Dishonesty and greed
Living a worthy life has to do with honesty, but to my amazement dishonesty is the order of the day now, people don't care about the truth anymore. Gone are the days that we would want to take a decision and we will be wondering what people will say. These days we care less about what the world would say o, we are just living our lives to please ourselves. You can call dishonesty any name, it's an act of fraud, lack of integrity. But no matter how spoilt the world is today we still have people with integrity, people that won't sell their honesty for anything, they stand on the truth no matter what you do to them.
I came in contact with a man that really disappoints me because as an elderly man I expected him to fight for his old age and the life after not what he stands to gain anymore, just because he was promised a token amount of money he sold his integrity and lied, it was expected of him as an elderly man to shed more light on the case but instead he couldn't help the case he just refuel the fire. The actors and actresses in home movies always show us the practical picture of people living a dishonest live and the consequences after. A child don't have to be taught how to lie before he/she begins to lie, this is inbuilt in every human, it takes God's grace and self discipline to overcome the power of dishonesty.
Greed
Greed is an intense and selfish desire for something especially wealth, power or food. This word greed is also one of the factors that contributed to dishonesty in our society today. That selfish desire to acquire more is always in the heart of man, we want to make more money, acquire more wealth by fire by force. Conveteousness leads to greed and greed leads to dishonesty. Anything money these days tickles the ears that's the only language we speak in this present generation anything else aside that does not matter to people. It takes grace to overcome the spirit of greed because every human has the tendencies to acquire more,more and more but self control is the only thing that keep us from being under the influence of greed.
In conclusion
In whatever we do, let's just remember that integrity matters alot, a good name is to be chosen rather than great riches. Don't soil your good name in the mud all because you want to please people.
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Being grateful
Many people overlook this simple word grateful, we so much take it for granted in this present generation. Any act of kindness towards us we see it as normal thing, we see it as a right.
What is being grateful?
Being grateful is the act of showing appreciation for something done or received. In my tribe, we so much like appreciation if an act of kindness is extended to you and you didn't appreciate the way you should haaaaaaaa you will be tagged as an ingrate. But the right thing to do is to show appreciation for anything we received by privilege. Yoruba is one of the culture with the utmost percentage of respect, if you see elders sitting and you passed twenty (20) times you must greet them 20 times if not you will be told you lack respect, they would have forgotten you've greeted them countless times. In my culture if any act of kindness is extended towards you and you see the giver a month after you must say (eseun ojosi) which means thanks for the other day. This was how we were brought up but it's so amaze me that this present generation don't appreciate things anymore.
I was going to work one faithful day and two neighbours met each other in the cab, one paid for the other and I was expecting the one being payed for to say thank you but it's like she was expecting her to pay before, she sees it as a normal thing not as a privilege, it's possible she had paid for her too in the past and she didn't appreciate it so she wants to retaliate or maybe she doesn't know she should appreciate. Appreciation is very important even to God because appreciation is the application for more. You don't have to wait for someone to tell you before you know the right thing to do. Our earthly parents also cherish being grateful alot you can't expect your parents to do something for you and you put up an ingrate act they won't be happy about it.
Being grateful always open up many doors, those that had helped you and you show appreciation will love to help you anytime you knock on their help door, don't be an ingrate be grateful for anything you received or any act of kindness towards you, it is not a right it is a privilege appreciate gifts no matter how small it is that is what will tell people your personality, it will describe who you are.
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The beautiful beginning
Love is a beautiful thing and it is a beautiful beginning to behold, the sound of the word love makes my heart tickles😘😘😘😘.
I witnessed a wedding ceremony today and i was so impressed because their love story was interesting. The smile on their faces, their dancing steps, all the vibes and fun. On my sitted position I was smiling and thinking of how this beautiful beginning will be in the nearest future. I wished them happy married life. During the pastor's charge for the couples he mentioned something that really touched my heart, he said they should prepare for the storm of life that no matter how sweet and fun their marriage is there will be storm.
The beginning of a love story is always an interesting one but when this storm comes, will they be capable enough to overcome it? I remembered someone telling me last week that am due for marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I laughed myself out that day because marriage ehn haaaaa is an institution that you cannot graduate from. I replied with I don't have what to go with yet so I 'll better take my time and be a role model than go and come back in few years with the story "had I known".
Age isn't a barrier for marriage, you might marry early and have a lovely and fruitful relationship and you can marry late and still end up in a big mess. One thing I want us to know today is that marriage is not a competition, don't go into marriage because all your friends are married remaining only you, don't get married because there's pressure on you to get married, those pressurizing you to get married won't be there to manage your home with you, it will become your load to carry even your parents won't be there to help you carry it, that's why is not something you should rush into. Another thing is marriage is not a do or die affair ooo, if it's not working anymore walk out of it don't die there caring about what people will say, this same people will laugh at you in the end when you eventually loose your life in the journey.
A cousin of mine got married at 24 years and since then whenever my mom wants to address me she normally used her as an example to me, I told her one day because she married at 24 that's not a pass for me also to get married at 24, she was read then that's why she thinks marriage is the next thing and good for her she is a mother today but it will be good for us to take our time and go with all we will need not coming back to your parents after a while saying you didn't know that's how marriage is. Learn the basic things of life, be independent and have the picture of a family you want to build, am not married yet but I already have the picture of how I wanted my family to be, I want to start with a beautiful beginning, face the storm and overcome it and live my life happily ever after with my husband and children.
In conclusion
My advice to every young lady out there, make the lord your foundation that's all you need for a success life in marriage. As you read I hope you will learn one or two things.
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Why does marriage turn sour?
I can't stop asking myself this question over and over again why are there many broken marriages? Why are there many broken homes? What happened to the first love? What happened to the love at sight? What happened to the sweet names the love of my life, my sugar candy, my worldbest? Up till now i havent found answers to these questions. I will like you to read and share your thoughts with me.
Have witnessed many stories on broken marriages and it always amaze me because I never believe love fades but to tell you the truth love truly fades. I met with a woman today telling me her story on the hardship and pains she is passing through in her marriage. The domestic violence she's been subjected to, her story really touched me because I kept on imagining where the love they started with went to. This is a marriage that starts with burst of romance and love then suddenly turn sour, a marriage with four[4] kids. I guess the man no longer see what he needs in her or she is doing what the man didn't want, I couldn't comprehend all my thoughts because it's left me speechless.
Why the sudden hatred?
Why do Everyhing change suddenly from love, laughter, joy and happiness to pains, sorrow, tears, depression and in the long run suicide? It takes tolerance, genuine love, patience and endurance for a marriage to work till old age, a marriage that both spouses can't tolerate each other will not last long, there will always be problem. Marriage doesn't work where there is no patience, there will be one or two things that has changed either in the man or the woman. It might be the character, mode of dressing, food, way of talking and lots more. Some don't have the patience to correct their partner or even overlook some of their wrong deeds which is very important. They don't correct their partner with love, they get aggressive over little things which is not suppose to be.
In conclusion
There is a lot to marriage than the saying "I love you" there are lots of things that has to back up the love you claim to have for each other. If these things aren't there the marriage cannot work out has expected, we should always remember that beautiful and wonderful first love we started with, those sweet names we call each other. Those attributes we see in each other must always be seen no matter what we shouldn't let them fade away because once we start to loose interest in each other that is the beginning of the problem in such marriage. If you call your wife "baby" before getting married please after the wedding continue to call her baby don't change it to mummy dolapo because she has born, if you call your husband sweety before you get married, after the wedding continue to call him sweety don't change it to daddy wa all in the name of he is now a father. Remember all the fun you use to have before getting married, play games, have fun, bring back the old memories of how your courtship looks like, share your thoughts with each other don't keep secrets because once you start keeping secrets that will raise suspicion and problem will begin to arise. Do what you are suppose to do for your partner at the right time and you will enjoy a peaceful home.
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God is real
It still amaze me that we still have people here on earth that believe there is no God, sometimes when I hear people blasphem about God I wonder what they believe in, should I say they are foolish or it's ignorance that is disturbing them.
With all the wondrous works of God that we are experiencing, some certain people still have the doubt if God truly exist or not. Many believe sleeping at night and waking up in the morning it's a normal routine, they don't believe people sleep and die in their sleep, they will say such person was killed by evil forces. Many of us enjoy favour all round and we believe it's a normal thing, there are many people out there who serve God more than we do yet the God chose us to show mercy. We take many kind act of God 4 granted we don't know its a privilege not a right. Many that are dead today wished they could still be alive to enjoy the little we are enjoying yet we complain everyday about every single thing. Part of the kind act of God is the breath of life he gave us, go to the hospital and see people on oxygen they will tell you their story of how much money they spend to keep them alive.
Being alive alone is worth it because when their is life there is hope. Why then do we grumble, murmur and complain when we know all we are enjoying is a privilege. Many go as far as passing blames on God when things doesn't go their way, especially when they undergo little challenges they will start calling God different names, saying all sorts of nonsense to God which is not suppose to be. I as a person has experienced God in several ways that I can't explain his goodness and kindness over my life. There are times I thought have lost everything but it's only a test of time, I called on God and he answers me. I am a living testimony and I can tell you affirmatively that God answers prayers only if you approach him the way you should approach him. It's just as our earthly father you can't expect something from your father and you start with a complain, you will never get what you wanted same thing as God who is out heavenly father, don't approach him with complains instead thank him for all he has done for you and present your requests before him.
In conclusion
Don't be an ingrate learn to appreciate God for those things he had done for you that you call little, if we go to the hospital today we will see every reason to give thanks to God because lots of people on the sick bed wish they can have the grace to walk around, eat whatever they like, visit where ever they wish just like you but they don't have such opportunity. Don't just live your life anyhow give glory to that source of life, don't join them to say there is no God or God doesn't answer prayers, my beloved God is real and he answers prayer just follow the right channel to him and you will enjoy every bit of your journey with him.
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My guidance angels[parents]
I thank God daily for all he has done for me, there are times I wish things could be faster or better but I believe God has a plan for everything that happen to human here on earth.
Who are parents?
Parents are our god on earth, our caregiver, our helper, our guidance angel because they are always there for us when we needed them. I always give thanks to God for giving me a father and mother I can call my parents because not all father and mother are real parents. Have heard a lady said she wish she never had parents because of who they are probably. A parent is suppose to be on the look out for his or her ward, he or she should be a path finder for his or her child/children. A parent is suppose to live a life the children can live up to not the other way round. Many children are out there today fighting for their lives alone with no parental love.
Parental love is very important in a child's life, when a child lacks parental love such child can turnout to be a wayward individual in the future with no ambition whatsoever. That reminds me of one of my neighbour where I was living before, this woman is living with her husband and three [3] children but these children lacks parental love because their mother is always nagging and cursing these children , I mean heavy curses that I can never imagine coming from a mother that carried their pregnancy for 9 months. The same thing goes with the husband, she curses the man every blessed day with no remorse whatsoever. There are times the children will sit outside and cry and I 'll hear their elder sister saying "she wish she had no parents", you can imagine the kind of trauma such children were been subjected to everyday. And not all parents understand this and put their children mental health to check.
I remember growing up, my parents are disciplinarian, they don't take shit and that is how I was brought up. Sometimes when I did something wrong and I was punished I always wish I had another parents that are not as strict as my parents but after I grew up to a certain age, i realised all they ever do to me was for my own good and that has built me to who I am today. Don't see your parents as wicked human beings, they are the best teacher in the world because there are exceptional parents that will never lead us astray.
In conclusion
Parents are the best thing that can happen to any child, they take 100% responsibilities over their children no matter what it will cause them. Parents go extra miles for their wards, they stand up for their children anytime and anyday. They always want the best for their children and that is a parent.
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Being yourself
Happy sunday to you all, hope you are all enjoying your weekend? We have to find ourselves one thing or the other to do in this present condition we are in the country, we can't afford to be short of ideas or have no clue on how you can get legit money to survive.
Living now is expensive, I mean very expensive you can imagine the rate at which food items are rising everyday. I went to the market last 3 weeks to get a bag of semo at the rate of #5200, just for me to get there today and it's #6000. I stood for a while staring at the woman I guess she understood my facial expression, she just smiled and said that's how we see it ooo, it took me a while to decide because I wasn't prepared for that atall but I have no choice than to buy it at that rate because it's a must we eat. Don't just live your life anyhow, create solutions to build a better future for you and your generations to come.
Being yourself
There are many people in the world today that that are living their lives under influence. Have watched several home movies where they acted out the picture of what am about to discuss here. There are lots of grown up adults today that cannot take decisions on their own except it is influenced by another person either a friend or a family. Sometimes we have to sit and think things through ourselves without a second or third party, you want to take a decision on how to make your life a better one, you are waiting for a friend to help you think on what and what you can do to be a better person. Don't get me wrong please, am not saying taking advice is wrong but you should be wise enough to differentiate between the positive one and the negative one.
Some circumstances happen in the course of our journey here on earth that it will be just you and whatever you have in you, you 'll look back, forth and sideways and you will realise you are alone, it will be just you to take a decision to save your life. Then if you couldn't take any decision alone how are you going to survive. Don't let anyone make you think less of yourself, you are beautiful in your own way, it is left to you to maximise that potentials you have in you into a success. In any situation you find yourself, stand up straight and fight through, overcome your fears, doubts and every excuses you might have never to achieve your some. Try new things, pursue that dream.
In conclusion
Low self esteem kills destiny, if you don't know your worth, people out there will not know your worth, you need to carry yourself with high self esteem not pride, believe in yourself, never lose hope and never get tired of trying new things. The world is advancing more and more everyday, there are many opportunities out there to be a boss, make use of you brain and create a world you want to live in. Never live in a world where they dictate to you, you won't go far. Create your own empire, build your self control and achieve what seems impossible.
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Fear and Phobia
Fear is a common phenomenon that every person on earth has in them, there are things we are afraid of as a human being. In today's article, I will be opening our eyes to the meaning of fear, the types of fear so as to know the things you are afraid of, things that causes fear in you.
What is Fear?
Fear is an unpleasant emotion caused by the threat of danger, pain or harm.
What is phobia?
Phobia leads to a fear response even when you're not in danger.
According to Soukup's study, the fear arche types include:
The procrastinator ----- someone that feels reluctant to do whatever he/she wants to do on time, giving it different dates before achieving the goal.
The rule follower------ these are people that sets rules to follow.
The people pleaser------- these sets of people do things caring about what people will say and think, they want to please people so that they can't see them as a good person and at the end of the day, they end up making mistakes.
The outcast------ these are those that finds it difficult to mingle with people, they see themselves different from the normal people so there the society also treat them as an outcast.
The self doubter------- this is the worst set of people, they don't believe in themselves. They always doubt their abilities to attain great heights.
The excuse maker------ these are people that gives excuse for not achieving anything, once they have something to do, there will definitely be a reason why they couldn't do it again.
The pessimist----- these are the people that sees the worst aspect of things than its good aspect. Before they even try, they would have seen that it's not going to be a success.
Types of fear
There are several types of fear but I will be giving us just four [4]
Fight
Flight
Freeze
Fawn
In our society today we have different kinds of phobia, that is things that cause us to fear, and today I will be sharing with us eleven [11] common phobias.
Common phobias
Atychiphobia------ fear of failure
Thanatophobia-------Fear of death
Nosophobia--------- fear of developing a disease
Arachnophobia------ fear of spiders
Vehophobia--------- fear of driving
Claustrophobia--------- fear of enclosed spaces
Acrophobia--------fear of heights
Aerophobia-------- fear of flying
Aquaphobia-------- fear of water
Enochlophobia------- fear of crowd
Pyrophobia------- fear of fire
In conclusion
These are the common phobias in our society today and every individual have one phobia or the other, I myself l'm acrophobic😢😢😢😢 I don't go near high heights atall and this had been my fear since I was little but have been trying to overcome so also you can work on your phobia.
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Infidelity in marriage
Infidelity Is the action or act of being unfaithful to one's partner
In our world today infidelity has become normal thing, people don't see what is bad in it anymore, they believe it's what is in vogue, they believe it's the trend the world is developing into and they must also follow the trend. How will you cheat on someone you claimed to love, how will you say you are tired of whom you decided to spend the rest of your life with. Recently a video is trending on social media of a woman who burnt her husband to death because of infidelity in the marriage. Firstly I will say she went extra mile on her judgement, she let her anger took the better part of her and that has ruined her life now because am sure she will be in hiding so that she won't get caught. She killed the love of her life, hmmmmmm😢😢😢😢 it's a sad story though but I kept on thinking why did it lead to this?
I posted an article lately on deception, any relationship built on deceit can never stand, it will surely crumble at the long run, why then did we keep doing this to ourselves, why can't you be truthful to that one person you claimed to love. I once have an encounter with a married man that told me he wants a relationship with me despite being married. I asked him about his wife and he said he can't be eating the same kind of food everyday, that word shocked me😮😮😮😮😮 I tried to process what that means and he said once am in the system that is once am married too I will understand better. That alone annoyed me greatly and I shunned him off because I don't pray for a cheat as a husband and I don't want other ladies to do that to me too once am married. This man posts his wife every morning with sweet words and despite all this he still wants to cheat on her all because he doesn't want to be having her alone all his years and he doesn't wants to take up a second wife. This is what the world has turned into and we are also supporting it due to the ladies that sleeps around with married men all in the name of making money. Prostitution is now a daily job ladies get interested in. Many do these with no conscience atall, they see it as an interesting job to take on and as the simplest way of making money.
In conclusion
Love shouldn't be built on deceit, this has ruined many lives and homes, spouse no longer trust each other. Everyone is living their lives with caution, this is not suppose to be. Life has turned upside down you will see young girls involving in pornography, marriages are collapsing daily, bad act has taken over the society, no more moral values. We are losing our children to wayward lives , it takes only the grace of God to train a God fearing children in this generation. Build your relationship on trust ,let there be peace.
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Tomorrow
Looking at this topic, you might be thinking it's the literal tomorrow that is day after today but it's not, there is lot more to tomorrow than what we see.
Whatever we do today we should always think of the future, the future is the tomorrow am talking about. Every good or bad deed we indulge in has its own reward and the law of nature cannot be overlooked. The law of karma is real, whatsoever you sow is exactly what you will reap, you can't sow orange and expect to reap onion, every law of nature must be obeyed. That is why we need to be careful on how we treat people and how we execute all our plans in life. Recently I wrote on a topic, be careful who you are sending away from your life which I think we all read and digest it.
In our journey in life, there are some people we meet that we think they can't be of help to us but they turn out to be our helper, there are some strangers we meet that have better plans for us even than our family members. Who will help you in life you dont know so you have to be extra careful not to be the enemy of yourself. Building good relationship matters alot, we can't afford to live our lives anyhow. Tomorrow holds a lot more than today because whatsoever we do today, we are not the one that will benefit it alone, our children, grand children and our generations to come will also benefit from all we've done wether good or bad. That is the main reason why we should live a worthy life so as lay a good foundation for our generations to come.
In conclusion
Our tomorrow is the most paramount thing, tomorrow is expensive, there are some that has ruined their tomorrow with their today, they believe that after today there is nothing they have to worry about anymore, whatever we do today we must be conscious of out tomorrow because that is when we will need help the most. Build a tangible relationship with people on your way to the top because you will surely need them tomorrow and always remember your tomorrow matters alot. Don't act irrationally, don't take things for granted, humility is one of the best key to attain success and to acquire a better tomorrow. Never look down on anyone, your helper might be someone younger than you are, it doesnt matter, be humble and you will see the end result. Protect the future of your unborn generations.
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Relationship
Blessed morning to you all, hope life has been fair? Let's maximize every opportunity we have in becoming a better person because that change we all desire begins with us. Today is another beautiful day to discuss an interesting topic, join me as we broaden our horizon on how to sustain a relationship.
Sitting down yesterday night to watch the wafcon semi-final match between Nigeria and the host country Morroco, a thought came to my mind and I will like to share it with us all. Although the game was interesting but I couldn't stop thinking, the super falcons tried all their possible best yesterday though they were served two (2) red cards it was so painful because my favourite player Rasheedat Ajibade was given red card during the second half while Halimotu Ayinde was given red card during the first half. The game ended with penalty shootout in which Nigeria lost one (1) of the five (5) penalties given Morroco a chance in the final. Am glad because they were the defending champion and they will be playing 3rd place with Zambia, their main priority was achieved and that is qualifying for the Fifa World Cup next year. During the tension while watching the ball, I could still reflect on how to sustain a relationship.
What is a relationship
A relationship is a way in which two or more people are connected. That is the special bond we share with one another. Relationship is not a most a male and female in courtship or marriage. A relationship can be between two friends, brothers and sisters. It takes alot of responsibilities to maintain and sustain a relationship, sustaining a relationship requires love I mean genuine love, tolerance and patience. Being in a relationship with someone requires you to be on the look out for the person, you must be ready to stand up for who so ever you claim to love. There is more to sustaining a relationship either with your family, friends, colleagues at work and everyone you come in contact with in your journey in life.
In conclusion
We meet different people everyday those that affect our life positively and negatively. It is good to maintain good relationship with people no matter who they are, never look down on anyone, never say " I don't need your help" we will always need help, God will not come down himself to help us he will send someone as a guidance angel so why then did we treat people badly. It's normal to get angry when someone offend you but remember what you can do for each other in future, don't let your anger take the better part of you. Forgive whoever has wronged you and look on the bright side. Good relationship with people can take you places in life, places where you never expected either good or bad, maintaining good relationship requires being smart and wise in taking decisions so as not to offend the helper sent to help our destiny. Take time out to reflect on how you treat people and make adjustments where necessary.
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Family
Good morning to all my family here on readcash, hope we had a blissful weekend, the bch is a bit encouraging last week so don't let us give up better days are coming. Thanks to everyone that has been supporting and encouraging me all this while, and thanks to @TheRandomRewarder he has been putting smile on my face these days 😍😍😍.
Family is not just your father, mother, sister, brother, grandma, grandpa neither your aunties and uncles.
What is Family?
To my own little knowledge I will like to define family as anyone you have close relation or bond with, not necessary that you must be related by blood. Some people think family are blood relations but to me it's not. There are some outsiders that carry more responsibilities over one's life than people we are related by blood with. Your friend is your family, anyone that helps you in the journey of your life is your family.
Family is bonded by special bond, they support one another in terms of need, they watch out for each other, stands for each other. Family is very important in one's life because the love you enjoy when you are with your family has no end. Children from broken homes also wish to have family they can call their own, the joy of calling someone my elder brother, my younger sister has no bound, family love is so important in human life, it brings out the best in individual, it helps to see life in a more easier way. Children brought up with family values will know what it takes to uphold the society in one accord.
In conclusion
Family love is important in one's life, that's why they say with family you can attain any height you desire. There is nothing like family, if you have a family that cares for you, you should be grateful because you have more than enough. Indeed family is a virtue.
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Parenthood
Parenthood is a phase in one's life that we will go through that is if we wish, not everyone on earth wants to become a parent later in future but as for me I would love to be a parent when the time comes. Being a parent requires alot more than what we just say with our mouth.
Being a parent requires taking up lots of responsibilities, I mean a lot. Some times I will sit and observe my parents and pity the way they struggle just to make sure I and my siblings are okay. My dad is one kind workaholic, that man will go extra miles to make sure the family is comfortable at his own detriment, sometimes I wish I could just get rich suddenly and stop all his struggling but everything in life has its own appointed time. Same goes to my mom, she go to work early in the morning, rushed back home to prepare food, take care of the house and we the children.
Parenthood is not something only the father can handle neither the mother too, they have to be in one accord to successfully parent their children, parenting is a difficult task, bringing up a child in a Godly way is not an easy job, raising a successful ward is a full time job. Am not saying single parents can raise successful children ooo but I believe it's something that must be done by the two parties. The world today is full of pressure either from friends or families that's why the new generations needs to be brought up in a way for us to have a peaceful society. There are lots of kids out there that have both parents and still turn out as nonetity because there is no proper care for them.
In conclusion
Proper parenting requires sacrifices, a parent that can't make sacrifices for his or her children is not qualified to be called a parent. A parent go extra miles to make his or her family comfortable. Maintaining a home in peace and harmony it's no joke, it takes patience,understanding, tolerance, common sense to direct the affairs of the home successfully. Many young lads go into marriage nowadays with no any sense of parenting. They don't know how to care for the husband or wife talkless of the children they gave birth to, later this leads to divorce leaving my children to become fatherless and motherless. Taking care of the children is much work than the nine months period of pregnancy because children grow in stages, you have to monitor these stages and train them through it successfully. Before going into parenthood know what it takes to be a parent so as to enjoy that phase of life.
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Deception
Deception is the act of making someone believe what's false i.e making someone believe what's not true.
In the world today, deception has become a normal thing, we deceive ourselves on daily basis, people don't believe in truth anymore. People believe you have to lie to be successful in life, the truthful ones don't go far is either they are killed or their life is ruined all because they stick to the truth. The truth has no stand in the world today, deception has become the boss.
Deception in relationship
It took me some time to believe in true love because of what have been through, when I see people talking so much about relationship, hyping their partners, saying all sort like I trust him or her 100%, I just laughed and shake my head because I don't believe in love anymore. When i finally realized that there is true love and genuine people who actually mean what they say, I changed my mindset that not every man or woman out there is deceitful, it depends on who you meet. Our present generation, it's so difficult to know who is who or let me just say we are all deceiving ourselves just like a friend of mine do say that "the dice is still rolling"🤣🤣🤣 but why can't we be truthful? Why must we lie? Why must we build a relationship on lies? What will be will be, that's the law of nature, we don't have to lie, even when we lie at times we might still lose the man or woman we are trying to keep with the lies.
Sometimes I know it's difficult to say the truth but we just have to in order to build a good reputation for ourselves and to have peace of mind because once you tell 1 lie, you will have to come up with another one to cover the ones you've lied in order to protect your self from being caught why can't you just tell the truth. The word of God said and I quoted " you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free " we can build a world with no deceit and the change begins with you and me.
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Philosophy of life
Life it's a journey, life itself is a lesson, I will love to share with us my own point of view about life, feel free to comment and share what your own point of view is
Life is a school, a school we can't graduate from until the end of time i.e when individual dies, that is the only time we can graduate from this school. A school that teaches us to be patient, hardworking, independent and have tolerance. Life is a teacher that teaches us on daily basis, life brings on our way different kinds of people, those we 'll love to meet in another life and those we wish we never met. Life determines alot for an individual because whatever life throws at u is what you will face and work hard to sustain, if it's success you will work harder to sustain it and preserve the good name you've made for yourself and if it's challenges, you 'll work harder to overcome such challenges .
One mistake we can ever make in life is trying to please everybody, haaaaaaaa😮😮😮😮😮 that will be the biggest mistake ever, you can never please everybody. The way you have an enemy is the way you are someone's enemy too. The way you see people you dislike that is the same way some people dislike you too. There are some law of nature that cannot be cheated, we are all created with our peculiarities like the popular saying "one man's food is another man's poison". I might like @ Victor and dislike @ coga for no reason that is why @balikis can dislike me too for no reason, mind you it's just an illustration I love everyone here on readcash. Life is a place we have to do our part and leave the rest, you can't be everywhere at the same time, that is why we should live a worthy lifestyle so that when we are gone, our works will continue to speak for us.
Experience they say it's a great teacher, as the world is growing the lessons we are been taught everyday is increasing that is why you should learn in every phases of life you pass across on your way to the top. Pick one or two lessons that will help you in the journey of life. To live a worthy life, do away with pride, arrogance, disobedience and put on the garment of humility that's the only way you can have a smooth sail. Life is not hard has we paint it today, it just require common sense, being wise to make it through those phases that seems hard.
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The quest for money
Everybody wants to be a millionaire, everybody wants to drive Benz, everybody wants to be recognised in the society but how do we go about our quest for making more money.
The quest to make more money never ends, even if you are the richest in the world today you will still have the urge to make more money, the richest man in the world today is still working tirelessly to make more money. The rich wants to remain rich and even wealthy, the poor wants to become rich but the law of nature must be respected, not everyone can be rich, there are some that will be less privilege, those that will be at the mercy of the rich ones, we can only pray to be among the rich ones.
The rate at which people are desperate for money these days is at alarming rate, you can imagine a 17 years old boy that wants to be a millionaire, a teenager that doesn't even know how to take care of himself wants people to gather to call him boss, he or she wants to command. In the world today, you will see a young lad that will tell you "if I see 50 million today haaaaa😮😮😮 I will do this, I will do that", the money that those that have been working for 20 years never gathered he or she wants to have it in a month. The presure in the society today is so much that people see themselves as useless once they see their old classmates, colleagues and friends living in a mansion, driving big cars, and lavishing money in parties. They result to money rituals with grave consequences but they don't give a damn because all they want is money. That is why ritualist is rampant in our country today, making money is good in fact it is very important to make money but let's go through the normal, respected and truthful channel to make money. Success is only attained by the help of God and hard work, the little business you are doing today can bloom if you are persistent, diligent and loyal in doing it.
Many believe that they can't make it without going extra mile to source for money which is not suppose to be so. Even the word of God said it and I quoted "whatsoever you find yourself doing, do it well", that little business of yours can take you all over the world if you are doing it whole heartedly, don't rubbish your image because you want to be rich, the bible said and I quoted "a good name is to be chosen rather than great riches and the day of death rather than the day of birth". Never indulge in evil acts because of money, the bible said and I quoted " money is the root of all evil". Stay focus in that little work of your hand and God will breath life into it, before you know it you will be celebrated all over the world.
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Lies we were told while growing up
Happy sunday to all my family here on readcash, hope you are all enjoying your weekend? And to all our Muslim friends and families we pray you celebrate more of eidel kabir insha allah.
Growing up in a typical Yoruba home, you can imagine all the kinds of lies we were told while growing up just to scare us from doing some certain things. Also different rumours of things that doesn't exist that we were told, although all these things made my childhood fun but after growing up to some certain age, I realised that most of these things doesn't even exist. It was raining this afternoon in my area and the sun was still so bright in the sky, I remembered back then when I was little anytime such thing happen my grandmother will call me to come and see that ekun(tiger) is giving birth that's why rain is falling and at the same time the sun is still up in the sky, I smiled and imagined how ignorant i was then and how I believed all those rumours.
That opened my memory to some other lies I was told, i remembered one afternoon at the age of 5, I was sitting outside with my uncle in the evening I looked up to the sky and asked my uncle why the sky is blue and had some patches of white, haaaaa his reply shocked me but I believed him because I had no idea of the truth then, my uncle smiled and said "before in the golden days, the sky was on the ground that people can see it and touch it even play inside of it but our fore fathers misused the opportunity God gave them then, he said after eating our fore fathers will go to the sky where it is on the ground and used it to clean their hands instead of washing with water that's why it has some white patches on it, then God got angry with them and moved the sky to heaven that's why it is up there up til today. Anytime I remembered this particular one I do laugh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 because I can't imagine how possible that was.
Different lies that I can't finish sharing with us, anytime my parents wants to go out excluding me from the outing, they will tell me to go to my uncle or grandma to collect jokoje(just to sit down) pardon me I don't know the English, I will rush there just to be fast so that they won't leave me, on getting to my uncle or grandma they will tell me to sit down while they look for it, I will be sitted for hours thinking they are still looking for it until my mom comes back to pick me up, while growing I then realised that there is nothing like jokoje, i was just to sit so that i won't see them while going out or when they have visitor. My childhood was fun because all these lies and rumours contributed to the fun part of growing up in an African home.
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The right partner
Happy eid el kabir to all my Muslims colleagues and friends here on readcash, you guys should drop locations of where we will eat the meat o😉😉 I wish you all more of it insha allah.
In many relationships today, violence is the order of the day, different homes has been broken turning many women into single mothers, many children into fatherless and motherless children all because the couples can't tolerate one another's lapses anymore. Relationship is more than the saying "I love you", marriage is more than the saying "I will be there for you and the exchange of rings. There are lots of things you don't know about each other when you are in courtship, you will get to see different kinds of attitudes he or she never showcase during your courtship days. It takes patience, diligence, tolerance and genuine love not the love based on material things, not the love based on body stature, not the love based on accent or any other physical attributes.
In a relationship it's very good and important to go for the physical characteristics that you want in your partner, be it body stature, complexion, height, accent and every beautiful features you will like in him or her but don't take all these over hard work, intelligence, tolerable, creative, ideal, supportive partner, all these has to been proven , it's not something you can see physically when you meet your partner. Being in a relationship with the right person is the best, you won't force anything to happen, don't misquote me pls am not saying there won't be fights, arguments, disappointments and misunderstanding but amidst all this it won't go far to the extent of domestic violence, you will enjoy peace from within, you will always want to be with your partner no matter what. The love you started with will be rekindled, you will enjoy your marriage and raise successful children.
Being in a relationship with the right person, you don't have to say what you need or want before he or she understands, their will be trust and understanding, people in the outside world will see it as voodoo or charm but you will know all the things you are enjoying is by the grace of God which took you to the right person you should be with. Marriage has gone beyond the level that only the man will provide for the family, it has to be done by the both parties, I don't agree with the idea of couples minding each other business, couples must support each other, and stand for each other no matter what.
In conclusion
Love is not all about confessing with your mouth, put it into action. The right person is always the right person. Be careful how you treat that right person and you will enjoy your relationship and your marriage.
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Be careful who you're driving away from your life
The topic I want to talk about this morning has been giving me sleepless night, I have to think and think of how this can affect the journey of someone's life. That brings me to share this story about one of my boss here on readcash, let me say the author of how I got to know about readcash.
Meet my boss Fashanu Tioluwanimi Ademola💞💞 my baby turned boss, this guy has been a wonderful fellow since we met about a year ago when I joined his church at oyun. Our meeting is one kind funny one because am the type that don't give first impression, I look quiet to some people 🤣🤣🤣 but I am two side of a coin🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can be quiet this minute and be an extrovert next minute that makes it difficult to predict me. On that faithful day, I was sitting in the congregation because am a new comer in the church, he was in the choir unit, a drummer to be precise. During the service, I remain the quiet me monitoring the activities going on but anytime I turned my head to the choir side, our eyes will meet, then I was saying in my mind "what's wrong with this one". I was in choir unit at my former church so I decided to join the choir in my new church too. After like three (3) Sundays I decided to join the choir and gradually we started talking, he can greet person ehn but the gentle me will just replied with no accolades in my reply because I see him as a play boy that just need someone to flirt with, I do see him with lots of girls in the church, everyone calling his name here and there that discouraged me because I don't want to be friend with someone that is not reserved, someone that plays alot, talk with anybody anyhow.
When he talked to me, I don't give him answers like I should, when he greets I answered harshly and immediately the service is over, I don't wait for after service discussion that made him challenged me one day and asked why I don't like talking to him and why I always shun him anytime he greets me. I explained the reasons why I don't talk to him based on my own assumption then he laughed and explained things to me, I just looked at him and say in my mind "this guy wants to scam me"🤣🤣🤣🤣. Then i started studying him, we talked to some extent and damn he is intelligent, we became best of friends and since then uptil now he has been a darling. He introduced me to readcash and have been enjoying my time here.
In conclusion
If i had not given him the chance to prove himself, if I had assumed he is a bad guy and have shunned him off my life, the good memories we shared and still sharing wouldn't have been visible, don't judge a book by it cover👂👂👂 the contents in the book might be what you need to achieve a goal in the journey of your life. Don't misquote me please, am not saying you should associate with everyone you meet in the journey of your life but try as much as possible to know the right ones that will help your destiny, those that sees the same vision as you, those that believe in you, those that are ready to go on the journey to success with you. It is our right to choose who we want to associate with but while doing this be careful who you're driving away from your life.
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Use your 20's wisely
Good morning my wonderful family, as our Muslim friends and families are preparing to celebrate sallah, hope you guys have started emptying your bowels🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's necessary so that you can devour the ram meat with healthy stomach. I pray we see more of it by God's grace. Today's topic will be a learning ground to all teenagers and young adults out there, read and share with your children, friends and families.
Firstly I will like to thank my boss on readcash @ victor for this insight, although I call him Victor Bch🤣🤣, he has been good to me. Thank you so much boss.
How do you live your 20's?
People believe early twenty till late twenty is for enjoyment, cruising, flirting and enjoying the best part of life, although all that is not bad but I think there is more to life than all that. I am in my early twenty and I can say God has helped me to a stage that I can feed myself, cloth myself, house myself and every other little things that I desire. In the world today especially my wonderful country Nigeria, you need to have one or two things you are doing to fend for yourself but it's a pity that today many of our youths don't want to learn any handwork, they so believe in quick money, money they don't work or labour for. That is not the law of nature, there are some things we can't change no matter how hard we try. Your twenties (20's) is for you to be awaken, learn new things, explore the earth, work hard as in work harder for the bright future ahead of you, combine ideas together, enquire about things you don't know or have little knowledge about, hustle like never before and plan how you want to live the rest of your life so that when you reach your thirties, forties and above you will work less and enjoy life at it fullest.
If you ask many people out there now they will tell you 23 years old man or lady is too young to have a big company, too young to have big houses, too young to be a leader, too young to do anything great, when then did we want to start achieving all our listed out dreams at 40 or 50? Noooo😤😤😤😤😤 I strongly disagree with that, at young age you can be successful if you go through the right channel and stay focused.
In conclusion
Live your twenties (20's) wisely, know what you want for yourself, don't be derail on your smooth path to success, I believe strongly in young minds because they build more encouraging future and that is how it should be. The way you begin the journey of your life is so important and the way you end it matters the most. The world is changing, our country is developing, you can be part of a great change too, the soul of a country is the youths. Don't live your 20's anyhow, achieve something, be a good example and show the world you can do exploit at young age.
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Self discipline
Good morning my wonderful family on readcash, hope you all had a wonderful night rest, enjoy your day and remember being your real self is what can take you far in life. Join me as we explore another interesting topic together today.
What is discipline?
Discipline is an act of training to obey rules or a code of behaviour sometimes it involves punishment in correcting an offence. But today we will be looking at the topic from different point of view, you will be wondering right 🤔🤔🤔. Being disciplined is a very important key in living a successful life, in this present century someone has to be disciplined in order to preserve one's life so as to not fall victim of wrong or bad associate. With this understanding, I will like to broaden our horizon on self discipline.
What is self discipline?
Self discipline is an ability to control one's feelings and overcome one's weaknesses. It also means self control. Self control is the ability to regulate one's emotions, thoughts, and behaviour in the face of temptations and impulses. In the world today, people don't have self control anymore, greed has taken over the heart of man, people don't control their emotions anymore in the face of temptations especially if the temptation comes in monetary form. The only thing ruling the world now is money, anything aside that it's less important. Adolescents and teenagers all wants to be a millionaire over night with no hard work. Why on earth has out world turned this way? Where is the self discipline we were brought up with, where is our conscience? .
Self discipline has turned to an irrelevant thing in the world today, people don't care abt being disciplined or not, many were lured into corrupt acts because they can't control their emotions, thoughts and behaviour in the face of the challenge. Before we execute any act outside in the world, it would have been executed in our inner self that is in our mind. If we want to say no to any irresponsible act we can say no if we are determined in our heart not to do it and if we want to achieve success in life we can achieve it if we are determined to, why then are we living a life with a dead conscience?
In conclusion
No one cares about tomorrow, no one cares what the future holds, we just want to have fun with whatever we can get hold of today. That's not how it's suppose to be but how can we change it? The change begins with each and everyone of us, firstly train yourself to be disciplined then go to the outside world and portray a good picture of the world you want to live in then you will be surprised of how huge your change has also helped the world to change.
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Cultism in schools
What I experienced in school today is something I wish and pray never to experience again in my life, haaaaaaaaaaa😮😮😮😮😮 my heart jumped out of my chest.
Got to school today to meet up with my project supervisor and my colleagues to deliberate on how to sort out our project issues. On getting to school, we had to wait for several hours before we were been attended to, I was tired and hungry at the same time. My Head of Unit (HOU) refused to sign our project which got everyone frustrated, sitting outside his office thinking of the next thing to do with some other students. Today happened to be the signout day of some HND students because combined signout has been ruled out due to some circumstances surrounding it, the school management has ordered the signout to be done at the departmental level that is to be done after each department's exam.
Sitting down with the hungry face with other students, some students drove into the school compound making noise and playing music aloud in their car, we were all wondering if they were our students. Few minutes later, a guy came running towards our direction shouting on top of his voice, he was speaking in a language we don't understand not knowing it was their cult slang, immediately those that were sitted with us stood up and started running bringing out bottles, we were shocked and surprised where they got it from at that short moment of time. We were trying to hide when we heard the sound of gun shot, the guy that came running to our direction was the one that shot the gun, I ran like never before. The marathon I performed today, I don't pray to have such match again😢😢😢 it was heartbroken. Immediately soldiers flooded the school compound pursuing the cultists, I guess two parties were against each other that was the cause of their fight.
On getting home, the only thing I could mutter is thank you Jesus because it would have been another story entirely. I sat down to ruminate on how those young guys lives has turned into something else, their parents will be thinking their children is in school doing excellently well not knowing they are involve in one bad act or the other, living this wayward life many of them will lose their lives at tender age causing their parents pains, why then do they involve in this bad act? Some got themselves into this mess through greediness, some through peer pressure and once they are in it, it is very difficult to exit. This will end up ruining their lives at the long run, let's pray and guide our wards right.
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My plan versus life's plan
Hello my readcash family😍😍😍 happy Sunday to you all, hope you are enjoying the cool weather. I brought us an interesting topic to enjoy our Sunday with, I hope you enjoy reading.
You will be wondering what my title is all about, I laugh anytime I remembered how I wanted my life to be, what I wanted to achieve at the age of 20, who I wanted to become at the long run and what life itself has in plan🤣🤣🤣🤣. Growing up as a child, I wanted to become a medical doctor I believe that's what every little child wants to become before the plan changed😄😄😄 many medical doctors dreamers are now cab driver, motorcyclist, makeup artist, fashion designer and so on. Funny enough we all want to be a superstar, a well known entity in the society not knowing life is planning a different thing entirely.
Firstly, in life God's plan is the best, His plan is above your plan and life's plan. He knows what is best for you at the right time. As for what life has in plan for you, it doesn't consult you to ask of your opinion, it just threw the shocker and leave you to deal with it. As a small girl, I told you I wanted to become a medical doctor but as I grew up, I realised medical doctor is not my way but I tried as much as possible to fit in into medical line even though am not a medical doctor, am a nurse which am proud of but in Nigeria today you can't survive with only 1 occupation, you have to have different sources of income which made me into an entrepreneur 🤣🤣🤣 what a nice combo right? That's life's plan I guess, I don't have a choice, I just have to adjust into the system and enjoy life at its best.
In conclusion
No matter what life throws at you, you have the right to accept it or make good use of it and turn it to your victory. Life will always has its own plan, you will always have your own plans and God will always have his own plans. Let God's plan supersede every other plans and you will enjoy the sail through the sea of life. I will love you to share your own interesting story with me on what you plan and what life planned for you, your dream versus the life dream you are living now.
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God's grace
Am writing this with a heavy heart😭😭😭😭😭 so much for a life that can be taken anytime. Sometimes when answers to our requests are delayed, we question God not knowing it's for our good.
Logging in to my whatsapp this night, a shocking message pop up in my department group chat, the demise of one of my course mate, this woman is very jovial and focused. Different questions kept coming in, I couldn't type any condolence message because I was shocked. I remembered seeing her in school last week Saturday for our last written exam, how come she is no more😢😢😢😢? Different messages from those that saw her yesterday, she was a married woman with 3 kids, her last son still came to school with her last Saturday, we never knew that was the last time we will be seeing her in school.
This made me to sit and reflect on my life of how God has been taking care of me, during my 2 years journey for my national diploma, lots of my course mates have lost their lives, lots were rusticated, lots were stopped from finishing due to one challenge or the other, here I am enjoying God's grace. We don't know what we enjoy if we still have life inside of us, I can still complain of not eating what I want, not visiting where I wish not knowing that the breath of life am enjoying is more than enough. She would have planned how her signout will be, where she wants to do her internship and when she is coming back for her higher national diploma just like everyone of us not knowing she won't be alive, why then do we take things hard, why do we act as if we won't leave this world one day, why do we want to accumulate all the things we will let go once the owner of life took it? What is the essence of the power you have that you can't save yourself from dying or from getting sick, many of us today are shouting (sapa) lack of food, money and the good things of life, why don't u seize breathing for 5minutes and see which one is important.
Let's all remember that our being alive till today is by the grace of God. In our day to day activities let's always remember that the reason we can gallavant about is because we are healthy, if you are sick for just a day, you will know that the grace of God over your life is not small. I pray that the lord almighty will stand by her family especially her husband and the little children she left behind. Let's all live a life that's worth it because we don't know the appointed time we 'll be call home(the great beyound). Join me in prayers for her family.
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Self esteem
Beautiful morning to you all at readcash world, hope you had a wonderful night rest. Happy new month and happy birthday to anyone celebrating his or her birthday today and happy birthday in advance to all the July celebrant in the house.
What is self esteem?
Self esteem is confidence in one's own worth or abilities, self respect. Self esteem encompasses beliefs about oneself as well as emotional states such as triumph, despair, pride and shame. Everyone created here on the planet of earth is wonderfully made, we are all created to achieve the purpose by which we are been created by God. No one is a nonetity, no one is born useless, it is left to us to identify that purpose we are been created for and to work towards achieving success.
Why then is self esteem important?
In achieving this great purpose, we have to be disciplined, determined and focus. Self esteem is very important in living a worthy life, the Yoruba adage that says "the way you are dressed is the way you will be addressed " has said it all, you can't be going for an interview in bank and put on Jean on Jean or jersey on jean🤣🤣🤣 you won't be accorded the respect you deserve because such outfit doesn't befit where you are going to. To live a successful life, you need to know what you want for yourself, you can't be swayed by what people say or think about you. You have to see the beauty in yourself, you have to see the success in yourself before the outside world sees it. With self esteem, that is believing in yourself, you can attain any height you wish to attain in life.
What is the difference between self esteem and pride?
These two words are different entirely, self esteem is believing in yourself and taking to corrections when necessary while pride is consciousness of one's own success in competition to those we are associated with. Pride is the feeling of thinking you alone can do it no one else is as good or qualify as you are, feeling without you nothing can be done. Self esteem brings honour while pride brings dishonor.
In conclusion
Achieving success in life is borrowing of different ideas to make a whole sense. Learning from experiences, gathering of knowledgeable facts to help you in your own journey. Self esteem preserves dignity and in life "a good name is to be chosen rather than great riches".
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Heartbreak(2)
Yesterday, I brought us a story of my senior colleague who landed in coma because of heartbreak. Today I will be sharing with us the concluding part of how he survived the turbulence.
A three years relationship was at the verge of separation all because there is no more trust, love, tolerance, discipline in the relationship anymore. The girl started demanding for huge sum of money from my colleague knowing fully well his income at that time. She raises unnecessary arguments and lash him with abusive words at any opportunity she had, despite all these my colleague still put up with her trying all his possible best to keep her but the girl is already gone😢😢😢. She doesn't call like before and if my colleague called her, she might not respond giving so much excuses, he continue to endure going extra mile for this lady just to please her and make her happy.
One faithful afternoon, we were in morning shift and luckily for us the afternoon shift came early. We were so happy to leave work, on our way home my colleague decides to check on his girlfriend while we go our separate ways, we laughed at him and call him loverly. He was so happy on his way to her house, few minutes later we decided to call him to know if he has gotten there but he didn't pick, we thought they are finally settling their issues, everyone laughed and wished him good luck. The next day we were expecting him at work because we were on morning shift but he didn't show up, we called his line and his mother picked up that he was a bit sick on returning from work yesterday. We were all surprised because he was perfectly well when we bade him goodbye, we started thinking what might have gone wrong between him and his girlfriend.
On his way to coma
During the day, we were all wondering what had gone wrong, we kept on calling his mom to know his health condition, we were told he isn't eating nor talking to anyone, he was just crying profusely with heavy sighing 😮😮😮😮that was when we became worried and planned to check on him after our shift. Preparing to round up our morning shift for the day, we heard a noise from outside and we all rushed out to see, my colleague was rushed in unconsciously, his mother gave the report that a stainless steel fell from his sister's hand in the kitchen and he shouted haaaaaaaaaa!!!! and fainted. We were all shocked, he was placed on oxygen and given some other treatments. Everyone was wondering what could have gone wrong, till we left work that day he was still on oxygen, we had to be calling to know how he is. About 10pm in the night we were told he is in coma😮😮😮😮😮 I couldn't believe my ears. No one to explain what he went through at his girlfriend's house. He was in coma for 1 month and 2 weeks, it was then he regained his consciousness, we were all happy but we couldn't ask him any question yet.
In conclusion
After 2 weeks of recovery we decided to ask him what really went wrong with all anxiousness, he broke the sad news to us. He caught his girlfriend in bed with another guy who happened to be his friend, the girl he loves so dearly with his friend together in bed while the girl claims she was a virgin for good 3 years of their relationship. That led to the shock gradually developed into depression and the gateway to his coma state. Thank God he is alive today and he found love, genuine one👍👍👍 he is happily married with 2 kids. Any relationship giving you more than you can chew just walk away, don't lose your mind because you want to keep an unfaithful partner.
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Heartbreak
Good morning to you all, hope this weather isn't that harsh for you. It's cool though but it's kind of cold too, this is the weather you will be thinking you are with your spouse 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but if you are the type that your partner live far away from you don't worry manage the duvet till he or she comes.
Have been hearing different stories these days about heartbreaks, sometimes I wonder if love is even worth it 😢😢😢😢 am not the type that judge a book by its cover but mere seeing some relationships you should know it won't work. I never believe heart breaks can land someone in coma until I saw a living testimony, e shock me too. Join me as I unravel the case of of a guy that landed in coma because of love.
I happen to know a senior colleague back then when I was walking in an hospital, coincidently I met his girlfriend too she is a pretty lady, a well curvy and light skinned lady. Their relationship was fun and lovely that sometimes we the single ladies will be wishing for such a lovely relationship not knowing something is cooking in the secret. Most of the times we are always on shift at work and when there are lots of work sometimes we joined forces and work for a full day, that is the nature of our job. One thing I noticed is that any relationship that is not built on trust will surely collapse. This lady started misbehaving accusing my senior colleague of cheating on her that's why he doesn't pick her call on time or that's why he doesn't have time for her.
My colleague called her to explain things to her and make her see how busy he was due to work but she didn't listen, we planned 3 days off work for my colleague in order for him to be with her. We conquer that then starts the problem of him not given her enough money 😮😮😮😮😮😮 I was shocked, their relationship is 3 years why is she bringing all this now? Then the guy starts to feel the need for him to raise more money to satisfy the needs of his girlfriend which i don't think it's necessary. Any relationship you are and you are already feeling the urge to do what you are not capable of doing just to satisfy the needs of your partner, i think you have to put such relationship into check. Join me tomorrow as i will be giving the concluding part of how he later landed in coma due to heartbreak.
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The challenge am grateful for
Growing up as the first child of the family with lots of siblings I had to look out for, including cousins, nephews and nieces, you could see it's nothing than a hard work 🤣🤣🤣.
After my secondary school, I had challenges getting admission into higher institution which led people and even family members giving my parents different ideas that I can't even believe and comprehend is coming from them. Many have thought that was the end of my academic journey. For good five (5) years i was looking for admission and this burden my heart alot, sometimes I will cry and just wish God can fast forward everything not knowing God was planning something big for me. During my delay, I was made to understand that "delay is not denial" it might be late but I will surely get to my destined place and with this mentality, I was able to see life on the bright side.
During the period of my 5 years of waiting, I decided to put my love and passion for human health into practice, that was when i decided to be a nurse and to the glory of God that has paved way for me alot and this reduces the criticism I was getting from friends and families. Some of my extended family will flaunt their children in higher institutions, some that has gone for service and those that are married but I never let that get to me, my dad always remind me that i am destined for greatness, that word of encouragement kept me going. After my nursing practice I decided to try schooling once again and voila!!!. Kwara State Polytechnic gave me admission in the year 2021 after the corona virus lockdown was lifted, I was so happy and joyous because i was like I can finally go to school after all the disappointment have been through.
After gotten admission, I was happy that this will silence everyone but that wasn't enough to silent them, I started hearing different kinds of comments like after everything it was polytechnic I finally got admission into and lots more, I just laugh and kept on thanking God for the one I got and this was how I was able to build myself into what I am today. I am grateful for those challenges because if I haven't been through such, I might not be able to achieve all I have achieved today.
In conclusion
Never look down on yourself, never let what they say gets to you. Plan your future and make sure you pursue your dreams to success. We are all destined for greatness and we should show the world we can do it. Today I am happy that I went through those toughtimes because it had made me stronger.
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Marriage
Hello everyone, it's been a while hope you are all doing great. Examinations has kept me busy it's fun to join you guys here again. Today am bringing an interesting topic to us, it's all about a relationship seminar I attended today and i hope you will enjoy it as u read on.
Getting a life partner isn't a simple task, it is something we should take serious because the person you want to spend the rest of your life with must be someone you have the same thing in common with not just any random person. Marriage is a matter of destiny, it's no joke atall if u get married to the wrong person it can ruin you for life. Marriage is not all about beauty, handsomeness, body stature and money. If you marry the right person that has the same vision as you, you both can achieve anything together.
These days, many of our youths and young adults are going into marriage based on physical appearance and especially money and at the end of the day, the society is filled up with divorcee, single mothers and fathers. Marriage is an institution of learning, during your courtship with your partner you can't know him or her 100%, there will be some attitudes he or she is keeping for you till you get married when you will start seeing different kinds of changes in your partner. When some couples can't tolerate one another it leads to domestic violence which leads to loss of life in some cases.
How can we survive turbulence time in Marriage?
You can't escape challenges in marriage, but when these challenges arise treat it in love, respect, patience, understanding, tolerance and most especially in prayer. A marriage that is based on canal knowledge will not stand, let God be the foundation of your marriage and you will be surprised at the speed of success you will enjoy. Get married to your best friend , get married to someone that understands you and take you for who you are not the person that will be pushing you to do the wrong thing. Get married to someone that has the same vision as you.
In conclusion
Marriage is not a play ground for immature minds, before you can be called a wife or a husband, you must be ready to undergo the task, you have to be responsible, you have to be well built in God in order to have your house on a solid foundation, you have to go there with the character that will keep you and sustain the marriage.
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Being a sister
You all will be wondering what my title is all about, well it's my experience being a sister, the eldest one for that matter and the responsibilities am expected to carry.
Growing up as a female child i always thought I don't have much responsibilities since I will get married into another family but I was wrong, there are lots of responsibilities that am expected to carry or that am to carry. Having lots of younger siblings, they all expect me to get things for them and send them money, it was then I realised what am into.
Although it's fun as the big sister of the house because I get to command my younger siblings to do any task I want them to do with the respect as big sis. And as the second mummy of the house, I get to do the cooking and the dishing of food due to that no one wants to get on my bad side so that I won't reduce their portion of food🤣🤣🤣🤣. Whereas on the other hand, I have a lot to do for them also, I have to present a gift for them on their birthday, take them out and always cover up for them anytime they did wrong to avoid them from been punished.
In conclusion
Growing in love is the major key of being a sister either to your male siblings or female siblings, being the eldest I scold them when necessary and play with them when necessary that is what family is all about and that is the joy of being the eldest child of the family. Being there for one another, they are always there for me when I needed them and vice-versa.
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@Bdellium