I have been living in Russia for 22 years and after all this time I finally realize what happened to the men living around me! And indeed, a unique experiment is being carried out in Russia now: our men have been turned into a new biological species. Something between an asexual ant and a bull inseminator. And now I will gradually explain to you what this means.
Look, in Islam, a man keeps a woman. She, in turn, does not work, she is provided with clothes, food, housing. But for all these benefits she sits in a burqa, has no right to cheat, no corporate or any other parties, laws are not on her side, and she can also be punished for any offense, stoned, etc.
In the west, it is the other way around: a man does not support a woman, does not owe her anything, both a girl and a guy can come up to meet. They have equal rights, she earns money herself and supports herself. For Western men, keeping women is wild. But for this, women have the right to dress as they want, go wherever they want, communicate with whomever they want, travel wherever they want. In general, do whatever they want. That is, they have the right to do what a man does.
That is, in the West and in the East, the pros and cons are balanced. Everything is in balance. That is, a plus for a woman in the east is that her husband fully supports her, but this plus is balanced by a minus in the form of the fact that she has no more rights than an animal, and they are in the hands of a man. And in the west, the minus is that no one supports a woman, she has to work herself, but this is balanced by a plus in the form of human rights, which allow her to live in permissiveness.
And in Russia they have created a flawed hybrid of relationships. The men were offered two minuses, taken from Islam and from the West: that is, they support women and have no rights to her. The laws are on her side, and she can cheat on him, divorce him, beat him and children, etc. And Russian women got two pluses on both sides: they do not need to work, they are supported by men and complete permissiveness is available: they can go to corporate parties, dress as they want and at the same time take away their children from their husbands and prevent them from seeing each other.
In general, a Russian man plows like a working ant who has no rights not only to women and to his children, but also to himself. He also sometimes moonlights as a bull inseminator to help fulfill the female maternal instinct. And the most absurd thing is that he himself pays for this part-time job in the form of child support.
Looking at all this, people have a cognitive dissonance in their heads, because this is completely not logical for sane people. Here in the West and East everything is logical: if you buy a woman, that is, you support her, then you also have the right to her. If you do not buy and do not support her, then you have no rights to her. And here in Russia you buy a woman, and support her, and fawn at her, humiliate yourself and run after her, but you also have no right to her! That is, the minuses of both sides from the West and the East gathered in Russia without pluses for men. But all the pluses without minuses were given to women.
And so you may have noticed how the representatives of the Caucasian countries treat Russian men with disdain and contempt. Because for them a Russian man is a crazy fool who pays, but does not own a woman. You would also consider a person an idiot if he came to the store, put money on the cash register, took nothing and left.
And the people of Western society are just as surprised why Vanka the fool pays, and even humiliates himself running after a woman. After all, for them a woman is the same person as they are. Not a goddess who descended from heaven. And their priority is human equal relations, where no one is humiliated in front of anyone, and they are not at all interested in the relationship of a slave and a queen.
That is why it is very rare for an American or Muslim woman to marry a Russian man and move to live in Russia. But our Russian women happily go away from the crazy Vanks abroad. And those who stay just do what Russian men allow to do with them. And that is, to use them as ants, that is hard workers and bulls, that is inseminators, and not to have human relations with them as with an equal person.
The world is a crazy place with all sorts of rules and customs. For me, a woman is to be admired, cherished, and taken care of in more ways than just monetarily. But of course that requires love and understanding.