Do you know that feeling when you have everything under control? When you set yourself something, you worked on it in a targeted way and in the end you got the result you wanted to achieve?
This is exactly what is called success! A man is successful when he achieves what he wanted with his cynical actions. Eg. when I prepare something for the guests, and they praise it. When I am a withdrawn person and I work purposefully on myself and I dare to smile at someone for the first time. Or when I purposefully change the communication with my partner and notice that our relationship really works better. Or when I sit down every morning to meditate and notice after three weeks that I am really calmer and more of myself.
These are all successes, and success makes us happy and satisfied.
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