Challenges thats comes with in-laws

• WHAT YOU NEED KNOW

Marriage creates a new family unit. The Bible says that a man who gets married will leave his father and mother and hold on to his wife.The same can be said to woman towards her parents and her husband. If you marry, you become one flesh.

Your marriage comes before your parents. One of the most important roles in a marriage is to create a sense of 'we' between a man and a woman,Creating or your sense of solidarity with your partner may mean some separation and separation from your main families.

Some parents may have difficulty adjusting. A situation my happen were Before getting married, your wife might always have made her parents' wishes a priority. After marriage, her mother might that someone else was coming first. It can not always be easy for her to accept.

Even some spouses can have problems. Having in-laws isn't what your friends choose to be.It's like someone saying, 'You have two new friends whether you like it or not. Even if they drive you crazy, they are family!

WHAT CAN YOU DO

If you and your spouse can't come to an agreement on a family situation, work to resolve the issues in a cooperative spirit. Follow the advice of the Bible to seek and follow peace

Try the following: Talk about the problem with your wife and compromise. The question is not what you think of your mother-in-law, but what you think of your husband, the person you have sworn to love. Escape the the idea of talking about it with a specific way or two to improve your relationship with your mom and move on. When your wife becomes aware of your efforts, her respect for you will undoubtedly increase.

Also try this: Discuss the problem with your partner and try to see it from their perspective. Indeed, if you only honor your parents, your husband shouldn't feel threatened.However you may need to use your words and actions to reassure him that he will come before your parents in your life. If your husband has this confidence, he is less likely to compete with his parents for your attention.

Last but not the least you can also try this: Talk to your partner and decide where to go. Try to be reasonable. Is it always wrong to tell a parent about a problem? When can this be appropriate? If you agree on reasonable limits, this shouldn't be a problem.