Sweetheart, don’t ask for people to love you. Never beg for someone to stay. Because things that you ask for should be returned. With interest. Earn it. There are people who will love you no matter what. And there are people who will hate you and you can do nothing about it. Never take things personally. Never change for people. It take a whole lot of time to be comfortable with yourself.
Learn to know the difference between attention and caring. Your wants and needs. Love and infatuation. Stop holding onto people who do not care about you. This life is yours. It should be all about you. You should stop putting blame on heartbreak and pain. I know it is hard. And easier said than done. To move forward with mountain weighing on your shoulder. But you can’t expect people to save you. They are busy saving themselves.
A honest advice i can give to you is; no one can save you but yourself. You have to make effort. It takes hardwork, dedication, time. Anything and everything you ever had. And i know not many people are strong enough to do that. This is the reason why some people make it out and some are just buried in the dungeon of their own darkness.
Because in the end darling, its all about the people who love you and are willing do everything for you. As simple as it is. It’s your mind that complicates thing.
Good dear, 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡