Signs that you belong to the ranks of modern gentlemen

In a patriarchal world, boys always get the top position. Women, placed in a position that is always at the bottom. But now it's no longer there. Like the Prime Minister of Canada, Justin Trudeau said "It's 2015..." Today, there is no longer anyone who is the greatest between boys and girls.

But you guys can still make themselves feel proud and great. Prove that you are real guys with the following things:

1. Don't claim to be a football fan if you don't support your own city club and don't follow their home & away matches!

If you like football, it's not complete if you don't come to the stadium. The stadium is like a mandatory destination for football lovers. It's also incomplete to love football, if you don't love local football. Especially the football area where you live. If you are a man, support your local club when playing outside the cage. You will feel the sensation of sitting, standing and supporting a club surrounded by home fans.

2. There is nothing wrong with having a phobia, but please don't show it off. Especially if it's just a cockroach.

Do you have friends who jump in fear when a cockroach flies? Or is that your boyfriend? Or are you alone? ish. He said that a real man, cooking and flying cockroaches was afraid. Be a real boy bravely face the flying cockroach alone.

3. Dare to speak up when someone is oppressed. For example: Don't be afraid when there is an annoying senior.

Senior and junior, are two words that will always haunt human life. In student life will not be separated from these two words. As juniors, we are forced to submit to seniors. If you're a real guy, fight your seniors who are annoying and act out of bounds. Because there is no such thing as a senior is always right.

And the most important thing is that you don't do the same evil thing when you become a senior later.

4. What is the meaning of a real man if he still often litters… A real man always loves and cares for his nature.

Hygiene was part of faith. Disposing of garbage in its place is an obligation. It's useless if you claim to be a traveler if you still like to leave trash in the places you visit. If you feel like a real guy who likes traveling, don't leave any trash on your travels.

5. Prove that you are a guy who can keep his mouth (and mind) from swearing

One of the habits of men is to issue swearing or swearing. Usually, intentionally or not, swearing and swearing are always comfortable for us to say. They even seem to become habits that are hard to break. Indeed, sometimes our intentions are only limited to releasing emotions. But have we ever realized that it is included in noise pollution. Your swearing is nothing more than trash that doesn't deserve to be thrown away. So, keep your mouth from swearing and swearing.

6. Real men always keep their promises!

Have you ever heard the saying “Promises Are Debt”? So important is a promise, that it is likened to a debt that we must pay off. So is the promise. When we promise, it means we have an obligation to pay off our promise by paying it off. Only a cemen guy can easily break a promise but always break it.

7. Respect other religions is proof that you are a real guy

Indonesia is a multi-religious country. Indonesia has 6 religions and beliefs whose number cannot be counted. So many. For this reason, respecting the existence of other religions is an obligation. It's not enough to be a boy if you can't treat adherents of other religions the same way we treat followers of the same religion as us.

8. Put Women and Children First When In Public Transportation

Have you ever taken public transportation? Buses, trains, planes, angkots, and busways are some examples of public transportation. If so, have you ever struggled to get on public transportation? To be a real man, all you have to do when faced with a situation like this is to put women and children first. Can you stand crammed with women and children?

9. If you are a genius, do not give false hope to your crush. Don't promise marriage (even though you don't want to) to your boyfriend. Stop PHP!

Often we hear the flirtation of boys when approaching girls. Sometimes, a girl who is approached is nothing more than a comforter for a broken heart. What's more annoying is when guys make girls as mere lust gratification. Therefore, if you are a gentle guy, get rid of false hopes in your life dictionary. Give certainty of love for your crush girl.

10. If you are really serious with your partner, prove it by coming directly to his parents. Then apply!

Showing the seriousness of love is not easy. But for guys, it's an obligation. When you are ready to get married and have a partner, go to his house, talk to his family, then propose to him. Show your seriousness in front of their parents. Make sure your partner's parents are sure that you are the right partner for their child.

It's not easy being a real man. There are so many obstacles and obstacles that you have to overcome. But if you've gone through this, the nickname of a real man is already engraved in your heart. Good luck.

Image source from original photo

Image source from unplash.com

Image source from tribunnews.com