In the period when someone chooses a partner for a serious relationship, he often does not think about whether there is a big difference between his and his partner's way of raising children.
Many people in that period do not think about raising children at all, believing that this skill appears spontaneously, automatically, in everyone who has a child. That is why they can be very unpleasantly surprised by the appearance of a big difference in the way in which the mother and father of the same child try to raise him. This often escalates into a chronic parental conflict over how to raise a child.
Numerous differences in the way of upbringing are possible. One parent can protect the child too much and, in the opinion of the other parent, make him incompetent. Conflict is common when one parent is compliant and gives love to the child without discipline, while the other is stricter and thus tries to discipline the child.
It is best for a child if both parents give him love and discipline him. A way for young parents to avoid or overcome the conflict over upbringing is to talk about upbringing before the child is born. In case they cannot agree, it is good for them to be educated in this regard or to seek the help of experts who will help them better orient themselves and build a common educational style.
For me, there was a variant, if the mother says she can't do something, and the father agrees for hours, and vice versa. There was never a misunderstanding about it ... But there was always that, the mother says go back to and the father, you can be a little late, let's say until ... Hahahahah, that half an hour then meant my ... That's it was my sweet victory.
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