Relationship Goals

Everyone wants a long lasting relationship but most times we unintentionally end it without knowing. Below are some tips to a long lasting relationship .

1. Forgive.

Mistake is something everyone makes at a certain time in their lives. Holding grudges towards one another in a relationship is very toxic and won't make your relationship last. You will learn to forgive your partner for their mistake if you truly love and care them and holding grudges toward one another is very toxic in a relationship, and is definitely not something you want to do if you want your relationship to last.

2.Grow

It is very important to grow as a couple.  That is how you find out if that person is the one for you.  You grow as a couple by spending time just talking and bonding with each other.  If you can’t grow or learn to grow in your relationship, it will not last.

3. Adapt

In a relationship, you and your partner are not expected to have the same ideas and beliefs but the ability to adapt to our partner's new ideas and belief will help your relationship go a long way and last longer. It is important to have your own interests but also open to your partner ideas. This way, you guys will have more things to talk about and even more new things to try in your relationship.

4. Don’t keep score.

Relationships shouldn't be built on what you have done for your partner or how you have helped them in certain situations, or how they make mistakes or make you mad so there is no reason to try to keep score. You shouldn’t feel the need to hold it against them just to make yourself look better.

5. Offer advice, solutions, not criticism and encourage each other.

If there is a situation that arise with your partner and they come to you for advice, offer advice that tries to help them actually solve the problem, and that doesn’t criticize them for what they have done. I’m sure you don’t want to ever feel held back from doing certain things, or trying new things just because you are in a relationship, and neither does your partner.  Make sure you encourage your significant other to achieve any goals.