Love life in Nigeria
Growing up in a country where they made you believe love is everything you can ever wished for in a Nigerian movie. They made it look so beautiful that you will feel like getting married.
Love is a beautiful thing, yes it is but at the same time love can go wild and take unimaginary turn. This bring me to the story am about to share with you today, going through my Facebook page, I came across a prank game where they ask you some questions in front of your boyfriend and vice-versa. The questions was going well and fun until the girl was asked if her boyfriend gives her money, haaaaaaa her reply shock me 😮😮😮😮😮 she replied with small small , the guy was annoyed but he tried to keep his cool, he wasn't expecting what he heard but he behaved like a man and told the host that he gives her money very well.
As if that wasn't enough, the host asked for kiss or grab for 20k😯😯 the girl replied grab, her boyfriend was shocked and got really annoyed because he was really disappointed in the girl, the girl turned for the host to grab her buttocks which really pissed her boyfriend off that's how a 2 years relationship got ruined all because of twenty thousand naira.
Why do many relationship get ruined these days?
Lack of trust, lack of contentment, and greed. Many relationship these days are based on love for money, no genuine love anymore. Every ladies out there want to cruise on boat, they want to chill in big clubs and have a fun filled life, no one is saying enjoying good life is bad but we should all learn to stick to the little we have than going extra miles for what we don't need. The guy in my story professed his genuine love to this girl saying she can't do such for that amount of money even if it's more than that but the reverse is the case. We ladies go out there to say no true love again because money is not involved, instead of you looking for a cool spot to wallow, why don't you create your own cool spot yourself.
In conclusion
Love is a beautiful thing only if you haven't find the right person for you. Don't be in a rush to love up, be careful who you choose as a partner and who you want to spend the rest of your life with because marriage is a journey of a lifetime. Money will fade, beauty will fade, the love you started with it's what will uphold the marriage.
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Being independent
It's good to follow instructions and also good to listen to advices but in the process of doing these things, don't live your life based on what you are told all the time, learn to think and create solutions yourself.
In the world today people take pleasure in pushing you around, they want to be part of the success story so that when you make it in life they will be able to say if not for me he or she won't be where she is today. But this only sounds good if you make it in life, nobody wants to be associated with a failure. There are some advices you will follow and will work for you whereas there are some you will follow that will land you in big problems that is why we must learn to reason ourselves, not all the time you will follow what you are told, there are times you will have to re-advice yourself before taking any action.
Many people out there today cannot create solutions on their own without depending on external advice on what and what to do which is not suppose to be, the world is growing at a very fast rate which individually we must be a solution provider. Taking Nigeria as an example, we are all complaining that the government are not providing any means of employment for the youths, why can't we sit down and think of a way we can provide means of employment for ourselves. There are lots of opportunities out there that we can maximize but we are not seeing it because we believe it's the government responsibility to do that, it's not a must we must be an employee, why can't we find a way ourselves to become an employer.
In Nigeria present situation, it is advisable that we learn one to two handiwork that we can use to support ourselves because of the economic crisis in the country which I see as the best opportunity to survive throughout this hard time but despite that there are still some people out there who are idle. They call on family members to help them whenever they are in need of financial assistance and if such family member refuse to help, they tag him or her as a stingy person not knowing what he or she is going through, they also have families to feed, bills to pay and you that can find anything sound will be waiting for them to assist you all the time which is not suppose to be. In conclusion, let's open our eyes to new opportunities we can make use of out there, don't wait for any body before you do what you are expected to do, be a problem solver, be a solution center, learn how to be independent.
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How do you face challenges of life?
We are living in a complicated world where different things keep happening everyday. The world change everyday with new development and lots of things to learn from. How then do you face the challenges of life?
We can't but face challenges as we grow in life because that is how it is orchestrated by God even the bible makes us understand in the world you will see tribulations but be of good cheer for I have overcome the world, why then can't u carry the mentality of an overcome. In the word today, challenges are normal because it makes you stronger, makes you to see different opportunities you should maximize into becoming a better person.
What are challenges?
Challenges are the situations of being faced with something that requires great mental, or physical efforts in order to be done successfully and therefore test someone's ability. Finding a solution to a problem facing someone is what we refer to as bravery. When you are faced with problems of life, don't back down don't turn yourself into a destitute rather get back up and fight to be an overcomer. Some people in the world today, when going through hard times retires to drinking alcohol, smoking hard drugs which will later in the long run ruined their health and the problems won't be solved either. Facing challenges is part of been human, we can't run away from it we just have to accept it when it comes and utilise every opportunity we have then to overcome it. There are many people out there today facing the challenges of feeding themselves, they result to begging on streets and doing all sorts, that brings us to the story of a man in my school, he is actually a beggar but I don't believe that such a man should be begging from students that are still struggling. This man is not disabled, his eyes, legs, hands are all functioning well why then did he switched to begging? I do ask myself this question, laziness sometimes makes us vulnerable in the face of challenges, what we are suppose to stand up against, we felt weak to attack it then how did we want to survive, leave a life that worth it even when challenges come you will not be shaken.
In conclusion
Therefore, when you are going through hard times in life, sit down and think of way forward, how you can subdue that problem for your own usefulness which will later make you into the world's biggest testimony. Challenges are meant for us to face because we are humans but don't become weak in the face of challenges of life that's when we can refer to you as a great and brave man.
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Motherhood
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Yesterday I talked on the title adulthood, go and read that if you haven't, here is another one that do make my heart beat faster than normal and that is MOTHERHOOD. The sound of this word always make my heart do gbimgbim. Kudos to all the mothers and upcoming mothers in the house. As a female child, I always look at my mom and feel sorry for her at times because when I was growing up, if she go to work immediately she is back without resting for some minutes or probably a hour she will rush to the kitchen to prepare dinner because my dad must not come back from work without meeting his dinner already set on the dinning table. She will be going back and forth putting things together, after dinner she will tidy up the kitchen, lay us to bed then go to bed, as early as 4am she is awake again preparing our food and taking care of the house chores.
It continued like that till I grew up and I can handle somethings in the house myself that's when I started asking myself that is this how I will be stressing myself when I finally become a mother? Haaaaaaaaaaaa😯😯😯😯😯😯 it's hard work oooooo, when have so stressed at work, I will get home and continue with the stress to take care of my husband and children. But what choice did i have, am a female child i can't escape that I just have to made up my mind and plan well so that I can have a home have always dream of. As if that's not enough oo, that brings us to pregnancy,child bearing and child raising, that's the main work.
Going into nursing profession, I had it in mind that since I will be experienced child bearing and pregnancy should not be a problem for me but when I see women in labour, my heart always skipped like 100 times reminding me that one day I will also be in this position. Kudos to the mothers once again, they are really trying. During the pregnancy, the stress of having another life inside of you can be so tiring that's when you will feel like eating different odd foods while some won't even allow you to eat, I can remember one of my patient back then during her pregnancy stage, the only food she feels like eating is moimoi I always wonder that why will a normal human being feels like eating moimoi everyday and it's must be provided for her because that will serve as strength for her. After d pregnancy, now comes child bearing some mothers do not survive this stage while many others did, it is not an easy stage. God gave it to some in a very easy way while some has to go through pains of surgery before bringing their child forth.
After successful child bearing, raising the child is the next huge tasks because if the child is successful or not fingers will be pointed at the mother. That's the reason why we must give time to our children, hear them out, play with them, be their best friend so that they can easily open up to us. Mother's role is very important in a child's life, be a role model to your children.
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Adulthood
Adulthood!!!!! This word always sound an alarm in my ears because am always afraid of what I will do if I finally become an adult. And here I am, am an adult.
Growing up in this beautiful country called Nigeria, growing like every normal child I really want to become an adult. I don't like it when people refer to me as a small girl, coming from a so called "get inside" family, I desperately want to become an adult not minding the hard times I will face or the challenges that will come my way. I see adulthood has a chance to escape from home, to escape from been locked inside for weeks ,to escape from been monitored but I never know adulthood is a tough life, a new beginning on its own where you will be on your own to decide what you think is good and the best for you.
After my secondary school, waiting for admission into higher institution I always tell my sister that if i gain admission and leave this house, I will eat what I like, buy what I want, go anywhere I wanna go to and enjoy life to the fullest, I never know that it is easier said than done. After I gained admission and I left home, my first year in school was fun and okay because my parents still send me money and stuffs but unfortunately that begins to reduce gradually, my allowances started to reduce no more extra cash, it was then I realised that have entered into "face your life squarely chapter". During that time, I had nothing doing because am enjoying free cash from home, they are supplying all my needs so I thought I don't have to work to earn money but suddenly when everything started to reduce i had to sir down and have a rethink of how i want to live my life to achieve everything i desire.
My dream of eating what I want, buying what I like, going to different places was immediately put to a stand still because I don't have the money to buy nor eat or go to where I want to go, I was retired back to my former state beforethe admission. Except for me going to school, I can be in my room for two days without stepping out until I started my own entrepreneur service that takes me out once in a while if I want to deliver goods to my customers if that's not necessary I send my rider to do that. I now face the reality of adulthood, when this latest adulthood anthem came out and people were singing, I had to reason very well and ask myself is adulthood really a scam? Well, as for me I don't think so because adulthood will open your eyes to different opportunities in life, how you can maximise your little into something big, how you can make a living for yourself in a positive way , how you can survive in this economy hardship then I came to the conclusion that adulthood is not scam what about you?
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Peer group pressure
In our societies today, our teenagers and adolescents are been moved by what they see, watch or ear, they want to try new things, they want to explore and do what their peers are doing that's why we must be careful and teach them the basic things of life so that they won't be misled.
Growing up as a girl, alot of pressure was around me. Going to school meeting new friends and trying to mingle so that they won't call me "omo get inside", sometime when the girls caucus are talking, I do listen with keen interest because I will be wondering if all they are saying is true and if my opinion is asked I used to rugged my answer and back it up with "it's a normal thing jare" they will think I understood all they were saying.
Coming from a family were we weren't allowed to go outside, been locked in the compound 247 except we go to school or church, I don't know what happen in the outside world. Anytime I have the opportunity to go out haaaaaaaaaa you will think I was been released from the prison that how happy I am anyday I have such opportunity. During my secondary school days, my friends were somehow the big girls in class so am like the novice in the group, i dont talk much, I don't play much so other classmates thinks am the quiet time but deep down inside of me, am not quiet ooooo I just don't understand the circumstances around me at that time. They talk about their boyfriends, how they got money, the new stuff they bought and lots of other exciting stuffs, I will now be wondering why am different and the family am coming from haaaaaaaaa you dare not bring new stuffs into the house. If it's not dad or mom that got it for you, u dare not buy anything because they don't give me money so you will now explain where you get the money from.
But growing up into a young adult, I realised that all my parents did was for my own good if they haven't done that maybe I wouldn't have been who I am today, I would have joined the bad wagon and be misled. Outside world is full of temptations and pressure that's why you see seventeen(17) years old boy who wants to become a millionaire, a teenager going into rituals just because he/she saw something like that on the internet, those young lads are not patient atall, it takes the grace of God to bring up a well trained and responsible wards in this present generation. They are exposed to what they don't need at their age and they have such curious minds, they want to try new things, they want to explore their world, the pressure to feel among is in their mind, they want to show their friends they are big boys and girls too not knowing that that's not the real definition of a big boy or girl. During my growing days my parents restricted me from using mobile phone, till i finished my secondary school I wasn't given a personal phone that continues until I clock 20 years, it was then I was given a phone I could call mine. But this generation, they see that as punishment you can imagine a 10 years boy wants a phone that worth 100k all because his friend has such phone.
In conclusion
Let's train up our children to know what is right, to be independent so that they won't be swayed into bad acts because they want to belong, the world is advancing so also our knowledge let's try to sit down and find a better way to survive than joining the crowd and making a decision you will live to regret.
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Growing up in an african home(Yoruba tribe)
Growing up in an African home it's nothing than an experience on its own especially my tribe,haaaaa Yoruba tribe 😮😮😮😮.
Growing up in a typical Yoruba family, u know how our indigenous mothers are, they will want things to go their way and if you dare object, you are in big trouble that's when they will remember a child back then in the village when they were young that disrespected her parents, how his or her life later ended some will even quote bible verse for you, it's as serious as that. My tribe is good in fact the best in adding prefix and suffix to their sentences when communicating with you that brings us back to my mother, i call her madam no nonsense because if my mum shout for you 😂😂😂 if you are not strong you can develop heart attack that is the woman I grew up with. My mum must not call you thrice before you answer you will explain in details I mean in details what you were doing that stopped you from replying her immediately she called you, she always want everything to go her way. Growing up in such a family where my dad is someone that doesn't talk much, actually he do the beating once you are been reported like this know you are in big trouble. And in my house, any small thing can cause your beating so we don't pass our boundaries to avoid been beaten.
Back then, I actually thought my parents were been wicked but through my journey in life I remain grateful to God that I was brought up that way. They instill in us the fear of been dependent, I remember my dad always saying never depend on anyone and never look down on yourself. During my junior secondary school period, I dare not come home with not bin less than 3rd position once it's less than that I will start crying from school till I got home then when I reached our gate, it will take me like 10 minutes to prepare my speech on how i failed before entering. I remembered during my js2 second term, I took 7th position 😣😣😣😣 that was d beginning of my journey to the beating realm, on getting home i dropped my result on the table and suddenly i became the most gentle girl in the universe at that time, i couldnt eat i locked myself in the room, my parents didn't say anything, dinner was cooked and served we were all ushered to the dinning to eat. I forced the food because I didn't have appetite to eat, my mum was stylishly looking at me, my dad was sighing, I know i am in the hottest soup already. After our night devotion, the next thing is for us all to go to bed but that day, the routine changed I and my younger sister was asked to sit down while my two younger siblings were asked to go to bed. Then my dad threw the shocker, what happened to your result? the remaining little energy in me flew away, I became so cold that my hands and feet were shaking, with my tiny voice I replied nothing sir, then my mum shouted in my dialect "and u took 7th position what were you thinking? Wat responsibility are you so occupied with that you are bringing 7th position to meet me? I was like father lord come down and help me. In my house we start every punishment with a stool down for like 2 hoursssssss and you must change your leg😭😭😭😭😭.
After like over 2 hours of stooling down when my knees,neck,back were all cracked the beating then started, the second day i felt like disowning my parents and run to a faraway land but that isn't possible because I had no where to go I just had to accept my fate😢😢😢 and try harder next term. My mum is one kind African woman that remote will be in front of her and she will still call you to bring it for her and you dare not protest unless you want to hear the history you've never heard before. One other frustrating moment with my mum is watching the television with her, ohhhhhhhhhhh father lord, you will regret why you sat down to even watch the television in the first place especially if it's Yoruba movie, she will cite an example from the beginning of the movie till the end, that's when you will hear "can you see? that's what we are teaching you everyday, can you see the end of that girl? when we are correcting you always listen" to cut the long story short, you will listen to epistle that day. That is the family I grew up with and this has helped shapen my life into becoming a better person.
In conclusion
The trainings and teachings that we were been given by our parents that seems to us like torture are just steps into making us a better person tomorrow. To make us useful to ourselves,our parents and our societies at large. Let's take to their teachings and embrace the love they had for us, let's take to corrections to help us live a fulfilled life.
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Why you live the way you live
Your thinking mentality determines your action. Man's life has been orchestrated by God to be living outwardly based on your inner capacity. You can't become what your inner mind doesn't carry, for you to live to the manifestation of any reality you have to first host it in your heart. You are a signature of the context of your mind, what your life is showing forth outwardly is nothing but your real mindset. You cannot live contrary to what your mind is thinking have that at the back of your mind. That is why we need to think positively at all times so has to develop our inner mind, being a better person don't come to reality suddenly it's a gradual process of how you've trained ur inner mind.
Many people out there today has ruined their lived through their negative thinking. You want to go into a new business and you are been enlightened on how to go about it, immediately you've concluded in your heart that you can't succeed in such business definitely you won't succeed or you want to learn a trade and due to some circumstances surrounding it you concluded right there in your heart that you can't know it, without stress my dear fellow you won't know it, same is applicable to students in school, many of us failed mathematics because we already made up our minds that we can't know it. Some people out there today, due to their negative mindset plus laziness they have ruined their lives and that of their generation to come. Being strong minded,determined,focused can take you where ever you want to be plus the help of God why don't we then subscribe to positive thinking. Try new things, say it with affirmative I CAN DO IT, train your inner mind to achieve it first then you will be surprised to see the outward result.
Know what you want and what you live for
Many people out there don't know what they want o I tell u, many don't even know why they are living, how can u be in this present Nigeria my wonderful country and you will not have anything doing na SAPA go later end such person. At 20 years old they are still asking you, what did you want to become in future you are replying with "I don't know jare,everything just tire me" haaaaaaaaaaa😮😮😮😮😮 my dear, such person needs deliverance. Know what you want, have a reason for living, don't just live your life anyhow, don't live to impress anybody. State the limit you want to reach in life, pursue that dream with the whole of your heart, guide that dream with your spirit, soul and body. We are all created with one gift or the other it is left to us to identify the gift we are given and put it to work.
Another point is , don't be easily swayed that is don't be so weak for people to change your mind anyhow, once you set a goal pls pursue it and achieve it, it's good to listen to advice don't misquote me, but if you are given an advice try to sit back give it a second thought,weigh it very well and choose the one that you know will benefit you. Once the world notice you are weak minded, different ideas, different advices will be surfacing that's when you will have different God mothers and fathers, street brothers and sisters that will be giving advice. Be wise and know what you want for your life.
In conclusion
What are your thoughts right now, positive or negative?
Always remember this, Guide your heart(mindset) with all diligence for out of it comes issues of life.
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Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you, it can only come from you. Only you.
Ex and past memories
Thank you so much guys for your tippings,comments and encouragement, I really appreciate, that has kept me going in bringing you more day by day. Hope we all had a great day? The stress nowadays is so exhausting 😣😣😣. Going by my daily activities, I came in contact with one of my old friend which it's been roughly two years we last saw each other, with so much excitement we hugged and call each other some sweet names then we graduated back to the available sit to have a chat and remember sweet old memories. I, been the inquisitive queen asked him how he has been for those years we lost contact then the story am about to share with us begin........although the thing shock me too, it choke me one kind but we just have to learn from our past and move on to the better and greater future in front of us. We shouldn't fear what we already left behind, that future we have no clue about is what we are suppose to fear, join me to explore Ex and Past Memories.
So I asked him about his relationship life ooo naso I put salt on his injury, he breathed out loudly with the sound "hmmmmmmm" I wonder what it was that he went through that made him sound like that, then the story began. He narrated how he met this beautiful angel in a church program because my friend happen to be an artist, they started the love journey and it was going smoothly, the boat of their love was sailing smoothly on the blue sea until my friend travelled to lagos for a program which lasted for 3 months, Gbammmm!!!!!!! Here comes the heart breaking revelation, he was told who goes by the name jumoke which happen to be the name of his fiance, that enough gave him goosebumps when he hasn't heard the full revelation ooo, last last he was told they aren't compatible but due to the love my friend has for this girl, he didn't believe this revelation.On his arrival back to kwara state, the beautiful angel came to visit and vice-versa, they continue with their love affair until his uncle called him and asked him the same question and giving him the same revelation, with so much pain in his heart he didn't believe ooo then he was told unless he wanted to die young, it was then he realized it was a serious case.
He went home to his parents to narrate the whole situation to them, u know we women ehnehn the mother shouted and rule against the relationship even though this lady was well loved by my friend's parents and siblings but his father say NO,there must be a way to go about it that he will take him to another pastor that speaks with God directly(it was that statement that made me laugh). They went to the pastor oooooo and the pastor was boasting on how he speaks to God 247, how he can tell God what he want and how he wants it , that part shock me though😮😮😮 due to the love my friend has for this girl he asked the "know all pastor " to help him change the incompatibility to compatibility but who can say YES when the lord say NO?. His uncle asked him to fast for a day and pray that the lord will show him the right part to follow. After fasting and praying, my friend went to his fiance's house and on getting to her doorstep,ehhhhhh kasala burst oooo he heard his girl talking to another man on phone, arguing with the man on phone that how can the man send her just 50k when she left ilorin to kaduna just to visit him that if the man didn't send 100k she don't want to have anything to do with the man anymore, naso my friend hand fall ooooo. He summon d courage to knock and the lady opened the door with bright smile on her face giving my friend a big hug not knowing that he overheard all her conversation, my friend asked her to get him water, then he picked her phone and saw different heartbreaking messages, on getting back to the sitting room the girl saw her phone with him then she flare up and started shouting telling him to get out of her house that he has seen what he wanted to see.
My friend was so heart broken but still yet her love is still lingering in his heart, he went back to her for them to talk things out but the girl chased him out and blocked him out on all her social media handles and that was the end of their titanic boat love story. Since then sha my friend has found it difficult to love and trust any other lady, he kept hanging on to his EX memories, in this situation I now see my friend needs help because he needs to wake up from his past memories and move on to the bright future in front of him. Love carried him handicapp.
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Life of a hustler
What do you understand by the word hustle?
In the world today, many of our youths and young adults even adolescent go day by day through their various daily activities or source of income by using the slang "HUSTLING"but do we really know what HUSTLING means, do we understand the word HUSTLE? Many lazy ass out there keep hammering into our beautiful ears that they are hustling which makes me laugh at times and ask myself the question "what is hustle"? Going through my searches, I found out that HUSTLE means PUSHING ROUGHLY,VIGOROUS WORKING,UNENDING HARDWORK,TIREDLESS EFFORTS TO ACHIEVE GREATNESS AND SUCCESS. Can you now see that some people hustle is not hustling atall.
You can imagine a business owner getting to his or her shop by 12.00pm all in the name of am the owner of my business😄😄that makes me laugh, and so what? What if you are the owner of the business? Some sits under d canopy of another man's success and they keep shouting am hustling. A hustler don't have time to backbite, a hustler don't have time to attend unnecessary parties, a hustler don't have time to sit among people with unproductive mind, a hustler is always focused in achieving whatever he/she sets his/her mind to achieve, a hustler is a pace setter, a hustler is a goal getter, a hustler is a time conscious person that knows how precious time is, he/she doesn't waste any seconds on fruitless discussion, a hustler is fearfully minded. The question now is are you truly HUSTLING? Are you indeed a HUSTLER?
As a HUSTLER, how do you manage your business, as a hustler how do you manage your life, as a hustler how do you go about your daily affairs, do u take your business serious or with a levity hand?, do u set a goal you must achieve?, do you work towards that goal or you are "It's my business type"?. The word hustling is not for everyone out there, it is for certain group of people who are really going through the hard work, tiredless pursue of success and greatness, vigorous sweating to make impact in life, those are the sets of people that are truly hustling, dont be a hustler by mouth, let those things you are hustling for speak for you, make impact in your society, let the change begin with you, that is how we can make our world a better place to live in, think deeply and see if we are truly HUSTLING as we do say.
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Why do we keep secrets?
What is a secret?
A secret is something confidential,something not meant to be known or seen by others.Then the question is why do we keep SECRETS? As we read on, I will like to share a story with us that will make us see the reasons why some secrets should not be kept and this should help us have a rethink on the secrets we should let out and the ones we should keep. No matter how strange and hard it is to comprehend always try to open up to your partner either in courtship or in marriage, don't follow the saying of an ignorant which says"my problem is my problem " in the world today problems should be shared to avoid depression and suicide cause if you are thinking you can handle your problem all by yourself and it turns out you are not even capable of handling it then such victim is at the verge of death cause once depression set in that is the end of such person it takes grace to overcome depression.
WHY DO WE KEEP SECRETS?
Some people keep secrets to protect their identities while some keep secrets to avoid been bullied,embarrassed and rejected in a society, some keep secrets because they believe it's their personal problem no one else should know about, some keep secrets because of lack of trust in their partner or who they believe should be in the best position to keep their secrets, but have we ever sit down to think deeply how these secrets can ruin our lives completely, I bet some people will be wondering how can my secrets ruin my life?
I know of a woman who got married keeping a lot of secrets from her husband which one of the secret happen to be:in her family, the first two children given birth to are always still birth.She kept that from her husband not knowing her husband too has a huge secret he is hiding from her(beginning of trouble in her home). One night her husband woke her up to tell her his own huge secret cause his conscience is disturbing him.(you all will be wondering what the secret is right, here comes the shocker).
Her lovely husband told his wife that in his family they don't give birth to more than two (2) children. And remember in the wife's family their first two children is still birth that unknown to the husband because the wife wants to protect her home, the wife hearing this, she became dumbfounded her husband thinks she is annoyed not knowing she is in deep pains not knowing the next step to take to still protect her marriage, now in this dilemma what did you think the wife should do? Should she continue to keep this secret or she should open up to her husband and find solution to their problem?
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Hello to readcash, my name is bdellium, I'm new here and this is my first article, though I have been on this site for a while now reading and observing how things are done so as not to make mistakes on my first trial, I was introduced to this site by @FashTioluwa and he explain how it works, I got interested, I have asked him to put me through for a while now but he always have an excuse but luckily for me, I'm here now. I hope I'm welcome and you all should show me love, tell me what to do and what not to do so I can learn faster too.
I'm currently a student at a prestige polytechnic, an entrepreneur, a singer, an actor, and many other things which you will get to know in time.
Somethings about me
Likes and dislikes
Likes
I like to sing and act
I like tall and dark guys
I like pressing my phone
I like writing too
And I'm a good listener
I like food
Dislike
I don't like to gossip or people who do
I don't like insult
I don't like peppery food
I don't like embarrassment
Finally, I don't like what I don't like.
Hobbies
I love to sing, I'm an outspoken person, one of my hobby is observing a new place, I love to read but not my text book, I love dancing which I can't but I'm still learning, one of my hobby I don't really like is sleeping, I love to sleep.
In conclusion
Since I'm new here, I haven't met much people, I don't know my way around yet, but with time, I'm sure I would, treat me well please, correct me with love. Also I would like to thank fashtioluwa for this opportunity he has shown me, he is a good friend and one in a million.
Thanks for reading, expect more from me, see you all next time. Much love from me to you
@Bdellium