How to Reduce the Habit of Swearing in Daily Life. If You Can Speak Well, Why Not
Nowadays, with the development of the times, the development of technology and the wider association of teenagers, can easily influence the behavior of a teenager. According to Hurlock, Elizabeth B, Adolescence is a period of transition from children to adults which includes mental, emotional, social and physical maturity.
Have you ever felt uncomfortable when you heard your friends talk dirty? Especially when you talk dirty in a loud voice and in front of the public, you must be really embarrassed, right!
Unknowingly, this habit of talking dirty has been considered a natural and normal thing by teenagers in Indonesia, and without realizing it, talking dirty has also become a culture for teenagers in Indonesia. The proof is that 96% of teenagers in Indonesia still often use dirty words in their daily lives. Over time, dirty words have been modified into everyday language.
In fact, things like this should not be justified and should not be continued. If this culture continues and continues to be ignored, it will have a bad impact on the next generation and will continue to happen to the next generation. People who often talk dirty will be seen as uneducated and unappreciated by people.
Children who hear you when you talk dirty, are also afraid to imitate you! Do you want your children and grandchildren to talk dirty? and do you want to be despised by people and not appreciated by people? Try starting from yourself to stop or reduce the use of dirty words in your habits.
Like other habits and vices, saying dirty / rude is a habit that is easy to do, but difficult to get rid of, because it is inherent and becomes a habit in the individual. It's so difficult, sometimes we don't even realize that we just said dirty/rude. 96.4% of teenagers in Indonesia think that this dirty talk habit is already serious and should be reduced.
As long as we are aware of this bad habit and really want to get rid of it, we will be able to stop talking dirty or rude. Therefore, here are some tips to stop or reduce the use of dirty words from your habit:
Believe in yourself, that talking dirty is a bad thing
Harsh words have several purposes or functions, but whatever the reason, dirty speech is still a bad habit that can make us look stupid or uneducated, can be intimidating, offend others, and make others disrespect us.
Be aware of the habit of saying dirty words that we often say, after realizing it, you will realize that how bad it is when dirty words are spoken from someone's mouth and surely we will look at that person not being able to respect other people. Position yourself as a person who often says dirty and put the people around who hear us when talking dirty, they will also think we are people who can't respect other people.
Start with yourself to stop talking dirty and think about the impact that will occur if this habit continues. Realize, that by talking dirty can hurt someone's heart and you will be humiliated by people.
Punish yourself if you talk loosely or intentionally talk dirty
One alternative way to punish yourself is to prepare a piggy bank or a place to store money that is difficult to break or open. Make a rule for each of you if every time you talk dirty, intentionally or not, you have to put some money into the piggy bank. The money that has been saved will definitely be useful for you in the future, and if possible the nominal money is not below US $ 1.
You can also invite other people who have the same bad habits to participate in this punishment "game". Make sure that everyone who wants to play this punishment game is honest. If the piggy bank is full or successful, you can buy something as a form of celebration.
Because with this punishment "game", we can think before saying so that we don't get punished when we talk dirty.
Try to avoid media that has dirty talk content
Many dirty talk habits, especially in teenagers, arise because of the influence of public content such as music, movies, or TV. Moreover, in today's technology era, it is difficult to filter entertainment that comes from social media, which content creators say dirty easily, so avoid imitating these bad words and ignoring them. good thank. If you want to stop talking dirty then you should not imitate him.
Many bad impacts will occur if this dirty talk culture continues and if there is no intention of trying to stop it. One of the effects is that it can hurt someone's heart and cannot be appreciated by others.
It is feared, if this culture of speech is not stopped, then our future generations will also be carried away by this culture. So come on! build a good generation starting with yourself by stopping or reducing the dirty talk culture!
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