What is love?

What is love? Do you still remember this ,one of the many questions in your slam book?Do you still have your own motto about love? And being a grown up does your preferences and definition of love differ from what you have written on the slam book during your high school days? Maybe ,yes? Or it could also be no.

As the years passed I met different people with different views and experiences about love. Ihave these circle of friends who have different tye of love genres. I have this two friends, they are actually couples and been in a relationship for seven years since our third year college period. They went on and off and even broke up for half a year but then still manage to be together until now and happy to tell you that they are going to be married the soonest. They were destined to be with one another. It was love that brought them back together after their heartbreak.

I have also these gay friends,actually I have a lot of friends who are member of the LGBTQ COMMUNITY. They are fun and happy to be with.And when it comes for love they keep it really intimate and true just like for this opposite sex relationships.One of my gay friend recently broke up with his partner for three years. It was his toughest relationship so far.Their relationship went through a lot too. They have this high and low time. I can say they were happy together. But then it ended. It should end, for my friend's sake and happiness.My friend loved his partner so much that he even kneed and begged for another chance for their relationship. He accepted everything just to make their relationship secured and whole.But one day he woke up realizing it is too much.Too much love that he nearly died.He was battered by his partner.That ended their relationship and my friend is now in an open relationship ,still moving on with his ex.

Another friend of mine who is also a gay has also recently ended one long term relationship.But unlike my first gay friend ,this friend of mine really is a play gay.Sorry for the term guys.This friend of mine liked to mingle with another relationship even he is already in a relationship.He is always the reason why his past relationship ended and ruined.I do not know if what does he really think about love.Or what does he really like about love.His parent accepted him for who he is and all the relationship his in but still they(his parent) could not understand him why he keeps ruining every relationship he was in.He loves playing around and flirting to another guy or to anyone who is also a member of LGBTQ.He is a handsome guy,or gay i mean .He even look like a kpop idol.Thst could be the reason why he can easily get into a new relationship .Admit it or not ,a good looking is a plus.

So now,with these three different relationship that I share to you guys,how do you define love in your own perception and understanding.How is your relationship with your own partner?It is still a healthy relationship or can you consider it as a toxic one .Another friend of mine always tell us,do not settle for less ,you must settle for the best.But what is the best when it comes to love?Isn't it that if you love a person you can accept all his or her flaws and imperfections.So how can we say it is the best then?Do not be in a relationship because you are just flattered with sweet words or do not be in love with love itself.Because its will not always be a bright day there will always be the storm and rain in every relationship.You should be ready to handle every hindrances and obstacle on your way.You can never say it is love until you find the one.

Thanks for reading guys,feel free to comment below about your definition on love.Until my next article guys,happy reading