Why do people fall in love? What does science say?

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The world is loving, at least lovers - maybe that's what lovers believe. Love builds people, breaks them again. Lovers cross seven seas in the frenzy of love, many accept even the hardest thing like death.

The urge to talk a little, to meet a little or to spend time in the chest. And there is no question about those who fall in love anew. They become creatures of the planet Vine. It seems that the spacecraft has just landed on a planet called Earth.

But why so much insanity for love? Why so much longing? Why does a man fall in love? Science has answered this.

Lifestyle website Femina has published a report in this regard.

Love is like addiction

U.S. anthropologist Helen Fisher and her team conducted a study on happy people in love. According to Helen Fisher, researchers have found a cell called A10 in the ventral tegmental area (VTA) of the brain behind the cause of love. These 10 cells play a role in the production of dopamine.

VTA is part of the brain's reward system. It is related to desire, motivation, hunger, excitement, passion for love, and so on. In fact, it is the area of ​​the brain where addiction is felt. Even in the early stages of love, a kind of intoxication is created. Maybe that's why romance creates drug-like addiction.

However, before becoming addicted to someone, the brain analyzes the person. King College London Professor. "Love is affected by many things," said the Danish victim. In addition to culture and social values, physical and emotional attraction influences here. '

Three important things

Fisher, a professor at Rutgers University in the United States, and his research team roughly divided love into three parts. The parts are: lust, attraction and addiction. These are regulated by hormones. These three emotions can be created together, but also separately. So maybe people are addicted, attracted and lustful towards different people.

Work

Here is the realm of human sex hormones testosterone and estrogen. It works in both women and men. According to the researchers, the duration of this phase lasts about two years. Symptoms include: feeling intense physical need towards a person; It will be based entirely on his physical constitution. The main thing here is the external beauty. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.

Attraction

Attraction is another stage in love. Here the brain contains high levels of chemicals called dopamine and norepinephrine. In this love, the desire of the lover or lover to spend time together for a long time is created.

This love releases the ‘happy chemical’ or happy chemical serotonin. This hormone is associated with appetite and mood. Researchers believe that serotonin is the cause of early love affair. It’s basically a romantic comedy kind of love. This love of attraction usually lasts from 18 months to three years.

Psychologist and relationship counselor Viri Sharma said, ‘Relationships are actually sustained through patience and emotional communication to understand each other.’ Both sex and attraction are barriers to love. In fact, it may or may not be a love affair with someone you are physically attached to.

Symptoms of this love are: Boyfriend-Lover's view of the world is the same, being with a partner makes you feel complete, even if the partner is on the other side of the world.

Addiction

The number three part of love is attachment. Addiction is usually created by going through two stages of attraction and sex. Addiction is the initial stage of a long-term relationship. This emotion is mainly caused by chemicals called oxytocin and vasopressin.

Cum, attraction or addiction is caused by hormonal reactions. However, the relationship of addiction lasts a long time. Signs of this love are feeling warm when you are with your partner, sharing everything with your partner, feeling safe and committed to your partner and wanting to be related to his friends and family.

How long will love last?

Many times this can be triggered by a lack of response from the partner, financial and emotional stress, monotony in sex, etc. Expert advice to solve these problems:

The two take occasional vacations without a plan.

Don't think of your partner as property. He is your asset, which is to be acquired.

Spend a lot of time among yourself. Learn to like one another.

Love hurts

Hormonal reactions cause love. But there is also a dark side to love. After separation, a hormone called cortisol is released from the brain. It is a stress hormone. Just as the body feels pain in a fracture or fracture, so does the mind feel exactly the same kind of pain. So love, but understand.

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