Impersonation.
Honestly, I don't know how to start this but I would start anyhow. Presently, I'm dumbfounded. There are a lot of people that I know online and I have not met them in real life. I have made a lot of friends on this platform and I have not seen them before. Another amazing thing is that we talk like we are very close to each other or we have seen each other before. There are so many times that you will meet a very good friend online and you may never see each other for over ten years. There is a friend I met online a few years ago, we still talk very well and share deep thoughts among ourselves. Presently I have known the guy for over seven years and I have not seen him before. I cannot count how many times he has helped me out in one way or the other. That's life!!! I believe we don't have to see each other every time before we can share deep thoughts. A lot of my online friends have been so wonderful to me and I am open to making more friends online.
Something happened last night and I was dumbfounded. On Whatsapp, I am in a lot of group chats. But most of these group chats are for making money. There's a particular group chat that I am a member of. We all talk, share experiences and do a lot of things. At times, whenever I am bored, I just go to the group chat to talk to some people and from there we'll become friends. In that group chat, I made up to ten wonderful friends. A few months ago, a guy came into my DM to say hi. I think the sweetest part of me is that I am very accommodating. I'm not rude. That day will be done talking and got closer to him than every other person in the group. At some point, people began to tag us alongside each other because we always talk in the group chat. We have gone far. His name is Scott. We talk to each other whenever we're bored. Sometimes, we may spend more than one hour on phone.
Four days ago, Scott called me at night. We talked for some minutes as usual then he said he has a confession to make. I became very curious because I don't like it whenever someone tells me he has a confession. I told him to tell me and he said no that he will tell me some days after. We spoke with each other yesterday and he confessed what happen to me. Before the confession, it took him over five minutes to summon the courage to tell me what happened. He said he has been in my DM for a few months and I have not been replying to his text so he came as someone else because he wants my attention. That's weird!!! Why would he do that? So the pictures you sent to me were not you? I asked. He said yes. I was mad!!! He said he did not want to show me his pictures because he looks very ugly and thought I will snub him like I'd been doing. I didn't snub him. I just had too many texts on WhatsApp.
He said he was sorry. Just like that? I asked. I asked if he knows the damage he has caused me. Why would he use someone else's picture as his? Just to gain my attention. It's not fair!!! He begged me for over three hours and called me repeatedly. I was mad! I made some findings about him. I learnt he owns his restaurant and it seems he's doing well. So, why the impersonation??? When he sent his real pictures, I realized it was someone who talks well in the group. I'm still confused. Why did he impersonate? He thinks he's not cute. He lacks self-confidence. He has forgotten that he's handsome just the way he is. Honestly, when he sent his picture, he looks so cute. He's my spec. He makes his hair and pierced his ear. I felt bad!!! I asked if he has done it to other people. He said no!!! So, why did he do it to me? He said he wants to gain my attention. Isn't that crazy? Is that how to gain attention? Is that how to love? I was even stupid not to ask for a video call over three months but it didn't come to my head. It's not like I wanted to date him so I didn't even remember to ask about that. Then, he said that all that he told me was real. No lies but it was just the image. How does he even want me to trust him? I had to make findings and be sure. Someone told me he's the one. I didn't even know that some people are still as stupid as this in this century. All because of attention.
Since he apologized, I forgave him already. I have a question. Should I stop talking to him?
Today's Movie!
I watched a very interesting movie today. The story was written by one of my favorite story writers and actor. Her name is Kenny George. I have never seen a bad story of Kenny George. She is so good and most times she writes tragic stories. She came into the limelight when she wrote about one story. Almost everyone watched the movie, then. It was very interesting and also emotional. I cried!!! I'm a very emotional person. The story is a great one. Most times, whenever I feel like watching movies, I always make sure that the story is written by her. Once the story is written by her, my mind is at rest. There is no bad Kenny George. When it comes to story writing, she's always in the top ten. There's joy in being known for what you do. Not just being known, but being known for doing justice to what you are known for.
Let's talk about today's movie. The movie started with an investigation by the police. They are investigating a case. Kenny George played Ronke in that movie. What case are the police officers investigating? They are investigating Ronke's death. Ronke is a daughter of a rich politician. She's a pretty lady in her twenties. She's free to go out and come in anytime she likes. Everyone has his or her friends. Just like Ronke, she has her friends too but they are not as rich as Ronke's family. They were always together most of the time. They were planning to do a project which requires a lot of money. They didn't have a source of income that could give them such an amount of money. So, Ronke brought up a plan. What plan? The plan was for her friends to kidnap her to collect ransom from her father. Ronke's older brother was not cool with that idea but at the end of the day, he agreed to be a part of the plan.
Ronke is asthmatic. The plan was that they will call Ronke's father to inform him that his daughter has been kidnapped, threaten him to pay the ransom, and also threaten him not to call the police. If he calls the police, he will lose his daughter. The next day, they executed the plan. Ronke's father was called and told that his daughter has been kidnapped and he should bring some amount of money the next day. Since he has been threatened not to call on the police, he didn't do so. He drove to the location he was told. Ronke was taken to the venue by her older brother. He waited for a few minutes till their father was close. She was locked in the booth of their car and her older brother forgot to hand over her inhaler to her. The plan was for her to stay in the booth for ten minutes.
Due to a bad road, her father could not get to the location in ten minutes. He spent more than that. When he got there, he was asked to drop the money in an uncompleted building, look around him that he will see a car, check the front of the car, will see the car key, and should open the booth to rescue his daughter. When he got there, he dropped the money in the uncompleted building, opened the car, and realized that his daughter is dead. The older brother was busy rejoicing about their big win and he noticed that he forget to hand over her inhaler to her. He was so scared. A few minutes later, he got a call from his father that his sister is dead. He wailed!!! At the end of the day, the police got to the root of the matter. They realized that it was her older brother and her friends that came up with the plan. They were sent to jail.
Now, let's talk. What sort of plan is that? The girl was so stupid to bring up that plan. She was also stupid to accept that she will be locked in the booth and she knows her health condition. What can you say about the movie?
Be Mindful Of Your Speech.
Happy Sunday to every beautiful person on this platform. Don't worry, you are the one I am talking to and you are beautiful in your way. I know we have different religions but I think the most popular ones are the Christians and Islamic practitioners. To the Christians, did you go to church? To the Muslims, did you go to the mosque? Also, to the traditional worshippers, did you go to the shrine? I live very close to a shrine here and they worship on Fridays. I think it differs. I think they choose their worship day due to their leisure period. And to my lovely people who practice Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Paganism, Catholicism, and a lot more, how's your worship service? I hope you enjoy it. Please if you practice any of these, feel free to tell me what day and time you worship. I'll appreciate it.
I have very noisy neighbors. My housemates are very calm and not noisy but my neighbors are always making noise and it is very annoying. I don't need to set an alarm to wake up early in the morning because their noise will surely wake me up. Have you ever experienced some noises that when you hear them, you won't be able to sleep again? No matter how sleepy you are, if these people start their noise, you won't be able to sleep well again. Apart from the fact that they fight almost all the time, they lack some manners which I think everybody should learn. My compound is fenced but the house is very very close to our fence so we hear almost everything they do inside their compound. I think people need to learn how to do things quietly without disturbing others. I learned this from my dad and it has helped me so much. I remember when I was at the university if my roommate wants to open the door, she was going to bang the door so loud. This is very annoying because there are times that I may be sleeping but the noise would not let me sleep again. Whatever we do in life we should learn to have courtesy.
My neighbors started, as usual, this morning. They had a fight session this morning and they shouted for over two hours. The fight was between two women but the other housemates intervened so that it won't go beyond what it is. They began to curse each other and say negative words to each other which is uncalled for. Presently, they already settled the fight and all they could say to each other is 'sorry'. What about the curses? Have they forgotten about it? This made me think of couples who curse each other whenever they are not on good terms. I think this is common among women. I know people who do it. Some people are so fast in saying negative words to their partner whenever they are having an issue that can be resolved at any time. I noticed that at end of the day, all they will say to their partner is sorry after they have said so many negative words to the person.
Some people even forget that they will still have sex with their partner. Apart from the pleasure, we get from sex, we share a lot of things. Sex is a pleasure and spiritual at the same time. At the end of the day if those curses begin to manifest, these same people who still be the ones to blame their partners for not doing well in life. Why? Why should you say negative words to your partner during an argument? It's not nice!!! It's painful. I went somewhere a few months ago and the man and woman quarreled. The wife had to start telling her husband that he is useless. He doesn't have a good job. I have never seen the man cry. He broke down in tears. He has been doing the job for over eighteen years, trained three children to University level, they are done with university now, has his last child in a secondary school, built his house, and has a car but his wife said he's useless. How would you feel if you were the one? I'll feel bad😪.
It may not be our partners, it may be a random person. Let's be mindful of what we say whenever we're quarreling with people.
Love Your Siblings.
It is generally believed that parents should take care of their children. Also, it is generally believed that the father fends for the family while the mother takes care of the children. That is how some family leave their life but they have forgotten how to train their children to be united. A lot of parents don't know how to train their children in a way that the children will be able to relate with people outside their family and that's why you see some people behave in a very nasty way and you begin to ask them who raised them. Some parents don't even know the essence of eating together, they don't know the essence of going out together, they lack so many things which are not supposed to be. And that is why you see so many people outside that are not loveable because they lack the knowledge of the essence of these basic things.
I watched a film a few minutes ago and the movie was about two sisters. In the movie, the mother loved the younger sister more than the older sister but the reason is not clear. Right from when they were small the younger sister has always been jealous of her older sister for no reason. But the older sister seems to be a very good person, loving, kind, and hardworking person and that is why she always does her things successfully. While all of these were going on, she never disliked her younger sister or do something bad to her. One thing I learnt about life is that there are many things you would not be taught but you need to teach yourself. The lady thought herself how to love her sibling because they were not taught that right from small.
When these two sisters grew up, things did not go well between them. It was just like it used to be. The older sister became a very successful person while the younger one was successful but not like the older sister. I mentioned earlier that the younger sister is always jealous of her older sister for no reason or maybe because she feels like the older one is better than her. When it was time for them to get married the older sister brought her fiance to their mother. The younger sister as usual got jealous of her older sister and decided to snatch her sister's fiance. This is when I knew that it was their mother's fault because she did not try to unite them when they were little. It is very weird when you see two sisters of the same mother fight over a man. One thing I have learnt is that you should always protect the interest of your family members and not fight over something with them. I should be able to protect them so that whenever an outsider tries to do something stupid, I'll fight for my siblings.
Siblings should always fight for each other and not fight each other. The only time siblings should fight each other is maybe when they have a little misunderstanding and they should settle it amicably. People who were trained with love will never fight their siblings to the extent that they will begin to go to the extreme. In that movie, the little sister went to the extreme by trying to snatch her older sister's fiance. Some parents lack the knowledge of uniting their children. I read a lot of things on social media. Some siblings have sex with each other. It's bad!!!! You're supposed to know that he is your brother and she is your sister. The family relationship has to be there. The people who are very close to you should be your sibling because if anything happens to you, at the end of the day, it becomes their burden.
I know a lot of people here have given birth. Please try to unite your kids. Let them share love between themselves, as siblings!!!
Beautiful Memories.
I have been busy since morning. I had too many tasks to do online. At some point, I got tired and decided to take a rest. No matter what, I gotta rest but I was unable to sleep. I tried to sleep but I could not. I was disturbed. I don't like it whenever I try to sleep and I could not get sleep. It annoys me a lot. At some point, I begin to roam around the house since I was not doing anything. I had things to do but I could not do them because I was so exhausted and the only thing I could do at the moment was to sleep but I could not get any sleep. I just listened to music for a while. I walked around my compound in the hot sun. One thing about me is that whenever I try to do something and I'm unable to, it annoys me and makes me do other things that are not necessary. I still don't know why I was roaming around under the hot sun.
I went back inside to finish some tasks on the other platforms I write on. I write on about four platforms. When I was hungry, I drank cassava flakes and added bournvita. I washed all my plates and continued to listen to music. My sister's boyfriend came around with his female friend. I used that as an opportunity to make my hair. I had to lose my old weaving to make a new one. It took her one hour to make the hair. I like the hair. It's so tiny. She took her time to make the hair. My sister's boyfriend bought us dinner and he went back with his friend. My sister and I just finished eating and she received a notification from Facebook. Her friend added a new picture on Facebook and she got notified. It was a secondary school classmate. The lady was the daughter of our proprietress and was the head girl at that time. She was very brilliant.
This got my sister and me talking about our secondary school lifestyle. We went to the same secondary school but she was my senior. We talked about how lively our school was back in those days. We talked about our seniors and our teachers. A lot of us are now doing well and I'm happy about that. We reminisced about a lot of things. We talked about when our school took students on a trip to London. My sister and I did not go because of funds but a lot of students went. We went to our school group chat to search for pictures. One thing about pictures is that it reminds us of the past. I would have loved to post my throwback pictures but I know you'd laugh at me so I won't do that😅. I looked ugly but look at me today, I'm a big girl😊. I had to check the Facebook profiles of my seniors in school back then, they're doing great. Some of them are married while some are not.
My sister also reminded me of how stubborn I am when I was in school. Though, I don't get beaten because I have a very gentle face. Most times, when my friends and I do something bad in school, my teachers will beat my friends and exempt me. My friends always quarrel with me because of this😅😅. I remember when we provoked a teacher to the point that he started begging us to forgive him for whatever he has done to us😅😅. I'm sorry. I was just too stubborn. When we got to the final class in secondary school, they didn't let my friends and I become prefects because of our stubbornness. This made my friends and I get jealous of one of our classmates who later became the head girl😅. With all of these, I was still very brilliant in school especially when it comes to Literature and English Language. When it comes to these two subjects, I'm regarded as the best😊.
I can't remember all I did in secondary school. The only thing I did not do is fight. I never for once fought in school. I detest it. Can you please share your secondary school experience with me?
Karma Is Real.
If I was not into the acting profession, I won't believe all that they do every time. Before, I used to be part of the people who believed that some things which are being portrayed in movies cannot happen in real life until one day. I went for an audition. My friends and I were outside and we saw a woman on a bike. She was shouting. Honestly, we thought she was being kidnapped until we realized that she forgot her luggage inside the car she entered before. I don't know if the driver was aware of the load inside his car but the woman began to shout at the man and even blamed him for not reminding her about her luggage. That's weird!!! Why should it be the man that will remind you to carry your luggage. Then a man said something. The man said if theatre practitioners act out that same scene, a lot of people will say it's not possible to forget luggage inside the bus. People may not appreciate the fact that theatre practitioners are showing them other things that can happen in life. Instead of some people learning, they won't believe.
I watched a movie this afternoon. I'll narrate the movie and ask you what you learnt from the movie. Two young people were in love with each other. The man was a prince while the lady was from a poor home. They loved themselves to the extent that they can't do without seeing each other every day or talking to each other every day. Then, something happened. The lady got pregnant!!! The prince told his mother about it and expected his mother to show support but she didn't. She asked the young lady to abort the baby. They tried begging the Queen several times but all their efforts were futile. The Queen does not want the lady to keep the pregnancy. I think a lot of us must have watched movies where one family won't let their child get married to another family because of their financial status. I've seen a lot of this. It happens in this part of the world. The Queen does not want her son to associate with paupers and that was the only reason she didn't want the lady to give birth to the baby.
The lady was too young to take care of a child too. She was sent away from the village and relocated to another town. When she gave birth, she dumped the baby in front of a maternity home and fled. After twenty-two years, the Queen last her children, grandchildren, and husband to an accident. Remember, the King is her husband. In the village, there's a law that the throne should not be vacant for over one year. A King needs to sit on the throne. The Queen realized that she had lost all she has then she remembered that a lady was carrying her grandchild sometime ago. Then, she began to search for the lady. It took her over a week to locate the lady who is now happily married with children. Even though the Queen treated the lady very badly, the lady did not try to revenge. She still showed some form of respect to the Queen. Unfortunately, the lady does not know where the child is since she dumped the baby.
They went searching for the baby. They went to the maternity home and found the boy at last. The boy was doing very well and refused to follow them to the village to be a King. Is Karma not real? They thought the baby will be useless and that they may never need him again. That's why his mum dumped him and that's why his grandmother did not even care about him until after twenty-two years. I felt the pain of the mother. She thinks she had no option and that the best option is to dump the baby. That's never an option!!! Kudos to the ladies who gave birth at a very young age and decided not to harm the child.
Whose fault is it? To me, it's the Queen's fault. No one should ever interfere in people's relationships no matter how close they are. That's what frustrated the lady to dump the child and run away. At the same time, she should not have dumped the child.
If you were the lady, will you help the Queen in searching for the baby? No!! I won't. The Queen is the one who did not let the lady live a fulfilled life. The Queen is the one who turned the back of the lady's man at her. Remembering that you once dumped a baby somewhere is so disheartening which means that the Queen, either directly or indirectly caused the lady pain for the rest of her life. If I'm the one, God knows I won't forgive the Queen not to talk of searching for the child together with her. I'll make sure that they choose another king in their village so that the next king won't be from the Queen's lineage. You may think I'm wicked but I'm not. The Queen deserves it.
Tell me, is this Karma or not?
Are You Suffering From Heartbreak? If Yes, This Is For You.
I think we all have one person we can't do without, presently. When I say someone we can't do without, I mean someone we can't go a day without talking to. Someone with who we always love to share our experiences between each other. Someone who means a lot to us and knows almost everything we are going through. Lastly, someone we love. If I begin to ask us all about the person we can't do without, a lot of us will talk about our partners. It's very cool. If I have a partner too, I won't go six hours without talking to him or hearing from him. Only a few people here will talk about their family or friends when I ask them to they can't do without. I always feel incomplete whenever I don't hear from my partner in a day. I won't even let that happen. I'm not the proud type. A lot of ladies usually say that if their man does not call them, they won't check on him too. It does not apply to me. I will check on you. I'm so soft and a lot of people have taken that for granted but I'm sure I will find the one made for me.
My best friend texted me yesterday and reported her boyfriend to me. She said she was noticing some red lights which means that it's likely for her boyfriend to break up with her. One thing I don't like is trying to interfere in relationship matters. I've done it and it did not end well. I realized that at the end of the day, a lot of these couples will turn their back on you😅. So, I told her that I won't beg her man on her behalf. When my sister got home, she told me that her friend's boyfriend broke up with her. I was even shocked that her friend and my friend are facing similar issues. She said her friend cried too much in the office today and she had to tell her to go home and covered up for her whenever the boss asks of her. I know how painful it is to be used to someone and one day, he or she will tell you to stop whatever is going on between you two and that he does not want to see you again. It's crazy!!! I've had this feeling so many times and it makes my stomach rumble. I think there's a mistake a lot of people make whenever they are in relationships and when they get out of the relationship, it affects them a lot. A lot of people in relationships do not have other friends asides from their partner. It's cool but may not be helpful. What if you want to talk to someone and your partner is not available? Things like this will always happen.
How do you drift away from people like that? Imagine that your partner calls you to tell you that he's no longer interested. You've tried various ways of getting him back but all your efforts were futile. The first thing you should do is limit the number of times you call him in a day. You may want to call him to beg him. Some people may call a hundred times. If you used to call him ten times a day, reduce it to five. From five, you'll keep reducing until you no longer care about him again. Another thing you should do is practice your hobby. Everyone has his or her hobby. We all have the thing that we love to do all the time. When you practice your hobby, it keeps you busy. I noticed that whenever I'm busy with something I love, I always forget to text or call anybody including my boyfriend.
Also, find other people to talk to. At that point, you will want to talk to someone. One thing I notice about people who are not in a good mood is that they always want to say something. They want to talk to someone about something. They want a good listener. Talk to people, mix with people, go out with friends. If you go out with friends, by the time you get home, instead of you being bored, talk to the same friends about how much fun you had on that day. By the time you talk to your friends about how much fun you had, you'll feel sleepy and you'll wake up the next day😊. I should have recommended music but I won't. I realized that a lot of people listen to songs that suit their moods. It's normal. I do it too. If you're suffering from heartbreak and you're listening to love songs, you will cry. You may begin to remember the ecstatic memory you spent with the man and it will make you cry.
That's all for now. I hope this works out for those suffering from a heartbreak!!!
Do We Have To Belong To Something?
Yes! Is it necessary to belong to something or somewhere? Can't we just stand on our own and do it alone to achieve a positive result? This question came to my mind yesterday when I went to the audition venue. I have heard many things in life. I have always heard that no matter what you do in life, you need to be part of something or be a member of an organization for you to achieve your aim. As for me, I'm not that type. I always believe that we all can grow together by sharing ideas and opportunities and not by joining one organization or the other.
Yesterday, when I got to the audition venue, I filled out a form and my friends did too. We wrote our necessary information and waited for other people to come. They began to call us one by one. I was the fifth person because I came very early and registered my name when I git there. They called my name and I went inside. I was asked what my name is. The next question was "which organization are you under?". I told them I'm not under any organization and I did a monologue and went out. I later heard from a rightful source that they only needed actors from their organization. It was so disheartening because I knew I had already wasted my time. Honestly, I was very sad. My friends felt bad about that too.
When I left the venue, I began to think of different things. As I said earlier, I have always heard that if you want to make it in life, you need to be a part of something. Is that true? Let's take a look at religion. It is believed that man must have one religion or the other. I think that's why we are always asked about our religion whenever we fill out forms. It means we are to belong to an organization. Let's go to the music department. A lot of artistes are yet to make fame because they are not under any record label. But we tend to realize that popular artistes are under one record label or the other. Even models register themselves under some agencies so that they will get more jobs and be recognized. It's cool but I don't like it.
Here in Nigeria, even people selling similar goods have their organizations including transport workers. So it keeps on ringing in my head that I gotta join one organization. But they come with advantages and disadvantages. Let me sight an instance. Some record labels have done more harm than good to a lot of artistes. This is clear!! It's not in Nigeria alone but every part of the world. They have a lot of rules that seem not to be friendly to some artistes in the organization. When I got to the venue yesterday, I saw a lot of people who said they have been acting for over a decade but we don't know them. I sat very close to an elderly woman and she said she has been acting in film for sixteen years. I've never seen her on my screen. These organizations have a lot of restrictions and limitations and at some point, they won't favor me. I love to think about the future. I'm trying so hard for me to have a bright future in the industry.
Most people I met there yesterday are members of the organization but they are not even part of the top one thousand movie actors. They are just every other commoner. So, why will I join that kind of organization that is not looking for ways that their actors and actresses will grow and feature in more movies? I prefer not to be given the role of joining the organization. I met the governor of the Oyo state chapter of that organization yesterday. It's been a long she was featured in movies as well. I noticed something about this particular organization. They use few actors for major roles and give minor roles to actors who are not very famous. They are making us feel like there's no opportunity there.
Now, let me ask you. What work do you do? Does your work have an organization? Will you advise me to join an organization (A better one)?
She's Demotivated.
Honestly, I am not motivated to write anything today. Also, I don't have anything to write about. You know there are sometimes that you will feel very lazy and no topic will come to your head. I've read a lot of articles passing little or no information here😅. The only thing I was able to know is that the person does not have any topic to write about. The same thing is happening to me right now. I think I should ask some questions.
Have you ever been to an audition? When I talk about auditions, it may be a movie audition, music audition, or any kind of audition that you may ever think of. If you have been to an audition, how was it? How were you able to be so brave to face the audience? A lot of people are always scared when it comes to auditions or interviews and at the end of the day, they may not get picked because they're too scared and could not comport themselves.
Have you ever had stage fright? Firstly, I will explain what stage fright is. Stage fright is the mood of fear on or before going to the stage. It happens to a lot of people and I got to realize that they may not do well at the end of the day because of fear. Also, I think people are always cautious of themselves when acting. They are always trying to be perfect instead of doing the little they can do and also doing it well. Trying to be perfect fvcks a lot of people up.
Are you always scared of writing exams? I'm a very brave person. I have no fear in me. No matter what happens or how something goes, I won't get scared. That's just me and I'm in love with that. There are times that I've traveled for more than nine hours without telling anyone but I won't get scared. I've done a lot of crazy things that did not scare me so exam is just a normal thing to me. I don't get scared of writing exams. I also have one habit of always eating before entering the exam hall. I won't say because I have an exam to write, I won't eat. I love food and food keeps me in form.
Are you scared of heights? I'm very much scared of heights. I saw a guy this morning in a very tall building. He was sitting on the balcony so I was wondering how he sat there without being scared. I can't even stay a second there. I remember when I went to Idanre hills which has about 600+ steps. I could not complete climbing the stairs because I'm scared of heights.
As I said earlier, I don't know what to write about.
Have a nice day everyone❤❤.
I Enjoy Using Noise.App
We all have been kept busy due to the new social media platform that we have been using for a few days. I'm sure you know the platform I'm talking about. It's no other than noise.app. I didn't use it for a few days but I went back to the site when my friends advised me to begin to use it again. Also, I saw a lot of posts here about the noise.app which gave me an idea of how to run the app when I'm back using it. I started using it again three days ago and I'm enjoying it. I'm earning little or no amount per day. I asked my friends and I was told that it could be because I have a little number of followers. In case you want us to be friends on noise.app, my username is Bisolammy. My name is so unique that only I bear the name😊.
What do I enjoy using noise.app? If I was earning well, I would have said it was because of the earnings but it's not. I love to meet with different people from different parts of the world. I have always said this in a lot of my articles. I love the fact that I see different people, typing in different languages. I also love the fact that a lot of people there are nice and accommodating just like we are here too. Another major thing I love about noise.app is that you don't need to write much. I think one major reason why writers battle with writer's block is because whatever topic they have chosen to write about, they need to be able to write it in full detail and if it's not in full detail, it should be something we can read for some minutes. But on noise.app, you can just share what you are doing at that time. That's if you feel like sharing with people.
Another thing I love is the message feature. I'm a fan of any social media network that will allow us to send messages to our friends. It's cool. Honestly, I cannot count how many times I have texted my friends and we have talked about some things. I even begin to chat with strangers who later became my friend. As I said earlier, the users of noise.app are so accommodating so you gotta be free with everyone on the site. I chat with people that I have not met before. I chat with people that are not from my country and I love the fact that we always share experiences. I remember when a Filipino friend was telling me that he would like to pay a visit to Lagos😊. It's just the way people are united over there for me. I love unity and I love users of noise.app
Lastly, another thing I love about noise.app is the earnings. I believe that if my friends are earning well now, I will also earn well. It is just a matter of time. It's not how much people are earning that is making me like the earning method. I love the earning method because they can easily send to our BCH wallet without us requesting for withdrawal. That's just like auto withdrawal. I love that. Also, I love the fact that we don't see each other's earnings. I guess they did that because of jealousy. They don't want users to be jealous of one another so they used the best method by not showing how much users have made.
Above all, BCH is a blessing to everybody. It is a blessing to the community. It is a blessing to me and to you. For once, I never regretted being a part of this wonderful family. This is my home and I can't go a day without visiting this platform. It's part of me. I wonder what I will be doing if I don't visit these platforms.
Also, if you have a method in which I can use to increase the number of my followers so fast, please let me know. I wish to be part of the 100+ followers too.
Long live readcash
Long live noise.app
Long liveBCH .
Fighting In Dreams.
It's a beautiful day here in Lagos. It's 7:30 am and my day is gradually becoming beautiful. Why? It's because the rain fell. If you don't know, one thing you should know about me is that I love the rain. I so much love it when it rains. The rain brightens up my mood. The rain fell at midnight and it made me have a tranquil night's rest. I have never seen anyone who does not like when it rains at the midnight. You will surely sleep to your satisfaction. It's even a bonus when you're sleeping beside your spouse or your partner. It's another bonus if it happens on the weekend because after having a very splendid night, you should roll it over to the next day instead of going to work. It would have been better if I was with my man but the man is far away from me. I still enjoyed my night because I slept well with no disturbance.
As the topic implies"Fighting In Dreams". There is no human being in the world who has never had a dream. Let me just pick it up from age five upwards. As long as you are five years old and above, you must have had a dream. It's not compulsory but I feel it's normal. I remember when I had a dream at age five. I'm sure I must have been having dreams before then but I cannot remember. You know it's not possible to remember all that happened to you when you were little. I am sure a lot of us have had different dreams like talking to someone, playing in the house, or doing other things. Also, it is believed in Africa that if you eat in your dream, there is something wrong somewhere. It is a very bad dream and that's why Africans always act fast whenever they eat in their dreams.
Have you ever fought in your dream? If yes, how was it? Let me remind you, whatever you see in your dream is happening in your life's spiritual realm and if it not happening yet, it is about to happen. That's a general belief here in Africa. What do you think about fighting in dreams? Does it mean you are going to have a physical fight in the real world? I'm sure you are beginning to ask yourself different questions. Fighting in your dream means struggling. It shows that you are struggling either in your spiritual realm or in the physical realm. It shows that you're struggling so hard to get out of a mess or struggling to be at the top. But there are different fights in dreams too. There are times that you fight with only women, there are times that you fight with only men, and there are times that you fight with your family members or people that you don't even know.
My advice to everyone is to be spiritually fit. A lot of you are weak in the spiritual realm and that's why you always lose the fight you had in your dream. Losing the fight in your dream simply means that your enemies will conquer you. When you fight in your dream and ran away, it's also a bad omen. This means that you are not spiritually fit too. It shows that you are very scared to face your enemies. Instead of facing your challenges, you ran away. The problem will never stop happening in the real life. It will keep occurring because you ran away from your struggles when you traveled to your spiritual realm. Lastly, when you fight and win, it's a good omen. This is the best feeling of dreaming that you fought. Whenever you dream that you fought, and you won in the dream, it means that you have conquered all your enemies.
Begin to think of it. Have you fought in your dream? If yes, how was it? Did you win it? If you won, congratulations. If you didn't, check yourself spiritually 🙏.
May the good Lord be with everybody🙏.
Today's Article.
I woke up very happy today and I checked all of the platforms that I write on. A lot of times I usually spend over three to four hours writing on all of these platforms, creating some posts, and doing other things on my phone at the same time but today seems to be very different. Everything was just so fast it was faster than before and I became very happy because I realized that whenever I press my phone too much, my hand always pains me and it makes my eyes pain me also. So, I'm glad that I won't press the phone so much like I used to do. I am always very happy whenever I finish writing on all of the platforms that I write on very early because I will be off my phone for a few hours and I would be able to rest. The only person I talk to online is my boyfriend and that is when he is available. If he is not available, I will not talk to anyone.
I also do not like to stay inside for long because if I stay inside for long my body will begin to pain me. It will make me feel like I did not stretch myself and I needed to do so. My body began to pain me today so I decided to take a stroll on my street just to buy some junk that I will eat in the afternoon. I am a junk lover. I love junk so much. I brought some junk and got back inside. Another thing about her is that whenever I go out to buy my junk, I always finish them very fast. You hardly see me have junk that I don't feel like eating at home
I'm a foodie.
My body began to pain again so I decided to walk around my compound. I took some pictures of my compound which I will love to share with you but before I share them with you, I want you to know the kind of house that I live in. I live in a flat let but I will be leaving soon because I only came here for a program which is about to end in a few months from now. In a little way, my house is beautiful and we have beautiful neighbors but the only thing I don't like about my neighbors is that a lot of them seem to be proud and we hardly talk to each other.
Whenever I am bored, instead of me to go to someone else's room, I would just take a stroll around my street or just walk around the compound so that I'll be able to feed my eyes. Because I wanted to stretch my body, I came outside and started to take pictures of my compound and the corridor. I said something here yesterday that I always have you guys in mind and I always think of how to update you all every time so I took out my phone and start to take beautiful pictures of my compound even though my phone camera is not very okay.
Let's check them out.
These are the only pictures of my house that I took. Oh, I'm sorry for calling it my house. It's just a rented apartment which belongs to my sister. We didn't build it😅. No matter how lazy I am, I always find something to do. I am an achiever and I achieved my today's aim. What's my aim today? I aim to complete my unfinished articles today and at the same time write another one that I can post some other day.
Even though I did not go to work I still achieved something reasonable.
Have a nice time everybody
I love you all❤❤❤
I Think Men Are Like That.
If you read my articles a lot, you will realize that I would love to travel to so many countries. Traveling is one of my hobbies but it is quite unfortunate that I don't have enough funds to do so. There is a friend of mine whom I met on blurt. He is so rich and he loves to travel too. I have seen pictures of what various places looked like because he shared them with his audiences on his blog. Also, I am a very friendly person. I wish to meet various people from various parts of the world. There are a lot of friends that I have not set my eyes on but we always talk like we are with each other. Why am I being kind? It's in me, naturally. I won't be kind to you because I need something from you. That's just like trying to extort you stylishly. I'm also being kind because I want to know you more, I want to share my experiences with you and also make you share yours with me. There are other advantages to being kind to people but that's a talk for another day.
One thing I noticed about men is that men switch up easily. I mentioned earlier that I wish to visit as many countries as I can. I wish to know men from other countries. I wish to meet with them. I wish to know if they have the same behavior as the men that I have met here and that's why I said I love to share experiences with different kinds of people. I think that's cool. Men switch up easily. Let's take heartbreak as an example. A lady may continue to cry or still think about it for a long time while a man will get over it in a short period. Why? Is this how every man is? If you are observant of your man, you will realize that it's not every day he uses those sweet words for you. I'm talking of baby, honey, and those sorts of words. Sometimes, the man may just call you the name that common people call you. This thing makes me mad!! Sometimes, they will talk to you like you guys are just friends and nothing else. I guess this makes a lot of ladies think that their man is cheating. The gentleman may not be cheating. He may just be thinking of how to make some money and that's why women are always quarreling with their men. My man calling me the normal name outsiders call me is weird. He does not call me that and we may get talking sometimes and he will call me that name. I think a lady should understand that it may be normal or the man may not be in the right frame of mind but most ladies will quarrel with their man as I will do too 😅. I got no chill bro😅😅.
Let's talk about cheating. Is it every man who cheats? I have made my research and realized that not every man cheats but a lot of them cheat. I have dated two guys before now and they both cheated on me. My female friends are always complaining about this too. I dislike cheating. I will cry!! I'm a very jealous person and I so much dislike it when I am sharing my man with someone else. I can't cheat because the moment I cheat on my man, I will begin to like the other man, and there are high chances of me leaving my man so I won't cheat. I always believe that if my man cheats, he feels something for the other lady too and this will make me feel insecure. I don't like cheating😭. A lot of us believe that all men cheat. I got talking to a friend on this platform two days ago and he said no matter how things are in his relationship, he will never cheat. Isn't he a man too? Why am I always meeting guys who cheat? At the end of the day, I still concluded that every man cheats but if you ask them about this same thing, they will tell you they don't cheat and they will still go behind you to do so. I may be wrong here but I'm talking based on my experience and based on what I have seen happen to my friends.
It's quite unfortunate that I can't remember the general things that men do. Who else can remind me? What else?
It Was Wasted.
As you all know, I'm a very happy person. I always come here to give you good news or talk about the issues of society and find a way to solve these problems that we are facing in society. But today's article will be very different because I heard sad news last night and it is disheartening. And the only thing I could do was to tell the person not to think too much about it and move on with life. I have read a lot of articles on this platform and I know a lot of writers on this platform are parents either mothers or fathers.
I have a very beautiful friend. She's one of the nicest people I have ever known. Even though she is older than me for over 4 years she still treats me like a sister and a very good friend. She is not my best friend due to a few reasons but she's very close to me as she tells me almost everything going on in her life. This lady has faced a lot of tribulations in life. From family, from friends, from relationships, and so on like that. I met her during my university days and she came from a family where they find it hard to eat three square meals daily so I always help her out. Sometimes when she does not have money to feed herself, I'm always there for her. I am not trying to brag or to tell everyone what I did for her but she deserves it and I'm just sharing some experiences about what a lot of people face in life because we see them outside smiling and we don't know they are dealing with a lot inside. That's why there is a face behind every smile.
A few months ago she told me that she wanted to commit suicide due to a lot of things that she has been facing. I felt bad but asked her to calm down then she revealed to me that she was pregnant. Do you all know how bad it is to get pregnant when you don't even have enough to feed yourself? It would have been better if she was from a rich home but she was neither rich nor her family. The guy who also impregnated her was doing well financially and he was not even buoyant enough to train a child because training the child is not all about home training and all. You need money to take care of a child as we all know we need money to take care of ourselves.
She should have given birth a week ago due to the date she was given in the hospital but she didn't. I think she had a delay or something. And I learnt that she already bought almost all the things she needs to take care of the child when she gives birth to the child. I'm talking about the clothes diapers and all. I've already started planning how to go to the city to see her and the baby when she gives birth and I already plan to spend some amount of money because she's not the kind of person that would give birth and I would not be there. I will always be available for her. I just thought of checking on her yesterday because she's close to giving birth already and I think she needs someone that will always check on her, on how she is doing, if the baby is kicking and all of those things entirely. I asked her if she was doing okay and she said no. I began to wonder what could have happened. I asked her what happened and she said she already gave birth to the baby but... But what??? She lost the baby!! It is quite unfortunate and disheartening. The people who have given birth here will know the pain of carrying a child for the whole 9 months and at the end of the day, you are going to lose the child. It's painful!!!
God knows I am pained right now because the baby would have been her source of happiness. I can't even imagine how she will be feeling right now. My sister's boyfriend was there when I was speaking with her yesterday and he said malnutrition may be the cause. I don't know but I just reasoned with him because I know my friend does not eat well. Anyway, the deed has been done.
I hope she comes back stronger!!!
What was wasted? The whole nine months were wasted!!!
Anikulapo The Movie.
Nigerians are one of the most updated people on earth. Nigerians are very current and we spread information so fast. No matter what location where something is happening, if a Nigerian hears about it, just know that it takes a few minutes for it to spread all over the country. It is just sad that some of this information turns out to be fake news and it would have spread across a lot of places before we realize that some of them are fake news. Recently I have been seeing the title of a movie on people's status. The language spoken in that movie is the Yoruba language. It is one of the 250+ languages that we have in Nigeria. It is the second most popular language in Nigeria. The movie is titled Anikulapo. I would have loved to narrate the movie to you but I'm not a good narrator. I may not narrate it well. I will just tell you the lessons I learnt from the movie and I hope we relate to those lessons.
The first lesson I learnt in that movie is to value whatever we have. I think a lot of us are affected by this. A lot of us don't know how to value what we have until we lose it. And when we lose it, we may not get it back. That's why we should value it!! In this movie, there is a young queen who is the favorite of all queens in the palace. She is the one the king loves most and it is very obvious in the palace. Most of the other queens are jealous of her but the Queen does not value what she has. She saw a young handsome man and decided to flee with him. When they got to their destination, the young handsome man began to treat her like a slave and even married two women after her. She regretted her actions. She regretted not valuing the king when the king showed her so much love. She cried but could not go back to the king because she was sure that the king won't accept her back.
The second lesson I learnt here is not to bite the hands that fed you. This is so important and I hope everyone learns from this. Africans have a lot of spiritual powers. In that aspect, I can say that we are blessed. We have a lot of charms that we can use to prevent evil, in old the spirit of the dead and so many powers like that. While the Queen and the young man were planning on fleeing to another village, she took something from the palace. It is a guard that can help to wake the dead. When these young lovers got to the other village, the son of their helper died. The pretty queen gave the guard to her lover so that he will wake the dead. It happened. The dead boy arose and they all thanked the man thinking it was the man who owns the power not knowing that it was the wife who is supporting the man.
The man became popular and they gave him a new name in the village. He was named 'Anikulapo'. Anikulapo means 'the one who has death in his pocket' in the Yoruba language. He became popular that he began to marry different wives in the village. It was quite unfortunate that the young queen didn't give birth but other wives of Anikulapo did and it's one other reason she was treated like a slave by her lover and his other wives. She regretted her actions and decided to punish 'Anikulapo' her lover. She emptied the guard which he used to wake the dead and left the house. Anikulapo came back and heard that she left already but he did not bother to search for her. Unfortunately, the prince of the village died and Anikulapo was called to come to wake the dead. He requested something huge. He said if he woke the dead, he will get married to the princess.
The King got angry but had no choice but to accept the offer. When it was time to wake the dead, Anikulapo did it as usual but the dead refuse to rise. He then realized that the young queen already emptied the guard. He was punished severely by the villagers and he was sent to the forest. He regretted his actions too by betraying the young queen.
Anikulapo bit the hands who fed him.
Don't Live Your Life Based On The Media.
Hello wonderful people. I hope we're well. It's morning here in my country. I'm quite free today so I will be able to upvote many articles as I wish. Just wait for my visit on your articles. One thing I will never stop doing is appreciating people's work. I also love the fact about a lot of people visit my articles and tell me I wrote well. These people motivate me to keep on writing better. They are my motivation and for you reading this, you are one of them. You are not exempted. Whenever I am tired and think of not writing on that day, I will begin to remember the people who read my articles and embrace them and it makes me get up on my feet to start writing again. It works for me like magic. If you don't do this, you can begin to do it. I'm very sure that it will work for you too.
A lot of us know that I love to write about the ills of society. I love to call people's attention to what I feel is wrong in society and I love to ask how we can go about it or how we can put a stop to it. And even if it doesn't stop, we should be able to curb it from spreading. What I'm about to write today is very common now and I think we have accepted it and embraced it as a good way of living but I don't think it is a good way of living. I will start with some questions. Why is it that a lot of us love to showcase our private lives on social media? Why is it that a lot of us love to live our life depending on what we see on social media? A lot of us follow the things or the advice that we see on social media and at the end of the day, it doesn't work out well for us. A lot of people now see social media as a teacher that teaches us how to live life.
Right now, some people cannot live without the help of social media because they tend to post everything happening in their life on social media which is not supposed to be. With social media you can tell the location of some people, you can tell what they are, what they drank, where they are going, what they have planned to do with their life and every other thing you need to know about them and those things are supposed to be hidden and not for the media. There is a general thing everybody should know that we are supposed to plan in private and implement it for people to see what we have done later. Don't post your plans on social media!!! Also, it is very cool and very normal to post up your spouse or your partner on social media but some people tend to do this every day. Some people want us to see how beautiful or how romantic your relationship with your partner is. One thing I know about the media is, they don't like beautiful things. Whenever people on social media see something very beautiful, they tend to destroy it with their negative comments and that is why you see a lot of celebrities that don't have a stable relationship because they tend to post everything happening in their life on social media and forget that the only thing they owe the media is their creative work and not their private life.
And one other thing I noticed about social media is competition. A lot of fake life is on social media and we all want to live like them. We all want to pretend that everything is okay with us even when everything is not, we all want to pretend that we are making it big and that is why you see a lot of people living the life that they are not and when you see them in the real life you begin to wonder if it is the person you know online or not. This is where the competition sets in.
Don't live your life based on what you see in the media. It will ruin you!!!
Making Money Is My Priority!
Good day, beautiful people. I hope we all are doing very great today I have read a lot of articles about October plans and I must confess that they are all nice. I pray we all achieve all that we want in October but we should not forget to do the main thing which is putting much hard work into whatever we do. Hard work is the major way of getting all that we want this month. And even if it feels like you are not motivated due to one reason or the other just make sure that it does not cripple your emotions. Just keep writing and keep doing whatever it is that you have planned to do this month. And don't forget the main thing which is prayer. Prayer makes things possible even though when it feels like it is not possible and after praying make sure you put in hard work so that your prayer will be answered because prayer with no work is nothing.
As I said earlier we all have one plan or the other and I know that something must have motivated you to have these plans. Most of the plans I read are based on money and I must say that everyone needs money as long as we need money for almost everything. A lot of us need to change our phones, some people need to sort some bills and different kinds of bills that we all want to sort. The bills should be our motivation. Whenever you're not motivated, just think of the bills you gotta pay. You will surely be motivated. And even if the bills do not motivate you, you can take a break and come back again. Taking a break is very normal but I feel like the break should not be very long so that you won't miss a lot and whenever you take a break, it is believed that you will come back stronger.
One thing I realized in life is that our priorities change with time. The older we grow, we change our priorities which is very normal as human beings. I read an article this morning and someone talked about what was always on her mind when she was very little. She said she always thinks of what to eat. It's just like me too. I had nothing else in my head than what to eat. Food was always on my mind. After a few years, I began to think of how to save. I always save some money that I will use to buy books or some other things I need. The older I get, my plan changes. At some point, I thought of how to look very sexy which made me participate in some Yoga exercises for a flat tummy. Till today, I still have my flat tummy. Anyway, I'm still conscious of looking sexy😅. I love women who look sexy from their heads to their legs, scent nicely, and look very neat. It's cool!!!.
Guess what? I diverted my attention to something else. Even though I'm still conscious of looking sexy, I loved something else entirely. Can you guess? It's money!!! Money money and money again. I began to love money. I never disliked money but I began to love it more. Why? The older I grew, the more I began to realize that we need money for almost everything. All our activities do need money. As I said earlier, I love to look sexy. If I am willing to look sexy, I gotta spend some money!!! What brought me to this platform? It's money. I've been trying to make money online for three years now. I have joined a lot of forums like beermoneyforum, referralindexforum and so much more. For blog sites, I have joined readcash, hive, blurt and serey. I've not been consistent on hive because I'm yet to understand how it works. Blurt look simpler to me and I'm used to it already.
If I begin to ask everyone here your priorities, I'm sure that most of you will say your priority is making money. Even though we will grow older and have kids. It is believed that our kids should be our priorities but we need money to train these children. Don't get me wrong. When you have a child, they should be the first thing on your mind. Family first!!! But the thing that makes the family bond last longer is money!!!!
What's my priority?
Making money is my priority!!!
The Three Ls.
Good day, beautiful people. Don't be surprised that I called you beautiful even though I have not seen most of you before. Don't worry, you're beautiful. You're beautiful in your world. You're beautiful in and out. You're a beautiful soul. As you can see my topic is "The Three Ls". These are some of my principles in life. Everyone on earth has their principles. Some even have principles from letter A to Z. For example I have the Letter M principle "Myself, Money, and Manifestation". I also have others and I'm sure you've got yours too. Today, I'll be talking about my letter L principles. I'm sharing it with everyone. If you don't have any letter L principles, you can make use of mine. I also did not invent it. I took it from someone and it keeps spreading. It's a very common principle. You must have heard about it.
My three Ls stand for "Live, Love, Learn". Makes sense? It makes sense to me. Let's talk about the first L 'Live'. How do you live? How are you living your life? What are your aims in life? Are you comfortable with your lifestyle? Different questions come from here but it's quite unfortunate that I can't remember most of them. How do I love my life? I live peacefully. I live healthily. I live happily. I'm living well! Living at peace means that I'm peaceful with myself. Nothing beats peace on earth. I don't do more than myself, I don't spend more than I earn, and I don't go beyond my means. All of these should tell you that I'm living peacefully. I live healthily. I eat at the right time, do some Yoga exercise to keep my body fit, take fruits, take enough water, and avoids unnecessary stress. I live happily. I always try to find the good out in every situation. Finding the good in every situation makes me happy.
Let's talk about the second L 'Love'. Love is a beautiful thing. Here, I'm talking about all kinds of love either romantic love, friendship love, and all other kinds of love that you could ever imagine. I've always heard people say that love hurts. That's a fallacy! It's a lie. True love will never hurt you. True love makes you happy, makes you smile, makes you more active, and makes you everything you could ever think of. True love comes with support. Only the one who loves you dearly will be willing to support you. These people keep you going. It's not possible to be on earth without loving someone or something. You just have to. If at all you don't love any human being, you should love a pet. One of our reasons for being on earth is love. As long as you're human, you will love and be loved. There are no two ways about it. Remember that it is written in the ten commandments to love your neighbor as yourself. Treat everyone with love whether you know them or not. Everyone deserves to be loved and if you ever feel like you're not loved or you're not wanted in a gathering, leave! You deserve to be loved.
Lastly, we're talking about the third L which is 'Learn'. This is another major reason we're on earth. We're here to learn. We learn every day. We never cease to learn. Learning is paramount, learning is important, and learning is relevant. Apart from the fact that we're writing here for money, we're also here to learn. Why do we go to school? Why do we make friends with people? Why do we surf the net every day? It's because we gotta learn. We live to learn. We also love to learn. At the end of every activity, there is always something you can learn from it. We always have something to learn or a reason to learn each day.
These three Ls work hand in hand and we can't do without them daily. Remember, we live to learn and we love to learn. And note that there is no human being who is above learning. As long as you're alive, you will continue to learn!
Have a beautiful day everyone❤.
Can We All Chill?
In this world, I have seen different things from different people. I have seen people who will wrong you and never realize their mistake, people who are living life recklessly, people who always go spiritual on every single thing instead of just taking it as a normal thing that can happen to anyone, and people who are full of evil deeds, people who enjoy seeing other people cry and all the different people here in the world. All of these are wrong but a lot of people are so proud of their wrong actions and they never want to stop. If you haven't met all of these people I am very sure that you have met one or two of them. They are not hard to find we can always see them everywhere.
Above all, I just want to talk about some things that Nigerian ladies do. I would have loved to talk about the things ladies do all over the world but it is so painful that I have not been everywhere in the world. Most ladies of this generation often go spiritual on everything. As I said earlier it is very good if you can go spiritual on some things but it should not be all things. Some things are just so normal. Going spiritual on everything wouldn't have been a sin if not for what they are doing these days. They are doing more harm than good to themselves to our generation as a whole, to the male or the female, to the young and old because at the end of the day whatever happens we all will pay for it. Let me go straight to the point instead of circumlocution.
I have learnt not to force anything in life. I always enjoy it when things come naturally. For putting my trust in God, he gives me all of the things that I want. A lot of ladies force relationships and if it does not work out the way they want, they go spiritual about it by making the man love them endlessly. I'm sorry a lot of us here are not from Africa but the African people should understand what I am saying. This the ladies use charm to make the man love them. They invoke different spirits to make the man love them. Some people even do it to the extent that if the man does not see them he will not be able to do anything. Why? Why must they force it? Some of these ladies buy padlocks to lock the man's heart spiritually. If I can explain this more simply, I would have done that. Just try to be in my world for the few minutes that you will read this article.
The major reason why ladies do this is because of money. Their man may be very stingy and they feel like the fastest way to collect money from him is to go spiritual. At the end of the day, the man will get to realize that he was charmed and he is going to send her away from his life. This is one of the reasons you see some guys beat up their girlfriends after they realized that the lady charmed them. The world is getting crazier every day. What's bad in waiting for the right man at the right time? I am very sure that older people will never think that the world will be spoilt as this because the youths are involving themselves in things that we should not be exposed to at this age. A lot of us now do things that our parents could never think of doing when they were about our age. We all want things very fast. No one wants to work for anything again. We want to jump, skip, run and even fly. Take it easy!!!.
Ladies don't want to be patient for love again, guys don't want to be patient for money again, and even kids don't want to be patient anymore. They want to grow very fast and some parents will encourage it. How? You tend to see some kids doing things that an adult should do. Instead of correcting the child, they'll rather embrace the child. Everyone now loves shortcuts. Why are we all in a haste?
Can we all chill?
The People We Don't Like In The Country 2.
Hello beautiful people. I wrote an article yesterday about the people that we don't like in my country. I am a Nigerian and we have been facing some challenges in the country which is making a lot of us leave the country. The reason we don't like these people is that they are always committing one atrocity or the other instead of making sure that the country is in a good state. If you read the article I published yesterday I wrote about the presidents of the country, the police officers, and the NEPA staff (electricity). In a normal country, these people are the ones that are supposed to protect the country and make sure that the country is in a very good state but it is not like that here in my country. It is upside down. And that's why we are running away. An average Nigerian is making plans on how to run away from the country but the thing delaying most of us is money. A lot of us lack the funds to do so.
Let me continue to list those people. The EFCC officials are the most useless of all. EFCC means Economic and Financial Crimes Commission. The EFCC is said to investigate people's sources of income. They investigate them when they feel like people are living above their limits. Before your house is searched by EFCC, they should have a search warrant. That's how it should be. Suddenly, things changed. They storm people's houses, beat them up, lock them up in the cell and seize all their properties. Why?? Is this fair? Why are they doing this? It's sad!. Why will they just decide to seize all the properties that someone gathered for years?
The last set of people I will be talking about is the NDLEA. It means National Drug Law Enforcement Agency. Their job is to curb the spread of illegal drugs. That's a good one but they are doing something else. They storm into people's houses to arrest them. They are nothing different from EFCC. These people also need a warrant before they can come to you to arrest you for using illegal drugs. That's how it should be but I'm surprised with how everything turned upside down. These people will take to the streets to shoot at innocent people. It's not fair! There are ways of carrying out their operations successfully. The method they have applied is the wrong one!
It is so funny how the government act surprised by the way people are traveling outside the country. All these are a result of poor and bad governance. It's so sad that Nigeria lacks good governance at her age. I'm sad! We need good government!!!
The People We Don't Like In The Country 1.
I am writing something entirely different from what I used to write. This may be surprising that I am telling the truth. There are people that Nigerians don't like in the country even though those people are also Nigerians. I would have loved to go straight to the point where I think I should sell you one of the reasons we don't like them and mention those people. Most of them don't do their work as they should and they tend to be very wicked.
The first person Nigerians do not like is the president. He hates the entire Nigerians. This is so disheartening because when he was campaigning for that position he pretended to be a good person. He promised us a lot of things and promise to change the country for good but everything has turned upside down. He didn't do any of this. He even worsened the situation of the country. Another thing is that he does not care about the welfare of the citizens. Even though a lot of sad events happen every day, he turned a deaf ear to our sad events and continued what is not even relevant to the country.
Another set of people that Nigerians don't like is the Power Holding Company of Nigeria. I think this should be the most annoying set of people in the country. A country is supposed to have a light for 24 hours and it should continue like that but this people may refuse to give us light for days without a valid reason. That is crazy!!! And Nigerians too may be very stubborn. Most people do not pay their electricity bills. If you're in a Nigerian community, you tend to see people begging PHCN not to disconnect their light. Some people even fight them. Those PHCN staff too can be very rude😅. Some of them will disconnect your light and still take your wire to their office.
The third set of people is the police officers. Instead of securing the lives of the citizens, they extort us and collect money from us. Let me you how they do it. They will arrest guys, claim that the guys are fraudsters they will collect money from them, and release them again. Is that fair? They have done a lot of damage to the community and this is the major reason Nigerian youths protested two years ago. Instead of securing the protesters, they shot at us💔. This is the most painful part of being from that country. It's messy!!!
My article is short today but I promise to finish it tomorrow. My battery is flat! I will talk about EFCC, NDLEA, and some other annoying people tomorrow.
Enjoy your day❤
Things I Dislike.
Writing articles is one thing I do every day. Would you believe that I find it hard to bring up topics daily? That's the main reason I always check my social media account to see if I can get a topic and I will buttress it with my point. My mom and her friend got talking this morning. They talked about a lady who was very dirty and her husband began complaining to my mom's friend. They began to talk about the things they dislike and I said to myself that I already have a topic. No matter how old we are on earth we will still have some things that we do not like. I am sure that if I begin to ask you all the things you like and the things that you do not as you will have something to say. That is normal and that is why we are called human beings. I would love to talk about things I don't like or things that I detest. You may be surprised and you may not be surprised because some of the things I will list here are things that almost everyone dislikes. So let's go!!
I dislike it when somebody lies against me. I am not a fan of hate and that's why I don't use hate in my articles. It hurts me so bad whenever someone lies against me. Has someone ever lied against you? If yes, how did you feel? I'm sure you will feel very bad. One thing about me is that I will never give what I cannot take. I will not do something I don't like to someone and that's why it irks me when someone does that to me. I remember an incident that happened between my best friend and me. She lied to me and I stopped talking to her but she later came to me to apologize and I realized that we misquoted each other. If she didn't come to me I would be so proud to go to her to apologize so that we will continue our friendship but it annoyed me so bad that she lied to me.
Another thing I dislike is dirt. I dislike dirty people so much. And I can never feel at home in a dirty house. I remember some time ago. I went to my friend's place to spend the weekend but I was not free and comfortable because she was too dirty and I could not cope. I had to clean the house. I began to wonder how her boyfriend will cope with her. I always wonder how people with body odor have sex. How would you have sex with a smelly person? How would you feel comfortable with such a person? Honestly, I am not bragging or trying to make dirty people feel sad but I am as near as the word itself. I don't joke about my hygiene. Some people will be talking to you and you will not feel comfortable because of the odor oozing out from their mouths. Anyone can call this pride but I don't move close to smelly people because I can't cope with them.
The last thing I would love to talk about is when my best friend starts to have other friends. I don't know if this is general but I dislike it so much whenever my best friend that had another friend that I don't know about. It makes me feel like someone is about to snatch my best friend away from me. This happens to me some time ago when I used to have a male best friend. A lot of people believe that there is no way a man and a woman will be best friends without having something together but I can tell you it is a lie. We had nothing together. We had our relationships so there was no reason for us to be together. Suddenly the guy began to have another female best friend. At some point, he changed my name on his phone and saved the girl's number as his best friend. I was pained and I cried. They began today after some months and I heard that they broke up some days ago. This lady took my best friend away from me and he didn't even talk to me again. Recently, he called me and said he wanted to say hi😅. I found another best friend already. It's a lady this time🙂.
Those are the things I dislike.
Have a nice day everybody ❤
This We Do In My Country That I Don't Like.
Good day beautiful family. I am here again as usual. I began thinking of what to write and I finally got an idea of what to write. I want to talk about what most Nigerians do which I feel is not proper. I would have talked about African behaviors in general but I have not been to other African countries so I don't know if it is like that over there. I hope I get to visit all of them and I will gist you about what these countries look like. Let's get to the main topic.
Firstly I would love to talk about what most Nigerian guys do that I don't like. I am a lover of pets too but I believe that you should be able to take care of your pets very well. I have seen a lot of Nigerian guys who find it very hard to feed themselves and buy pets. As I said earlier I love pets too but you should be able to take care of yourself and also take care of them. These guys cannot afford 3-squared daily meals for themselves and they will still add more to their burden. So what do they want their pets to feed on? It is so funny because if you don't have the power to take care of yourself you should not have another burden to your problems. It is not by force to have a pet. And if you need a pet, make sure that you can afford to take care of them. I have seen a lot of guys who use their last money to get food for their pets and they begin to regret it. If you cannot take full responsibility for a pet, don't buy one!!!
Nigerians love to party. It is very rare to see a Nigerian who does not love to party. We just love different kinds of parties. Some people love wedding parties, birthdays, burials, and so on. Would you believe that some African parents prefer to use their last cash to go to a party than pay for their child's school fees? I know it sounds very awkward in the heart but I am telling you the truth. I know a lot of people who do this and it makes me wonder if truly they were the ones who gave birth to the children or if truly they love the children. This is common in the Western part of Nigeria. And when you see this kind of parents outside they would look so good that you will think they take good care of their children. It is one of the worst ways of parenting and I am very glad that my parents are not like that.
One other thing I dislike about Nigerians is that most people live above their means. A lot of Nigerians want to belong to the rich class. They are always looking for a way to feel among others. This is why you see a lot of people borrowing clothes, wigs, shoes, and a lot of things to make them look good. Some people even borrow money to go to parties and even to do a party. This is popularly termed fake life in our country. You will be surprised that when you know so much about people you will know that they are living in debt. Some people do not have a single property because they are living in debt but when you see them outside you will think they have the whole world. This is a very bad habit that I will never encourage. I do not live beyond my means! Another part of living fake life is always wanting to do like the white people. One thing I always tell my friends is that I'm black, I'm not white, I did not grow up there and I see no reason to act like them or even talk like them. I'm proud of my color.
Above all, Nigerians are good people. Do you have a Nigerian friend, if yes, I'm sure you know what I'm talking about Also, every part of the world has its negative attitudes too. These are major things that we accept here and we also know that they are wrong.
I know some things happen in your country that you also don't like. Can you please share them with me?
I Will Never Do It!!
Good day everyone. Today is Monday and some of my friends call it money day. In a typical African Society, we believe that Monday is a day that you should make so much money because it is the first weekday and you should make money on the first weekday instead of doing other things. How many of us have made money today? As for me, I've made something tangible but it's still not enough to serve me for a whole day. I need to make more. Everyone wants to make money!!
I make money online as I am doing on this platform. If I don't want to get bored I will visit my social media platforms and still come back to my earning platforms so that I would not get bored so quickly. I go on and off on my social media platforms and my earning platform too. We all know that social media is very interesting and we can even get some topics to write about when we see some things on social media. I talked about different ideas that you can use to get a topic to write about and I mentioned social media as one of the major ways that you can get something to write about because you will see a lot of news on social media and you may want to dwell on one of them.
While checking my social media page I came across news which was between a girlfriend and her boyfriend. The lady complained that her boyfriend beat her all the time. I am not a chief judge and I can't judge the matter because I don't know what would have transpired between them and I don't know who is at fault so I can't blame anybody. I will only blame the guy for raising his hand to beat his girlfriend. It's uncalled for.
They interviewed the lady and she made it known to everybody that she has been living with the guy for a few months now and the parents don't even know if she is staying with her boyfriend or not. In a nutshell, her parents don't know where their child is. I will talk about three observations of mine but first I will start with bad parenting. One thing I have always told people is that if you are not ready to be a parent do not have a child. If you have a child you must be responsible for almost all of their actions as kids, you need to train them and also have time for them. If you won't have time for your child, don't give birth. How will a parent not have an idea of where his or her child is living? It's very bad. Parents should never make that mistake. You need to know where the child lives, his or her friends, and his or her attitude. I'm not saying you should intrude on the child's private life but know something about the child. You should be able to say something about your child!
The second observation that I have is that a lot of ladies live with their boyfriends these days. I will never tell you if it is good or not for one thing I know is that I will never do it. I can sleep over at my guy's place and then go back the next day or the third day but I will never think of living there because he has not gotten married to me. I believe that most ladies lose their worth when they begin to live with a guy who is not their husband yet. I guess most ladies are blinded by love. Lining with their boyfriends has raised a lot of cases of domestic violence. If you're observant enough, you will realize that most cases of domestic violence is happening between boyfriend and girlfriend. In an African land, a woman should begin to live with her husband on the day of their wedding and not before the day. Things have changed. The world has changed but some morals will never change about me. It will remain intact.
I believe that if you live with a guy, it's very hard for you two not to have something together. We're human beings and things like that are bound to happen. If you keep having sex with such a guy every day, a day will come that he will get tired of you and he will tell you that he is no longer interested. By then, the lady would have aborted up to six pregnancies for the guy, hoping that he will get married to her and at the end of the day, he will surprise her the other way round.
Home training matters a lot too. If you train your child well, you don't need to tell her not to live with a man who has not gotten married to her. She will know. The way we train our children matters a lot. Train your child in a way that he or she will pray for you whenever he remembers you.
Let me say this again, I won't live with a guy who has not gotten married to me! I may not have an elaborate wedding but I want to make sure that we are legally married before I move in. That's my wish.
Man proposes, God, disposes. I pray it happens the way I want it to be🙏.
Different Ideas For Getting A Topic To Write About.
I saw a post from my friend a few days ago and he talked about how stressful it may be when you want to write an article. I used to think that writing an article is one of the simplest things ever but I turned out to be wrong. It is not very hard and at the same time, it is not something easy. It is not easy to look for topics to write about every day and I am very sure that a lot of us are on different platforms which means that we may write different topics on different platforms every day. I think we all go through this every day. I think this is why I see some topics like when you don't know what to write... bringing up a topic may seem to be hard but I think I need to teach you how you may bring up topics easily.
Talking about what you like is an idea of the topic. When you talk about what you like you need to teach us how we can be able to do that same thing. For example, some people love to cook. If you are one of them you may decide to teach us how to cook with the help of some recipes. I think a lot of people do that here. Since it is something that you know it wouldn't be very hard for you to write the full article and before you know if you have written an article that we can read for about four minutes. As I said earlier it is very easy when you know what you are writing. You will just keep on flowing with it and your page will be full in a few minutes.
Another way to get a topic is by going to social media. As we all know there are various things that we all see on social media and it will be nice if you share such information with your readers. A lot of us spend more time on this platform than any other platform which means that we may not even have the time to check our other social media pages. This is our social media. So whenever we see some topics which may be very useful to the world or useful to the people that are here we should learn to share the information and while sharing the information we are bringing up our article and before you know it, you have written a standard article.
Another interesting way to get a topic is by writing about what happened in your area. If you are a good observer you will know that some things happened in your area that you can share with us. You may decide to criticize what is happening in your area and we may be able to tell you some solutions. Also, you may be that person who loves to find the good in every situation so you made the gold in whatever happened in your area today and share it with us.
Another way you can get topics to write about is by writing stories. Not everyone is a talented story writer but I am very sure that if you begin to write stories you'll be very good at it. You know that when you practice something it makes you improve more and more. And I know that most of us here are talented story writers. You may just compose your story out of something that happened during the day and you twist it and before you know it, you already have a story.
One thing I know is that we all have something that is bothering our minds. We all want something. You may decide to share ideas about the thing that is bothering your mind and I'm very sure that we all year are brilliant people and they may even tell you how to go about getting what you want. I have seen a lot of people here right articles about the exact thing I want to do and it has helped me a lot by using their technique to get my results it worked out so you may be that person so don't be shy. I have also talked about some of the problems I've had so far. As we all know that a problem shared is a problem solved. I feel so relieved whenever I share something here. It works for me.
You may add other methods that you know. Have a nice time❤❤.
A Sad News.
For a few days now, I've not been feeling too well. As a result of that, I was admitted to the hospital. I collected a few drips and injections. I feel very better now. I got to the hospital on Monday and I left there on Wednesday. I feel good now!!!. Glory be to God. On getting home on Wednesday, I got a message from my school group chat. We have a group chat where we all can reach ourselves and I'm so glad that the group chat is functioning even after we have graduated. The messages kept coming in and I decided to check out what they were talking about.
We were told to come to school on Friday which is yesterday. They said we had issues with our results and we should come around to talk about it. Honestly, I was scared but my mind was at rest since it was a general issue. I would have been more scared If it was happening to me alone.
My friends and I began to wonder what it could be. We thought of different things that could have happened but we had to put our minds to rest since we have been asked to come to school on Friday. Our lecturers were added to our group chat and they told every one of us to be in school on Friday by noon. A lot of us are not in Lagos so most of us traveled down to Lagos just to know what's up with our results.
I got there late due to traffic. Who has been held in Lagos traffic? If you have been, please raise your hands. I spent three hours in traffic. That's crazy!!. The traffic made me very tired and that's why I didn't write any article yesterday. The meeting started immediately after I got there. One of my female lecturers addressed us. She began with proverbs and whenever an African person starts talking with proverbs, there likely is a problem.
The proverbs were getting too much for us all to handle. We were eager to know what was going on so we asked her to go straight to the point. I graduated from the University in February. Our results were taken to our Alma Mater which is the University of Ibadan but the results were not released as fast as they should be due to the strike. Every federal University in Nigeria is on strike. It's been since February too. They're still on strike but we were lucky that they attended to us. They checked all our results and checked the list of courses we did and told us that there was a problem.
They told us that our list of courses is not complete. How is it not complete? We did all the courses we were supposed to do and now they are telling us that our list of courses is not complete. So what other course should we have done? We brought out our handbook to show them the list of courses that we were told to do. To my greatest surprise, they brought out their handbook and it was different from ours.
Now let me tell you where the problem set in. They changed the syllabus when we got to our final year at the University. The syllabus state that two more courses should be added to our courses. One is the philosophy of logic while the second one is French. I think the University of Ibadan didn't update us about the changes or we didn't even bother to ask maybe because it was not like that before. We asked what the solution is and we were told that we have to write the exam. It's crazy!!!
We will be given four weeks of lectures and we will write the exam after the classes. A lot of us complained because we have moved on with our lives. Some of us are working already so it's not easy to come back for lectures. At the end of the day, we all agreed to be having virtual classes and when it is time for the exam, we will go to school to write it.
It's so disheartening because we may not be able to go for service this year. It may be till next year. Who knows? I don't like the fact that they draw us back. It's sad but there's nothing we can do.
Learn How To Say Sorry.
I was searching for some articles to read and I found one. It was about learning how to say sorry. I have met a lot of people and I am very sure that you have also met different kinds of people. We all are indeed different people from different homes with different ways of reasoning. This means that we may not agree on the same thing. You may agree on this and I may agree on that simply because we are different people and we have lived in different areas and we have different experiences.
Let's talk about learning how to say sorry. Let me share and experience with you all. I once dated a guy that we are always having some issues to sort or talk about every day. Most times it was always about the guy cheating on me but I realized that I will always be the one to say sorry. I think it is normal to say sorry simply because you want peace to reign and if you want peace to reign, one of both parties needs to succumb to the other so that peace will reign.
I did this a lot as long as the relationship lasted. And one thing we should know is that if you are in a relationship with somebody, you should know what the person is capable of and you should know the kind of person that you deal with. I knew it does not know how to apologize or say sorry so I always take the blame on myself just for peace to reign.
Guess what? It worked out. Me saying sorry made the relationship last for a while but we still broke up due to other issues. Have you ever said sorry when you were right? I know how sad it feels that you are apologizing for something that you didn't do wrong. It should make you upset. Yes!! We are human beings and these things are bound to happen. I also do not like to say to me whenever I am not wrong but when I realize that my partner is not ready to say sorry too I just have to say it because I want peace to reign.
What will you achieve when you say sorry? I mentioned it earlier. You will achieve peace. Do you think peace is not an achievement? If you think it is not, then what is it? Do you know how many people are praying for them to be at peace? Peace is an achievement on its own.Saying sorry also makes you respected. It's a lot of courage to take the blame upon yourself just because you want to succumb to your partner. It takes maturity to do that. Your partner or whoever you deal with will also respect you for that.
That's aside. Why can't you say sorry? I think it is pride. Pride is the major reason you wouldn't want to say sorry. What's the pride for? Why the pride? Some people may go as far as not talking to the other person again because their out is too heavy to say sorry. Pride comes before fall. Pride destroys things. If some people could say sorry when they had issues with other people, they may not have too many enemies. If some countries could say sorry and try to settle things amicably with the other country, they may not fight a war.
I used to be very proud until I got out of my home. I gained admission into the University and began to move with different people. I learnt this from them, especially my best friend. She is one of the major people who have taught me to make peace and to say sorry. I respected the opinion and took the opportunity. What if I tell you that saying sorry makes you at peace with yourself? It makes you feel free because you're holding no grudges with anybody.
Saying sorry earns you respect.
Saying sorry let's peace reign.
Saying sorry makes you at peace with yourself and with every other person.
Saying sorry lets your relationship continue and also prepares you to fight another fight. Don't get me wrong, it means you know how to fight. A good fighter resolves the fight and another one will still happen, they'll resolve it and it will continue that way.
Learn how to say sorry today!!!!
Are The Kids Happy?
Are you happy with yourself?
This question is a question that needs you to think deeply about it before you give a response to it. I think the set of people who can answer this question without giving a second thought are our small children. These sets of people live the best life ever. They play with each other, they forgive each other when they are wrong, and they are as innocent as anything in the world. The only reason a child may not be happy is major because of hunger or maybe his friend wronged him. The parents must always provide for this child which means that a child cannot fend for themselves. A child needs a parent or guardian that will take care of him. I know that with these few points a lot of us may feel like we want to become a baby again. I used to think about it before but now I got over it.
Look at you, an adult. You need to take care of yourself. You need to fend for yourself. You need to fight battles in life. You need to go through hardship. You need to be depressed. You need to be sad. Don't get me wrong, I'm not rating for you to go through hardship, depression, or sadness but these factors sets in the more you grow older in life. You just have to accept them as a part of you and also learn to do without them. You need to learn how to handle these moods so that they won't cripple your emotions. I know if a lot of us think about what we have gone through in life, we will want to go back to being a baby which is not possible. If we think of everything we've gone through, we may not be happy. I have a question. What makes us think that children are the happiest people on earth?
What makes us feel like children are very happy? Oh yes!! They used to be but not anymore. The result of our actions is telling us very fast on us that it's affecting young children. It's telling on every one of us and no one is exempted. We are all paying for it including the innocent ones. Who are the innocent ones? The kids of course! They're innocent people who will surely suffer for other people's sins. I know you may not understand my point. Let's take it from here. In the war happening between Russia and Ukraine, do you know how many kids were affected? Did you know how many kids lost their loves to that war. All the children who witnessed that war including the ones who ran to another country, the ones who got injured and even the ones who died. Do you think they will be happy of the situation? Are those kids happy?
Recently, I watched a video online. I saw a woman who was maltreating an innocent child. The child was about two years old. She beat the child to stupor. What could the child have done the woman? It may be the child's mom who offended the woman and the woman beat the child so much. The child cried aloud but there was no one to rescue him. What can you say about that child? Is that child happy? Do you think that if the child grows up, he won't be mentally disturbed by what he passed through when he was a baby? The same thing goes with children who are being molested. Some people have been molested right from small. They are not happy about it and whenever they remember about it, they will become sad through that period. These are kids! Are they happy?
We think the kids are happy but the majority are being affected by the actions we take. Also, we are influencing them to act in that way. This is why you'll see a child do something wrong and he will be very proud of it. A child is tabular rasa. He doesn't know the meaning if what he has done and such a child will continue to behave that way! Everyone is being affected by the happenings in this world. I'm talking about the war, racism, religion and a lot more. I wouldn't say that they are factors of unhappiness. I will never say that!
One thing I want to ask on behalf of the kids is that...
Are the kids happy?
Say No To War!
What is war?
War is a state of violent conflict between two regions, states, or countries. It is a state of a serious fight. During the war, a lot of people lose their lives, properties, and a lot of things. Since war is a state of violent conflict, there will surely be loss of lives and properties.
There are reasons nations fight a war. They may fight over land. Fighting over land is one of the common ways that countries fight a war with each other. Syria and Israel have been fighting over land for some decades now. It's still happening presently. Another typical example is the Crimea border. This is the border between Ukraine and Russia. It's one of the major reasons these countries are fighting a war.
Another reason for war may be religion. Religion is one major factor of war. Some religions may try to show superiority over the rest which is not right. These religions may not be able to conclude amongst themselves and it will cause war. Religion war has been in existence for a while now.
One other reason for war is Racism. Racism has been in existence for some decades too. This one hurts me badly. I believe that every human being should be respected. Whether white or black, we are all equal and we should love each other wholeheartedly.
Why should we not fight the war?
The first reason we should not fight a war is that war embraces disunity. It brings about hatred between people from different races or countries. The hatred may last for longer years.
Another reason we should not fight a war is that there is always a loss of lives and property. Why would we fight a war when we know that it is possible to lose our lives and properties? We shouldn't!!! Let's take a look at the war that is happening between Ukraine and Russia. They have lost a lot!!!
Another reason is that war affects the nation's economy negatively. It makes it hard for the nation to start all over again. Let's take a look at the country which suffered from a typhoon recently. It may be hard for them to start all over again in those cities. They've lost so much.
One thing I have heard and noticed about wars is that the country that wins takes other citizens of the other countries and used them as slaves. Why should a human being be used as a slave? It's so painful. War is not something we should embrace or welcome. It's normal to prepare for war but I think it's not right to embrace war. We should not embrace war. Let's embrace peace!
Let's be peaceful with each other.
Say no to war!!
General Thoughts.
There are times that we won't know what to write about. Presently, my brain is empty. I have no topic to write about. So, I brought up the idea of writing about general thoughts. We're different people and we will surely have different perspectives on everything. So I would talk about some things I prefer in relationships. Let me know your preference. Let's go!
**Do you prefer a talkative or a reserved person?**
I love reserved people. I love people who don't talk much. Most reserved people are always sensible. There's a saying that "the empty drum makes the loudest noise". Though I'm talkative and I enjoy it. I love the fact that I always find it easy to express myself. At the same time, I'm a reserved person. I know when to talk, I know when to keep quiet, I know when to play and I know how to act depending on the kind of people around me at the moment. I can't be talkative and expect my man to be talkative too. I need a reserved man!
**Calls or texts?**
Calls all the way! I prefer calls. This depends on the person. I don't like talking to too many people. It makes me feel somehow. But if I want to talk to my partner, I prefer calls. I may call from morning till night and I won't get tired of it. Hearing someone's voice is a different vibe entirely. It makes me feel good and it makes me feel like the person is with me presently. I may decide to text every other person but if I'm to talk to my lover, I'm taking calls!!!
**Kisses or hugs?**
This is hard for me to choose😅. I'm being dicey here. I don't know if I should choose a kiss or a hug. I love both. But I prefer to hug more. Do you know why? It's because I love to perceive the scent of my man. I love it when my man scents nicely and this would make me fall in love with him more and more. I love it when I hug my man and I begin to scent like him. Especially if the perfume lasts longer on me😊. I love beautiful fragrances 😊😊.
**Troublesome or peaceful?**
I'm a very peaceful person. If you check a lot of my articles, you'd realize how much I love peace. Peace is everything I've always wanted. But when it comes to my man, I'm always giving him too much trouble 😅. I'm a pest in his life. I always love to talk to him every time but there are times that he would be very busy which means he wouldn't be able to talk to me but I may be so desperate to call him continuously or even text him continuously. And if he doesn't respond to me, I'll begin to say he's wicked, he's ignoring me, and all sorts of things. I'm sorry my baby😅.
I'll see y'all later again❤.
@Bisolammy
