the house?"
When the child eats vegetables, fruits, and spices, "Unfortunately it does not taste good." Sometimes the child will even be tempted, "Do you want candy?" But when eating candy or chocolates, it is always said to "Eat vegetables. Don't be too sweet."
When the child is thin, you will be asked. "Why is he skinny? Eat a lot of rice. Take vitamins." But if the child is fat, "My goodness, you should cut down on his diet. Maybe he'll be high blood right away."
When breastfeeding, you will be told "Cow saves." When it comes to formula feeding, "Let's not feed. We buy a lot of milk."
If you take care of your child too much, you will be criticized. "'Don't be too mean. Let it get dirty. She needs it." But when it is left unclean, "What is it, neglected."
Without a screentime, "Poor thing to watch." If so, "'Don't train to watch.'
If you go out without the child, you will be asked. "Why didn't you take your child with you?" When you bring it in, say, "Why did you bring it back? It's just tiring."
When he was just three years old, "Are you going to school right away? When it's been three years and not yet coming in, "Why haven't you come in yet?" When homeschooling, "What's going on there? They can't learn to socialize. "
When the child is kind, "That mother is tough." When it comes to criticism, "It's because of the mother."
See? You have nothing to lose! No matter what you choose, whatever you decide, as long as you are, they still have something to say. More often than not, both moms say these things. Many will just say words based on what they saw before. Many simply comment based on what they know and do.
Ladies and gentlemen, let's start with each other. Let's avoid judging others. Each of us has our own battles. No matter how we raise our children, we have different perspectives, we all have a mother and that's all that matters.
Let us not influence what others say. You, mom, know all about the good of your children and family. You do the right thing. You can think of what others are saying, but in the end, you will still follow. You're a special Mom. You're good at what you do. Long live!
I recognize it especially if it comes to family and teachers. Family and teachers who know best but their children are more problematic than mine. The only one who can tell you one day if you were a good parent is your child. 👍