Revenge never ends...

I was just randomly thinking about some aspects of our society. We often hear about revenges in our daily life . I thought I should write about it.

If you want to restart,then you have to be ready to leave your past.

Revenge is truley useless, all the obstacles and problems of past are the lessons to be a better person today.

Some people may have wronged you, just forgive them, even if they don't ask for it.

Revenge comes from the Late Latin revindicāre, from the Latin verb vindicāre, meaning “to protect,” “to avenge,” or “to punish.” The words vengeance, avenge, vindicate, and vindictive are all based on the same root of revenge.

Now the point is " WHY SHOULD I? "

Because grudges, hatred and sense of revenge starts fire inside of you, it burns your inner peace of mind and destroy your own peace and happiness. Inshort this is not going to satisfy your soul.

Some people say " WHAT IS REVENGE? "

Revenge is like getting a behaviour of the other with full approval.

Like He or She did that to me so I will do same with them. This is being a follower of evil.

"WHAT SHOULD I DO IN THIS CONDITION?"

Go for coffee or a movie and try to engage with your friends. This will help take your mind off your desires and make you feel happy, instead of stressed or angry. Let time pass. Over time, you will process your emotions, and the desire for revenge will become less intense.

"REVENGE ACCORDING TO ISLAM"

Its in your hand what you choose,

You wanna go and did the same,

Or put all the matter on Allah (swt).

In quran verses 16:26 says:

        "If you take revenge, then do so only in proportion to the wrong done to you. But if you bear it patiently, that is indeed best ,For those who are patient"

Revenge only can do by the law on islam not by personal. As law, you need the proves too. Mostly about seriously crime or like that.

But if you have personal grudge, its may okay but dont try to revenge. Given sorry is better than anything on islam. But if you still having need revenge, just ask Allah do it to who's among your haters. And belief Allah is having all justice. Because ‘having wanted to revenge’ actually danger for your mental health. Asking revenge actually shove two grave on earth, one for you another for ‘your enemy’. If you succed you also harmed more but if you fail, you harmed twice.

"IS IT MAKES US FEEL BETTER"?

Revenge won't make you feel better. You might be thinking that it will also provide great relief from the pain that you are feeling or some sort of satisfaction. Sadly, evidence shows that people who seek revenge instead of forgiving or letting go, tend to feel worse in the long run.

Its quoted from Confucius:

       "Before you embark on a journey

         Of revenge, dig two graves"

Conclusion thoughts....

The past is gone , you can't change it.

But it has affected on why and where you are today.

The future is yours to come. What you can think and feel today is determine, who and where you will be tommorow.

So guys stop punishing yourself for the heartless society/people. As we've heard that best revenge is not a revenge actually, best revenge is to heal yourself , to improve yourself and to make yourself strong.

May all that stuff be removed from your life that's cause of your mental disturbance ,that's killing you inside , that's not letting you to enjoy your life your blessings.Ameen....stay blessed