Crypto a lifesaver
Happy new year to my wonderful family on read cash, it's been a while here but I'm super happy to be back. Going by the hustle of life I have been a bit busy but I could waste the little opportunity I had to pen this down. Today crypto is ruling the world and I'm so happy. When people lament the rise of the dollar I smile because I knew it's for my benefit.
Growing up in a family where I'm been taught to be independent no matter what I found living my life interesting because as a lady the society I belong to believes you can't succeed in crypto trading because it's for the intelligent and the strong. I quite agree with them because if you are not strong-minded the rise and fall in the crypto market is enough to give you a heart attack and that is why it is not so encouraged. Nevertheless, I didn't give in to their fear because ever since I started crypto has brought a broad smile to my face and I can say it is a lifesaver. Starting from forex trading to the mining of coins like bitcoin, swiss coin, Elyon, GCC coin, swap x, and many more it takes patience, focus, and enough understanding.
In our world today people don't want to go into crypto because of the fear of failing or losing which is normal because living life itself is a risk. It is a game of lose or win and that is the major fear apart from that the fear of getting scammed is also denying people from enjoying the benefits crypto carries. As an individual, I have failed in crypto countless times but I never back down instead I go in search of more knowledge to make me soar high in the crypto market. The little means of saving and spending such as BCH(bitcoin cash) are underrated because people don't know its usefulness, I entered into the crypto market because it gives me what my paycheck couldn't give and anytime I urgently need financial assistance I dip my hands into my crypto savings and put a smile on my face.
People don't go into crypto because they believe it poses a threat but I can say that's not true once you know how, when I joined this community I was shown that you can be a boss on your own by just penning down your thoughts, daily activities, life experiences and knowledge of anything you've acquired and that has been my source of strength and I will forever be grateful to the one who introduced me to the crypto world.
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My weirdest imagination
Hello to all my family here on reading cash, it's been a while here the hustle of life has kept everyone busy with one thing or the other, in all parts of the world today people are facing one challenge or another but I believe we will survive. This phase will soon be over then we will all have our turns of love, joy, and happiness.
I have always wished to be in all places at the same time, and that has been my imagination ever since I was little especially when I watched children's cartoons and I see the beautiful graphics even though not real I will love to be in them and experience all the goodies. As a grown-up lady, when I remember all these things I've imagined in the past as a child it sounds so funny to me, and I kept thinking asking myself did I imagine that? I love watching animated series, especially Disney cartoons, and one of my favorites is barbie, I love her collections and I've been a fan since childhood. One faithful day I watched one of her series in which she was a mermaid and I so much loved it that I began to imagine how it will look like if I were a mermaid, I imagined things I will do, places I will visit and how my life as a mermaid will be to the extent that I started having dreams about me being a mermaid. I started studying mermaids and how they live their lives until I told my mother what I had been busy imagining.
The woman nearly hit me because she considered it the weirdest imagination any of her children could tell her. She talked to my dad about deliverance which I find funny though, I tried to explain to her that I'm perfectly okay but she didn't believe it. My dad told her I was obsessed with it because I kept watching it over and over again but she never agrees, after some days she finally calms down then we had a heart-to-heart discussion, and since that day anything mermaid related I wasn't allowed to watch. When the movie mako-mermaid was released I watched it with keen interest and she was monitoring my every move, when aqua-man was released I convinced my parents to let us go to the theatre to see the movie, they were a bit reluctant but they finally give in and we did watch the movie. Up to today, my love for mermaids hasn't reduced but my mother believes probably I joined a gang of water girls(omo omi) in my tribe. That was a wrong motive, and today she has given up on such an idea because I am not exhibiting any mermaid characteristics.
Everyone has one imagination or another it might be triggered due to the movies you watch, books you read, and lots more. Just don't be obsessed with whatever you are imagining because not everyone will understand you. People may take it as insanity and you might not be able to explain yourself to them.
Humility
Good morning to all my family on reading cash, it's been a while here I believe everyone is living happily because you alone can be a joy giver to yourself don't expect it anywhere because the situation of the country is not giving anyone joy therefore just live your life the way it makes you happy but in the process don't follow the wrong path.
Some circumstances in life can make someone change in a twinkle of an eye although change is constant if you are going to change then it should be from bad to good and if possible best not from bad to worst. It is good to have self-respect I am an advocate of self-respect and I believe in doing the right thing but when circumstances call for humility please be humble because it is one of the important keys to living a fulfilled life.
What is humility?
Humility is an act of giving respect to whom respect is due, humility is self-respect itself. Humility is what defines a human being, it is a factor that determines what follows you in life.
Having high self-esteem isn't a sin it is an important characteristic that every living being (human)must possess. High self-esteem restrains you from lots of things, it gives you self-control but that doesn't mean humility should be lost. In this 21st century, many young lads out there today lack this divine quality because of bad influence and lack of proper home training. Elders don't amount to anything in their eyes they don't care what the aftermath of disrespecting will be, all they care about is enjoying life without thinking twice. Parents have lost the right of teaching their children what is good and what is bad, western culture has taken over our local culture, young men no longer prostrate to greet, and young ladies, do not kneel to greet anymore and we call it civilization.
Gradually our culture is going into extinction and we are not doing anything about it, we support bad attitudes and call it a change of time. You can imagine a child talking back at his or her parents. What are we now learning in this generation? What are we going to teach the next generation coming after us?
In conclusion
I will urge all parents to take extra care of their children or wards, teach them the basic things of life, and let them know how far humility can take them. Being humble is not just by kneeling or prostrating to greet it is far more than that. Humility makes one a high flyer in life, it makes one a pacesetter and creates a space for one at the topmost top to rule and dine with men and women that matter in society, and with humility, you can achieve anything.
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Nigeria's independence
Today is known for the independence of Nigeria, October 1st, 1960 Nigeria got her independence from the British which today marks the 62nd year of Nigeria's independence.
What can we say since Nigeria got her independence?
I guess this is the question many Nigerians are asking themselves today, a question we have no answer to for all these years, a question our leaders cannot provide an answer to, a question that many citizens did not understand, a question that left many people dumbfounded but let's try to reason together about what we can say since the past 62 years. Nigeria is a country blessed with lots of mineral resources, a country blessed with talented individuals, and one of the most powerful and respected countries in west Africa but yet with all these listed qualities Nigeria is still considered a developing country that is country that still needs tutelage to do things, a country that still needs spoon feeding but why is it so?
Why is it so?
A question begot another question, we will say Nigeria is a well-populated country, yes she is, Nigeria has lots of educated citizens that are well to do of course yes, Nigeria has influential citizens, of course, yes, Nigeria also has lots of entrepreneurs oh yes she does why then is it still considered as a developing country? Nigeria is still considered a developing country because we fail to maximize the opportunities of the great resources we are blessed with, we failed to live in unity, peace, and harmony, and we fail to realize that the government alone can not successfully rule the country if there is no support from its citizens. Lots of the problems we face in Nigeria today are not 100 percent the government's fault we as a citizen also contributed to the problems. People will ask me how?
How?
As citizens we contributed to the problems by selling our votes for a meager amount of money, we sell our future for two modules of rice, and ruining and soiling our dignity for t-shirts, face caps, and Ankara clothes. We voted into power those we know can't be of any good to us but still, we supported them for the present forgetting about the future which is the most important. Year after year the politicians come out with different manifestos just to entice the citizens and what do we do? We jumped at the offer not knowing it's just a game and at the end of it we get punished for being foolish enough to vote them into power. For 62 years Nigeria has been battling insecurity and up til this present moment no positive result has been attained, for 62 years Nigeria has been struggling economically yet our system is still as worst as you can imagine, the education standard is been bastardized and no solution to it yet you can imagine Asuu still on for more than 7 months not knowing the result their next meeting will yield. What then are we celebrating?
What are we celebrating?
We are celebrating years of slavery because we are still under slavery. After all, a country that refuses to leave a developing stage to a developed stage for 62 years is still under slavery. In a country that produces millions of graduates every year but they later turn into vagabonds because of a lack of employment opportunities in the country.
What can be done?
We all cannot be in power but we can make a change right from the grassroots level we are, don't sell your votes, do not get involved in political apathy, and don't wait for the government to do little things so you can come together and do as a citizen, don't wait for the government to provide job opportunities create jobs yourselves, don't rely so much on the government for every social amenities you need, create one and you will see that little by little the good change will begin with you and everyone will help the government in making Nigeria a developed country.
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A little begining
It's been a while here, hope you are all doing well. Hustling has been tough but God has remained ever faithful that is what has been giving us a heads up.
In our society today people don't want to start from scratch they don't want to start little they want to get rich as fast as they could they want sudden wealth, and they want to get rich without stressing, without working hard for the money. Even the Holy book says " do not despise the little beginning " that is do not underrate that small business you are doing to earn a living it might be small at the beginning but it will surely grow into a big empire sooner or later. Believing in yourself is the only way to achieve greater heights, self-love is freedom it gives you the confidence to overcome any fear no matter how huge and difficult it may look.
I remembered when I started my clothing business it was tough I mean tough there are months I won't make any sales and that became a burden in my heart I wanted to give up but I kept the courage and I kept on doing all the needful to sustain the business. Let me say I indeed started small because I started with no capital and as time goes on I started building it into getting my goods little by little and God has helped me to a stage am grateful for now. Many at my stage when I started then would have given up with the hope that they can't succeed in it without trying more to see how far they can go. There are many challenges in starting a business even in working in offices but you must find the means to create a peaceful atmosphere for you to win all battles.
In conclusion
Strive hard to be a better person don't forget the purpose for which you are created, and never look down on yourself. You can be who you want to be without the stress that is if you have a goal you want to achieve. In this present world, luck is rare to come by.
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A female child: Queen Elizabeth
A life well spent is worth celebrating for the past 2 weeks it had been bubbling in the united kingdom over the death of queen Elizabeth ii who passed away at the age of 96.
She was described as a woman of valor a strong woman who had led her country well and also to the success of the nation. Many world leaders were present to bid the deceased queen farewell and pay their respect. She attained the throne at the age of 25, she ruled for 7o years that is 7 different decades, and all the citizens of Great Britain and the northern island have been celebrating her after her demise just to show their appreciation for all she had done for the nation. Lots of activities were carried out in her honor, flowers were been thrown at her feet, and different testimonies of how many lives she had touched positively even till her old. Queen Elizabeth was described as a legend, a warrior, and a leader with clean and clear intentions for her followers.
That reminds me of a home movie I watched recently where a female child was hated by her father just because she was born female he believe she can never make it in life because one day she will be married off to a man who will later cater for her needs so he believes she had to be treated badly because she has no usefulness unknown to him that all his thinking is false. He believes the male child is the only one entitled to great wealth so therefore he willed all his properties to the male child not knowing the child isn't he, on a different side even if the son is his he isn't supposed to be biased in treating them they are supposed to be treated equally. From my point of view, discrimination should not be shown to our children because that will cause hatred among them. It is normal to love a child more than the other but it is abnormal to show it to them.
Loving a child is no sin it should be done moderately to avoid ruining such a child's life in the long run. I am so proud to be a female child because I have achieved more than I can imagine in my life, my parents are super proud of me because I have never disappointed them and I am proud of them also because they showed me the love, care, attention, and discipline I need to live a successful life. Many people gave birth to only female children and they start questioning God not knowing what God has in store for them over those female children. A friend of mine came from a family of 5 that are all females and she explains how their dad complains and fights with their mother while they were on the verge of divorce but God later intervene and today they are all doing great two (2) out of the 5 are in the united kingdom and the ones in Nigeria are doing well too, they are all married with children except my friend because she claimed not to be ready yet☺️☺️☺️ now their dad never regretted giving birth to only females.
In conclusion
As a female child never look down on yourself, never see yourself as a burden live up to expectations, and show the world you can do it show the world you can become someone great because what a man can do a woman can do better. In our societies today we have women at the top doing exceedingly well so why must you limit yourself to the kitchen alone, brace up and enjoy life at its best.
2023 election
Year after year I have been thinking and asking myself when will Nigeria develop. When will Nigeria become a country we can all be proud of? When will our leaders realize their mistakes and make amendments all these years I've not gotten an answer to all my questions because I don't even think all that is possible anymore in this country.
Nigeria is a country blessed with different kinds of treasures that can generate more than enough income for the country but despite all these, there haven't been any changes whatsoever. The economic state of the country is not improving we had been a developing country for God knows how long and up to date we are still a developing country with no improvement of any kind. Many countries that are not as populated nor as blessed as Nigeria are now been referred to as developed countries because of the positive changes that have taken place in the country. The citizens are enjoying their fundamental human rights and good infrastructure made available by the government to make their citizens comfortable but in Nigeria, those fundamental rights are been violated at times and this has become a burden in the heart of all the citizens, many of the inhabitants don't believe in the government anymore because they are not truthful to their words.
The election is conducted in a country to give the citizens the right to choose their leader the one they believe in but in this country, the election is been conducted just for election's sake to make people believe they are doing the right thing but it's all a lie. In this country, your votes matter less because either you vote or not for the next leader they already know who they want to install as the next governor or president. The citizens no longer choose their leader the government officials do, the higher-ups do decide for us and we don't have any right to question them. The 2023 election is fast approaching and we are already seeing posters of different individuals that will like to run for the office of the president federal republic of Nigeria from different parties in the country. They have started campaigning for people to vote for their party and support them in the forthcoming election. Promises are been made just to win the heart of the people the promises that won't be kept once they resume office.
People are being blindfolded by the gifts they offer them, the tokens they give to them. It is worse in this part of the world because poverty is the order of the day that's why people can be offered two thousand naira (#2,000) and a module of rice just to vote for them and we will be rejoicing that such a leader is trying he or she will take good care of the citizen when he or she gets to the position he or she is aspiring for. The 2023 election won't be an easy one because people have determined to wise up and choose a leader that will stop all the insecurity problems in the country and provide for its citizens but how can we know such a leader only God can lead us through?
In conclusion
In this coming election let's vote wisely and let's be conscious of our environment don't sell your future because of two thousand naira don't ruin the lives of the unborn generations be wise for a better future.
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Greener pasture
The rate at which young youths are looking for greener pasture makes me ask my self what's this greener pasture? Is it a fun filled life? A worry free life? I wonder what it is I will love to receive your comments in my box.
According to the answer given to me by google a greener pasture is a better or more promising situation. Why then do you think you can't find or live in a greener pasture here in Nigeria. I was talking with a friend recently and he uttered the same words of searching for a greener pasture it took me some minutes to give him an answer because it was funny to me. He kept saying that repeatedly and he was saying it conveniently that if he should enter Malaysia he will become a millionaire then that prompted me to ask him some questions such as:
Did he have any relations in Malaysia?
Is there any job awaiting him there?
Did he have more than enough money in his account right now to process his travelling and sustain him in Malaysia?
All these questions he couldn't answer,then I wonder where the greener pasture is. Many people has the same mentality has his they believe. Once they leave the country to another white man country they will succeed even if they will succeed it's not immediately they get there. Lots of Nigerian youths has gone abroad with the mind of searching for a greener pasture later living in regrets. Nigeria is a greener pasture on its own if you know how to maximize every opportunity we see. Leaving the country is not the solution to the current problems we are facing in this country but because we all think we can't succeed in this country that's why we think leaving the country is all we need.
In search of greener pasture many young ladies has ruined their lives they travelled out by all means and ended up being enslaved without any hope of freedom many of them were killed and introduced to prostitution and all sort of illegal businesses so also our young men they believe Malaysia is where their destiny awaits and when they finally gets there they become killers and sells body parts that is how their glorious destiny is being truncated all because they needed a greener pasture. The harm we cause ourselves is much more than the one the country caused us, am not saying traveling out of the country is bad it is very good to explore other cultures and how they interact but don't go there with the mindset of becoming a millionaire overnight.
In conclusion
I hope we can enlighten our youths more on how to develop themselves in their father land and erase the mentality of going to Malaysia for greener pasture or the accent "we just gat back" because I was told that is the number one identification symbol of a person that just returned from Malaysia. You can be successful anywhere you just have to maximize opportunities and develop yourself more.
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God's handwork
The whole universe is God's idea that both living and non-living existed because he wants it to be in existence why then do you think you are different?
If you are not careful challenges of life can make you think less of yourself it can make you see yourself as a nonentity with an ill fate. The creator of the universe God created everything so beautifully that he knows the importance of humans that is why he made us the head above every other thing he created. Searching through the atlas made me realize how big the planet earth is you can imagine the different continents we have with countless countries in them this made me wonder how magnificent God is. He works in an unimaginable manner that is in a way beyond human understanding science has wanted to prove some of God's creations in their knowledge but they are yet to arrive their yet because we humans are part of his existence.
The creation of the mannequin (a human form dummy) is part of people trying to imitate what God had done but his magnificent self has proved them all wrong because the breath of life in us as a human can't be transferred to a dummy or else it will be created with a machine in it which will enable it to function as a robot. The astronauts going into space for research makes us understand most of the things we see as impossibilities but I can say that they are just trying to broaden our knowledge on what it might look like not really what it is. According to research, I come to the knowledge that the moon is like a rock, while some say it's dust I don't know which one to believe but I can't argue with it either because I haven't been there. We just have to succumb to whatever they call it and carry that mentality but the creator knows what he created.
Man vs God
The development of machines such as x-ray, hematocrit machines, and many more of their kinds to monitor human health is a device developed by a man that is it is built on man's knowledge and imagination while God doesn't need any machine to tell you what's faulty in your body system he created everything so when one is not working perfectly he knows how to replace it. To prove God's superiority many herbs used in modern ways to produce the drugs we use are created by God for our consumption to live a healthy life. God doesn't need permission from us to wake us up when we sleep that is why he can make us fall asleep and as well wake us up again, man can devise means for you to sleep e. g by taking sleeping pills but they can never wake you up except God wants you to wake why then do you think you have known it all. The Wisdom used in doing mostly all these things only comes from God there are some people on this planet earth that God uses as helpers to deliver his goodwill to mankind those are special sets of people.
In conclusion
Living is not a right it's a privilege not everyone who slept in the night wakes up the following day it takes grace. What challenges are you going through that you think God cannot solve if he can create the whole world in six days then your problems are the least thing he can do for his creation the beautiful piece he created in his image.
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Love life
Love is a very important factor in one's life even God established the usefulness of love. Love is a beautiful thing and we cannot do without it but why then does love turn sour these days?
When I was questioning a group of people on this topic people talked from different points of view and I tried to put all their ideas together and pick out the ones that relate with this topic. Wikipedia defines love as a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection, to the simplest pleasure. Love is a great emotional attachment and it can be classified as positive and negative. In the world today the positive love is rare all we see is negative love that is why a father can rape his female daughter, a son can use his mother for ritual and different despicable characters in our society. Living a life that lacks love can lead to depression, and in some cases suicide.
There are six different forms of love identified by ancient Greek philosophersthese. These are:
Familial love---- this is a form of love you get from your families e. g your father, mother, sisters, brothers e. t. c.
Friendly love or platonic love(philia)----- this is a form of love you get from friends and colleagues at work.
Romantic love(eros)----- this is the form you get from your lover either fiancee, fiance or spouse.
Self-love(philautia)----- this is the love you have for yourself that feeling of satisfying yourself first.
Guest love(xenia)-----the positive feeling for everyone you meet in the journey of life.
Divine love(agape)------- this is the love God has for us.
There are other forms of love such as:
Compassionate love
Unrequited love
Empty love
Consummate love
Infatuated love
Courtly love amidst others.
All these forms of love has their places in our lives and we can't cheat them they will somehow find their way. A mother's love is different from a spouse's love while love for food is different from friend's love. I wonder what it means when people say I don't need love from anyone I can live my life myself it's a big lie we all need one form of love or the other to live a happy life. If you want to enjoy romantic love make sure it's with the right person, with person that won't abuse that precious gift. We might have been in a relationship that hurts but that doesn't mean love didn't exist, love does exist and it's real if only it is with the right person. We can only live at peace with our neighbours, friends and families if we let love leads and with this there won't be issues.
In conclusion
Love is the most important among all the laws, it is an important key to healthy living. Love directs in the right path, it makes way where there seems to be no way. Everything goes well when love is involved but things done outside love strive hard to survive. Let love leads then you will enjoy your life.
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The past
One of the killers in our society today is "the past". The damage it cost is more than its advantages and it has led to many suicidal cases in our country today some people find it difficult to move on in life after one or more unfortunate occurrences in their lives. Join me as I share my point of view with you on the title of the past.
As human beings, we all have one or more stories to tell about things we had gone through cases we can refer to as our past either good or bad. Individually, we do think we are facing the worst situation which no one has ever been through but if we listen to other people's stories we would realize that yours is the tip of an iceberg. Overcoming these challenges is what some people couldn't make it through in the aftermath of such situations it leads to depression and in many cases, leads to suicide. Living in the past can cause much damage to one's life it leads to stagnation, backwardness, and emotional trauma.
A lady was sharing her story with me about what she went through in the journey of her life and all the damages it has caused her to the limit of losing her life from which she had a narrow escape. I was dumbfounded because I don't want to compound her problems or make her feel bad the only words of encouragement I can utter is "just be thanking God". She was a victim of gang rape when she was in school due to her trust in a friend she trusted her best friend to the point of taking her as a sister you know the slang" my sister from another mother" which later landed her into a deep mess. She and this bestie of hers do things together in common and this assured her that she had found a shoulder to lean on not knowing it was the wrong shoulder. One afternoon her bestie invited this lady to a birthday party in town which she agreed to go to because of the relationship they shared not knowing a plan had been laid out to rape her.
They arrived there with people partying and cheering she felt at peace because her bestie was there with her. Some of their coursemates were present at the party and she was sure it was a safe one not knowing what is at stake. Drinks and food were served they all ate and drank well she was offered a wine she rejected because she felt it might be alcoholic but she was convinced by this same bestie that it was just a fruit wine she succumb to her and drank the wine although it was a fruit wine it was drugged after few minutes she started feeling uneasy then her bestie led her to a room to sleep and immediately according to her she felt the sound of people leaving the party before she suddenly dozes off and this was when they acted out their evil plan. She was raped by four men and when she woke she was made fun of you know how students can be. After the investigations were carried out it was later revealed that her bestie sold her off that was devastating and she nearly commits suicide. She kept this in her mind for a long time and she was nursing the pain for a long time before she was able to overcome this pain.
In conclusion
Learn to move on in life no matter what you have been through that is the only way to be happy don't let your past be your boss don't let it control you instead control your past and deal with it to become a better person.
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Happiness is free
In our world today nothing is giving joy people live their life just for living's sake. People are afraid to go out of their houses for fear of being killed or kidnapped they decided to stay indoors but the pain of staying indoors will haunt them later because they won't be able to source means of livelihood which will lead to idleness.
I can remember a discussion I had with a friend and she was lamenting how everything is going and how she has been surviving in the country's hard economy. I couldn't pacify her myself because am facing a similar problem. In the country's present situation you just have to find means of living a happy life you don't have to be sad every moment you are going through a difficult time. Life has been throwing different fists at individuals and every one of us must find the means to live our lives in decent and acceptable ways. Many don't have what they do for a living, many are living from hand to mouth with no savings for the future. Many aren't even thinking of the future at all they are all concerned about today I mean the present condition we are in. All their concern is about how to survive today. No one can be blamed for the current situation in the country we can only complain even though our complaint is not been listened to and no one is ready to make amendments so we must create a solution ourselves and we can only do this by doing what is right and living a happy life.
There is more to living life than just sleeping and waking up, these days sleeping and waking up it's by privilege because lots of people die in their sleep while you were able to wake up and complain. Then instead of complaining why don't you devise a means to be happy and enjoy every side that life brings? We are in a country where the government doesn't care about the welfare of its citizens, a country where all the government does is hype its own pockets, a country where the voice of the citizens is not heard, a country where citizens vote don't count, a country where the government buys the hearts of citizens with two modules of rice and #2000, a country where hunger is the order of the day, a country where laziness is appreciated and called a success, a country where the lives of the citizen matter less how then can we be happy in the such country?
That is why happiness is an individual thing it's not something to expect from someone because the person you are expecting from also needs to be happy why then can't you create this happiness for yourself? Music is a consoler it is a medicine for the soul whenever am down I switched to music because that is the only thing that can brighten up my mood at that time and once am relieved I go about my day-to-day activities again and I let go of the past. I go through my work wearing a happy smile on my face facing all my challenges and making sure I conquer all you can also do the same and find what makes you happy, do things that make you ease stress and lighten up your mood that is all you need to be happy because happiness is free❤️❤️❤️.
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Health is wealth
I must say I have been enjoying readcash lately rusty has been giving my joy 😍😍😍and to everyone reading my stories, commenting and upvoting me I want to say a big thanks to you all you have been the reason for me not to give up.
I have a tv program I do watch every friday on DSTV channel 135 it's all about dermatology it's called "doctor pimple popper". If you are privileged to watch this programme you will know that health is wealth although it deals with skin conditions but it has helped me to know more about my skin and how to take good care of it. I have another programme too that comes up immediately after this doctor pimple popper the programme is "my feets are killing me" all these programmes are learning center for me they have helped me to know more about my health conditions. When I first get to know about this programme and I watched it I couldn't believe my ears even though the contents look irritating to me it is very educating. In doctor pimple popper I got to know different kinds of skin diseases we have for example lipoma which has different kinds, cyst which also has different kinds, keloid its causes and how to treat it and lots more. It shows different people from part of the world suffering from one skin disease or the other and how it has affected their confidence, self esteem and their lives as a whole and the joy it brings to their heart after they had been treated.
In the programme my feets are killing me have learnt about a feet condition that i had which I don't know the name. I was fortunate enough to watch the programme on Friday like this two weeks ago and voila they showed a young boy who had the same feet condition I had. I sitted glued to the tv with keen interest so as to know the treatment, causes and it's side effect. It was diagnosed as "varrucae" it's not cancerous and it doesn't have any side effects anytime you feel it cause you pain when you put on shoe just cut it off with a new razor blade and continue your daily activities. The picture above it's an example of what varrucae is so if you have something like this on your feet don't panic it's nothing to worry about just scrape it off with razor blade and you are good to go.
Having little knowledge about these things can save your life you don't have to be a doctor or a nurse before you think it's a must for you to know them because of your profession. Many people had lost their life to fear not knowing what they are afraid of can't harm them but because they don't know what it is called they believe it's life threatening and that fear alone leads to their death.
This is what a lipoma looks like it can be in any part of the body either head, arm,cheek,thigh, leg or anywhere in the body.
This is what a cyst looks like this also can be in any part of the body. Sometimes it's also find on the armpit.
This is an example of keloid it can also be found on any part of the body but it is mostly foubd on the ear this is due to piercing. Any area of the body that has gone through trauma has the ability to develop keloid either by piercing or stitching due to accident wound.
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Knowledge is light
The weather these days isn't friendly atall, the cold is much you can imagine someone still putting on cardigan by 3pm. The best thing is to roll with the weather drink hot tea and put on good clothes that covers the body. All the same the weather is cool my head is able to compose well😉😉😉😉.
Knowledge I say is light it brightens your horizon, open your mind to lots of things you have no idea of. It helps to widen one's knowledge about his or her environment and brings light into one's darkness. Ignorance is a disease but to my amazement in our world today many still don't have knowledge about lots of things and they call it normal stuff 😯😯😯😥 but to me it's not normal atall. We are in a century where by if you don't have the adequate knowledge requires you may or might be consider as a fool. People believe you must be educated before you can acquire knowledge which is not so, knowledge can be acquired even from the little things we see around us.
Acquiring knowledge is not only for learned you can be an illiterate and still have more knowledge than the educated ones but it's good to get educated it will help alot in the journey of life. Certificates acquired in school will be useful in its own time but the knowledge you acquire from the things you consider as little has it's own benefits too and it will also be useful in its own time. I remembered when I was been introduced to readcash i asked alot of questions from my boss @FashTioluwa because i had never heard anything of such, he introduced me to readcash and he took his time to explain how it works that was when I acquire the knowledge I have about readcash and today it has helped me alot. Knowledge brings light to the dark parts in our lives because what you don't know is a boss to you no other way around that, that's the fact some people don't want to agree to but it's the absolute truth.
Working as an apprentice to learn a handwork is part of acquiring knowledge. You are learning to know more about that particular work e.g fashion designing, saloonist, cobbler e.t.c not just to earn a living but to also be able to use the knowledge acquired when it is necessary. Lots of people in the world today can solve problems on their own because they have the idea of how to do it, they don't have to go out to search for help they will conveniently solve whatever problems they encounter. Just imagine a woman with four (4) children and they are all girls and the woman don't know how to plait hair in this present situation in my wonderful country Nigeria 🤣🤣🤣 I don't think it's advisable such woman should go and learn how to do that asap.
In conclusion
I will implore us all to acquire knowledge when necessary so as to live a stress free life and also to avoid being in the darkness and regarded as a fool. Knowledge is light I say again knowledge is light.
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Phases in human's life
Inspirations these days is hard to come by but if you think deeply about what you had been through and what you are going through right now you will see they are inspirations on their own.
In Yoruba language they do say (igba meta ni igba eda laye) which means there are three [3] stages or phases in a human life which is the morning stage, the afternoon stage or phase and the night stage. These phases are important and every human on earth go through these stages or let me say every successful human go through these phases that if such human didn't die during childhood or while growing up.
Here is the first phase or stage, I call it the infantry stage and you can call it the elementary stage. This is the stage after successful child delivery, any human that's in this stage as fought the way through to the first stage. Here you don't know anything nor understand anything your life is in your parents hands, they decides on what is right for you, they provide for all your needs and they look after your wellbeing. It is a phase of your life where you depend solely on your parents, at this stage you don't know who God is all you know is your parents which means they are your God till you grow to a certain age where you will be taught on what to believe and what not to. This stage continues to a certain age that is throughout the primary school sometimes through out the secondary school period also but since the matured age is 18 years in Nigeria many young lads out there believe once they are of that age they don't need their parents anymore 🤣🤣🤣🤣 not in this my country.
This is the second stage or phase known as the afternoon time in my culture. This is during your university days, service year and working class till you get married and start your own family. In this phase you are the decision maker of your life your parents can only advice they can't impose any rule on you anymore. This is a stage you would have known God more, it is an independence stage you work things out on your own and fight battles on your own. This is a stage to know what you really want for your life. A stage that will determine how you want to live the rest of your life. This phases runs over to a certain age and we move to the final stage.
And above is the final phase in a human's life, a stage known as the night phase in my culture(igba ale) that's old age. A phase where you won't be able to do much work anymore, a stage you would have prepared your children for. At this stage you tends to go back to the first stage that is the infantry phase. This phase in human's life comes with some challenges, many at old age becomes so difficult to correct, please and educate because they are partially back to the first phase. The second phase will determine how you will end this third phase because if you live the first and second phase miserably there is no how you will correct it at old age.
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Stages in a woman's life
There are three stages in a woman's life which must be fulfilled but it amaze me that there are ladies that don't care about these three stages in our society today in fact once it doesn't involve money it's nothing they want to talk about. Join me as I shed more light on the three stages in a lady's life.
Above is the first stage in a grown lady's life and that is marriage. Once a lady is matured enough to start her own family she will be getting signals from her parents to bring her fiancee for the needful to be done. This should be done at the right time because if it's done late such lady will face humiliation and if it's done earlier than necessary such lady will face condemnation that is why it must be done at the right time to avoid humiliation and embarrassment to such lady. Many ladies don't care about this glorious day anymore all they care about is money and that's why we have lots of baby mamas in our society today. The rate of single mothers is getting higher day by day all because many got pregnant out of wedlock and they have no understanding what so ever of the blessings getting married carries. Such blessings as peace of mind, happiness, peaceful home and lots more. This can only be attain if it's done in the right manner.
And here is the second stage in a woman's life, the pregnancy stage. I call it the wierd stage because you will become another person entirely. This is a stage you will feel like eating different irrelevant combinations of food a stage where you get irritated unnecessarily, a stage you get annoyed with no reason, a stage you will go through pains I mean real pains. Pregnancy stage is no joke atall because it's a period where every parts of your body pains you even without doing any work🤣🤣🤣🤣 a stage you will be humbled. At this stage a woman might be beautiful and on the other hand she might not due to the hand the pregnancy carry come🤣🤣🤣. It is a stage to know who you really are, many ladies feel comfortable at this stage while some don't but it is a stage every woman will go through but it's a choice not a must.
After the pregnancy stage and the delivery was successful the next stage is child's caring, this is a difficult stage because it comes with a lot of hardwork . Raising a child is no joke because if the mother is not well experienced as a woman she might not be able to raise her child in a godly way. The motherly love must be there and not just there mother and child should share a strong bond that will connect them naturally.
In conclusion
These are the 3 stages a woman will go through in the journey of her life. Although these 3 stages is not a must it's by choice but I believe every reasonable woman will love to go through these 3 stages.
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Making money an individual race
The world is in chaos lots of challenges rising up everyday people going into different bad activities just to make a living. Surviving has become so difficult to the extent that some don't have shelter, no source of income to cater for themselves not to talk of their families. They feed on anything they can see at that moment.
Due to all these rising problems many people out there are into stealing, kidnapping, abduction, prostitution just to make a living while there are some set of people that go into all these shady businesses all because they are lazy and don't want to walk rather they want a shortcut to success. But there are some that are genuinely in penury that has no hope whatsoever. Such people are witnessing the other side of life because if they see those living in affluence(wealth) they will be wondering what part of the planet earth are they living in and start to question God on how their lives is how it is. After the deep thought they will go ahead and get themselves into all these evil acts mentioned above.
In this part of the country Nigeria to be precise families expect you to respond to them anytime they call on you for financial assistant without knowing whether or not you are okay yourself and if you didn't respond the way they want they turn you to a stingy person that doesn't want to help not knowing you are going through alot yourself. Not only families even friends and colleagues at work tends to expect something from you immediately they requested for it which is possible sometimes. Once you decline you become their enemy. Making money is an individual race, getting rich is an individual race we need to find ways of living a righteous life individually, earn a living individually without relying on anyone. Many people are worse to the point that once they have someone in the family who is financially dependent they won't work anymore they rely on such person for their survival. You don't have to pick an offence if you requested for help and such individual cannot help that instant we all have our crosses to carry.
My father was telling me this morning that what is the essence of keeping friends that are not productive? They will definitely ruin your ways of thinking positively because once they didn't achieve anything they wouldn't want you to move forward in life too. The best remedy is to work hard individually to live a worthy life and maintain the right track not to end in a mess which can cost one's life. I sat down to think about it and I can pick one or two points from all he told me. In this present generation you can't afford to live a worthless life. An impactful life all you need to make mark on earth.
In conclusion
Don't hate anyone for not helping you when you needed their help. Each and everyone of us has one thing or the other going on in our lives presently instead find a legit way to live your life and be happy that's the antidote for this chaotic situation we are in now.
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Child discrimination
This has been an issue of concern in many homes without knowing how to go about it. This has cause strife, hatred and bitterness among many siblings because the parent tends to favour one than the other. Join me as I share my own point of view with you.
To me child discrimination is also the same as child abuse because it ruin such child's self esteem it makes him or her look inferior among his or her peers. Although favouritism can be in the home that is differences on how the parent treat a child from the other but you shouldn't let it so obvious that the other children will notice and start nursing hatred in their mind towards the favoured child. Each child has his or her own peculiarity and they should be treated according to their peculiarity. You can't expect all the children to be the same in fact all children can never be the same in thought, reasoning, intelligence, physique, morals and any other characteristics that qualifies the favoured child. Twins which were given birth to on the same day don't have the same characteristics talkless of the ones they gave birth to differently.
There are some kids that are naturally brilliant while there are some you have to teach and teach and teach with the help of cane before they can understand what you want them to learn. We have fast learners that without mentioning it to them they already know what to do and also we have slow learners. I will give you an example, while growing up I am a fast learner though I pick up things easily so it made it easy for my mum to put me through stuffs then came my younger sister haaaaaa😮😮😮😮 she is extra slow when it comes to learning so that bothers my parents alot. During her secondary school days I can remember how my dad will cane her just for her to read and assimilate it was a tough journey though but she scale through, she is doing well now and improved more than my imagination. My parents never showed her any sign of discrimination just because she is a slow learner instead they encouraged her on daily basis to build the confidence in her and make her a better person.
During those times I never made fun of her nor criticise her instead I joined in the training to help her understand quickly and to make her see she is not alone in the journey and today she is a big girl with extremely big vibes, she had forgotten she was once beaten because she was unable to read simple sentences. If I have neglected her then and show any sign that am being favoured than her maybe we wouldn't have been this close today. Lots of people out there called us twin because we are almost the same height, we plait the same hair style, wear the same cloth and always gat each other's back.
In conclusion
You don't have to discriminate, you don't have to divide your children all because one is a little bit different from the others. My baby sister today that's our last born can imitate what you just did in no second, she picks things easily, she is a fast learner, smart, beautiful any good thing you can call her as young as she is and we all pamper her and make the elder ones jealous not to despise them but just because she is the baby of the house. Don't create enmity amidst your children instead encourage them all and strike a good balance between them so as to keep them close in order to give you peace of mind.
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Inter and intra tribe marriage
Blessed morning to you all, as we all know that marriage is instituted by God that is marriage is ordained by God and it has been a practice since the beginning of earth which means it is everlasting. No matter the kind of marriage you do marriage is marriage once it is the coming together of a man and a woman.
Nigeria is a country blessed with many tribes but the common ones we are all aware of is Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa which happens to be the three major tribes in Nigeria. Many families are against their children marrying from other tribes because of the culture differences among them . Many don't cope really well when they go into marriage with a man or woman from another tribe which later ends in divorce. Even the people of the same state don't want their children to get married to another person who is not from their local town and that has been the bone of contention these days in our society. I am from kwara state, Ijagbo town to be precise but my parents keep hammering it into my head not to marry someone from other little towns around my town and I kept on wondering what the problem is oooo😮😮😮😮😮 as if that was not enough I was given list of some states I shouldn't marry from and they are Yoruba speaking state too, it was then I sat down to think of what the problem is.
Many homes are on fire because of the in-laws from other tribes, the husband or the wife might not be the problem In some cases but the extended family that is the in-laws. But while brainstorming I don't think there should be problem with intra tribe marriage because once it is a solid foundation rooted by God all should go well. I have an uncle who got married to a delta woman in fact two of my uncles did and they are living well, I have an aunt that got married to a Hausa man and the marriage is going well with beautiful kids although the culture might have bring disagreements in their marriage but they have learnt to love, tolerate and endure each other's excesses.
Inter marriage
I think this is the one we should look more into. Inter marriage is getting married to someone who is not from your country. For example a Nigerian woman getting married to a Switzerland man that is a catastrophe because they have different culture, different mentality, brought up in different ways, in different countries with so much differences in them. Am not saying it's bad please don't misquote me but I'm trying to say it will take them longer time to adjust to each other's believe before they can have a smooth ride in their marriage. Many are in marriages with an international spouse and they are living fine but the percentage of fights and argument will be much than that on intra marriage.
In conclusion
Getting married to someone you love is the most important thing, don't be forced into marriage. If you are not ready please take your time. It is an institution where you do matriculation but no convocation so therefore you must know what you are getting into to have a wonderful marriage. Both intra and inter marriage is good if you are with the right person.
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English vs Yoruba
Happy weekend to my family here on readcash how is the Sunday going? During my leisure time I was thinking of what to write and this title popped up in my head and coincidentally my siblings were discussing about the differences between the both language that's english and Yoruba.
There are some words in Yoruba that if translated in english it will mean a different thing and vice versa. In Yoruba language different words can be spelt the same way and has different meaning likewise in English language a word can be pronounced the same way and has different meaning. Especially in yoruba language these words can be used to confuse someone who is not from this tribe. It's actually fun because you would be wondering how did the originators of these languages did that? These two languages although can be linked I think that's why it's very easy for the white men to learn Yoruba language. Going through my boomplay suggested songs I saw a song by Qdot and a white woman named Oyin I was amazed and I downloaded it wow wow wow I mean wow she spoke Yoruba so fluently and I was impressed .
Here are some words you will like to know. Although in Yoruba language these words has sign and symbols that is been imputed to it to make its meaning.
Ojo----------day
Ojo----------rain
Ojo----------name
Ojo----------leaking
And many more .
Here are some English words
Cut---------- to divide
Caught---------find doing something
Court-----------a place of judgement/ used in a relationship when they are yet to marry
Course-------- a study in school
Curse--------a negative word that work against one's destiny
Cause---------- to allow something to
And lots more.
All these words has different meaning but when pronounced it sound the same.
Yoruba is a beautiful language and with so much respect in it, you can't address an elderly person anyhow you will be corrected. That is the beauty of my language am proud to be a Yoruba lady because it's such a beautiful language that has brought lots of prestige to the society.
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Spirituality and behaviour
Good afternoon to my family here on readcash it's been a while hope you are all doing well? The situation of the country hasn't been encouraging but we just have to keep our head up and focus on what we want to achieve that is the only way to keep going in this tough time.
The way people take spirituality this days it's so amusing because they believe once you can scabosh( speak in tongues) you are spiritual but it's the other way round in our world today. We have people that believe that not wearing earrings or using jewelry is spirituality while some believe not putting on trousers is spirituality. But to my little knowledge all these things are not even close to what being spiritual means. Am not condemning any church please but trying to change the wrong notion people have about spirituality. God searches through the heart even the deepest thing of the heart and in relation to our spirit he reward us accordingly. There are many people out there with dual characters they appear spiritual at one hand they appear worldly at the other and people that doesn't know them will see them as the most godly person .
Attitude or behaviour
Iwa rere le so omo eniyan[ good behaviour is the treasure of a human] we should possess good behaviour at all times , this is different from being spiritual. Your personality is different from what you believe in and what you are practicing you can be spiritual and have bad attitude, you you can have good attitude and not be spiritual. You can't know a man by his physical appearance there are many many people out there that has the worst attitude you can ever think of from your own perspective but after close relationship with such individual you will see that you've been wrong all this while. Our behaviour contributes so much to our society because it will either affect our society positively or negatively.
Being spiritual also has connection with our attitude or behaviour because the spirit of God can't stay where there is confusion the spirit of God is peaceful therefore he abides where there is calmness. This godly spirit abides in a heart that is teachable, a heart that takes to corrections not a wicked heart where all evil dwells how can you say you are being spiritual and you backbite, steal, kill, lie, fornicate and commit adultery. There are lots of corrupt men of God out there that turn our heart away from the right thing and this happen to those that doesn't know their right in God. We must be sure of what we believe in so as to stand firm in this wicked world.
In conclusion
Train yourself to be of good conduct and good behaviour don't hide under the disguise of being spiritual. Spirituality comes with a lot of responsibilities. It takes more than going to church or going to mosque it has to do with our individual heart.
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Forgive and forget
Forgiveness has alot to do in individuals life because to err is human to forgive is divine. If you want to move forward in life you have to learn to forgive because once you don't forgive those that offend you don't expect people you offend to forgive you too that's how life works.
Sometimes it's always difficult to forgive but we just have to do it because it's necessary. We have people in the world today that boast of how they keep malice, how unforgiven they can be you will hear them say forgiveness is not in their dictionary. Some will even say no matter how they plead with them they can never forgive they have a heart of stone, when I hear such people I just smiled because I know they are ignorant. There are blessings that accompany forgiveness you can't be praying to God for forgiveness whereas you don't forgive your fellow human being.
Lack of forgiveness always delay success in life because you will be nursing the pain you should have let go and that will lead to more pain and sorrow for such person. Anytime you remembered that thing or someone that cause you the pain you can never forgive it aggravate the anger in you and that will increase the hatred you have for such thing or the person.
Forget
This is another process you have to go through after forgiven you have to forget not partially but totally. You have to let go of everything and open a new chapter count such thing as your past then you look forward to the bright future you have ahead of you. Some people forgive but they don't forget and that is not good enough. You have to undergo these two processes to achieve that greater heights we are aiming at.
In conclusion
Life without forgiveness will be chaotic because malice will take over the world and any little mistakes against one another will lead to killings and damage of properties. There will be unrest in the society and people will live in fear. We need to learn to live in love, peace and harmony that is when we can have a friendly society.
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A female child
I used to believe that we are no more in the era where families don't want female child because they believe they won't be useful to them all because they won't carry on the family name once they get married and also they believe the life of a female child ends in the kitchen. But to my surprise there are still people in this our present generation 21st century for that matter still having this absurd mentality.
I'm bringing you a true life story about a couple who their marriage got ruined because they didn't have female child. From my own perspective I don't think we need to differentiate between a male child and a female child am saying this not because I'm a female but because I believe it's not necessary. Which one is not good? Of course non both male and female are blessing from the lord so why should we be so strict on having male children. This particular family gave birth to five (5) female children and they got to this number all because they are looking for a male, according to them they planned on having only three[3] children. The husband became irritated when the wife gave birth to their second child and it was a female he started complaining and questioning his wife why she gave birth to a female child again and that was the beginning of problem in their home.
As time goes on he let go of his anger and the wife became pregnant for the third time and boom she gave birth to another female child the husband was so annoyed and couldn't control himself and he started misbehaving to the extent that the children started noticing the cracks between their parents. The husband was called and they settled it but he was still not convinced. The woman started managing her home doing everything to please her husband all because she didn't want to lose her husband but the man was not satisfied with this. I kept on wondering what all this stress is all about, he was asked why he is causing this much trouble and he replied " how can she give birth to 3 girls already with no male child to continue my legacy " and he was asked if he is the God that's giving children and what right did he have to complain what if he is barren what would he have said . Many times the wife wept bitterly praying fervently for God to give her a male child but God is a God of plans he knows what is right for individual irrespective of what we want or desire in our hearts.
That's how they continued until their last child who happen to be a female too. The man packed out of the house in search of a woman who can give him a female child but to his surprise the second wife also gave birth to two [2] females that was when he gave up on the search for a female child. In the process of him searching for a male child his wife was the only one catering for their five(5) female children , he abandoned her with the children and to the glory of God she brought them all up to be successful in life. The first daughter became a medical doctor, the second a nurse, the third a banker, the fourth an engineer and the last born is presently undergoing her NYSC in port-harcourt. They are now grand parents but he took him a while before he can come back to his family because he was ashamed of himself and everything he had done to his wife. He is now a proud father and can boost of his children where ever he find himself.
In conclusion
We should be grateful to God once we are able to be called a parent, many people are out there today praying earnestly to God to give them just a child that they can call their own. Yet you were given a female child nd you are complaining. Both a male child and a female child has equal right, what a male child can do a female child can do that also and even exceed what the male child can do then why then are we stressing ourselves instead of praying to God to give us successful children. Don't be an ingrate a female child can make you proud than your wildest imagination.
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There is power in the tongue
Many people live their lives carelessly, talk carelessly not minding what they say or the consequences it might have afterwards.
There is power in the tongue, power to save and power to kill that is why we need to be conscious of what we say at all times. Many people have ruined their lives due to what they say, many have prophesied death and destruction into their lives because of careless talks. There is a woman I know in my former neighborhood I don't know what to qualify this woman with because I can say she ruined her family with her mouth. She lived with her husband and her three[3] children two boys whom are twins and a girl who happen to be the eldest.
Never will a day go by without her cursing her husband and children especially her daughter, she took pleasure in curses that I had to sit and imagined how she was raised or what she turned her life to be herself. The husband happens to be a butcher he sells meat at a T-junction around the same area and this woman has nothing doing. She will wake up as early as 5a.m and be shouting disturbing her neighbours, fighting with her husband over minor issues laying heavy curses on him. Sometimes I wonder if they truly love one another when they begin their love journey. That is how they live their day to day lives and this affected the lives of the children really badly they talk in an abusive way just as their mother and they rain curses on one another or let me say they exchange words with curses. At the end of the day this man died in his sleep one night and early in the morning we heard noises from their house and neighbours rushed out to see what was going on the news got to us that the man has given up the ghost. This was a painful moments for everyone in the neighborhood because many people were lamenting, wailing, many people saying they still saw him the day before.
The crying continues for days and I hold on to one word said by a woman when she was talking to the cursing wife, she said" don't you know there is power in the tongue? All the curses you are raining on him has manifested now you said he will soon die and now he is dead why are you now crying? You ruined your life, that of your family with your tongue instead of you to be praying for him and your children early in the morning you will curse him see the outcome of it" she bursted into tears regretting all her actions but it was too late because the damage has been done already.
In conclusion
Don't just talk anyhow because you have no idea of the damage those words can cause, many people curse themselves all in the name of it's just a slang, it's just a joke not knowing these things they call jokes can change their lives for ever leaving them with bags of regrets. Let's be careful with our words and always remember there is power in the tongue because we don't know the angels in the spiritual realms that give answers to everything we say let's be careful.
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What does men really want?
This was the question I was asked today although it took me a while before I can answer because I had to ask myself over and over again.
Due to the issue of breakups and crashed relationships in the country today many people have given up on love. Am talking about matured relationship not sixteen[16] years old boy and girl play that they refer to as relationship. A lady was lamenting to me today on how her relationship crashed suddenly because of the guy's insecurity, lack of trust and different kinds of issues arising in the relationship. I really felt for her because she is emotionally drained she has made up her mind and given up on love, I don't know how to console her and make her see that true love still exist only if we experienced it with the right person.
Criticism from the mass
The world out there will see you as a bad person if you aren't everything they expected in a lady, she explained how she went extra mile just to put a smile on her partner face, all the unexplainable things she did for the relationship to work out then I asked her "what is the foundation of your relationship"? She couldn't give me a definite answer then I told her if the foundation is destroyed what can the righteous do?. That kept her speechless for a while before she can comport herself back enough to talk. She told me she wants to be respectful so as to avoid people castigations. She gave her best by agreeing to whatever the guy says which sounds somehow to me because they aren't married yet so what's all this about? As a graduate she lost many opportunities to work in a good firms because her so called boyfriend didn't want her to work with a male boss 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that makes me laugh. This guy doesn't trust her yet this lady always cares about what people outside will say if she started acting weird too, they will condemn her because she is a lady and that's her biggest fear.
She continued to care for this man while this same man continues to misbehave all because he thinks she is cheating on him whereas this man is the one cheating he opened a fully stocked shop for another lady without doing anything tangible in this lady's life. She let go of responsible men that could have helped her destiny for this cheat she called a boyfriend.
Even after she knew this guy opened a shop for another lady she still couldn't bring herself to let go of him, this guy took advantage of the love she had for him to the extent that if they are together and another lady is coming over he will tell this lady to go that another lady is coming over. He has no respect whatsoever for this young lady, it got to a point in her story I didn't see love anymore all I'm seeing is foolishness. A relationship where there is no respect, support, care, love, attention, good communication, tolerance and patience surely it's not a relationship to be proud of.
In conclusion
It's a good thing to be in love but please don't be blind in love when you see it's not working anymore kindly walk away, retrace your steps save your respect and dignity don't let any man makes you think less of yourself all in the name of love. The right person will never make you sad or make you feel worthless he will always cherish every moment spent with you and that is LOVE.
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Does age really matters?
Happy sunday to us all hope we are enjoying our weekend? A lot has been happening recently in this country the issue of sapa😣😣 and relationship breakfasts 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 may God provide for all our needs and also save those that needs saving from heart breaks.
Growing up as a female child one thing is very common that is the word "am I your mate". The rate at which we ladies or women fight for age it's at an alarming rate whenever we have issues with someone younger than us the first thing we fight for is the age difference and I kept asking myself this, is it really necessary?
Does age really matters?
The mentality that people carry can be so funny how can you based an achievement on age, I remembered when I was eighteen(18) years of age and I wanted to go into a business my aunt told my mom that am not of age to start a business of my own. She gave my mom different kinds of excuses why she shouldn't allow me to go into the business such reasons as I'm too young to manage money, I don't have enough experiences, once I started earning money I will be disrespectful because money has a strong spirit and due to my age I might not be able to control it those are the reasons she tendered to my mom and she agreed to everything she said, you understand how aunty's influence can be🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Age in achievement
Why must their be an age limit in success? Why must you get to a certain age before you can achieve great things? We need to erase the idea of getting old like thirty [30] years before becoming multimillionaire. You can succeed at any age once you are on the right track, once you are involved in a legal business I don't think age is required.
Age in marriage
Marriage is institution that requires wisdom you have to be matured physically, spiritually, emotionally to succeed gloriously in marriage. Many people agreed that the ideal age to get married is twenty-five(25) years upward they believe you you would have been matured both physically and intellectually but I oppose it because lots of ladies are out there that are matured in age but they are not matured enough for marriage while lots of young girls of 23 years are in marriage and they are doing well so why then must age be considered in marriage?
In conclusion
Age and experience of life works together one in one for successful living. If you are matured in age and you have no experiences of life it will be very difficult to go far in life. I will like you all to read and comment I will love to hear your point of view about this.
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Anger
Happy weekend to you all, alot has been going on lately and have been receiving many comments especially on my latest article "the power of silence". Firstly I want to appreciate everyone that commented and tip all my articles so far and special appreciation to rusty he has been putting smile on my face😉😉😉😉.
Yesterday I wrote on the power of silence and some comments really got to me and that's the reason why I will be talking on the title "anger" for today. Someone commented on my article yesterday not really on readcash, he said silence don't solve problems at all times there are times you need to involve violence to solve the problems. I laughed and replied that if violence is the best way to solve problems then we wouldn't have friends we would have fought with everyone around us with no mind of reconciliation because we want to promote violence, instead of violence why don't you just walk away in silence then settle it later when you are calm. While explaining how he acts when he is angry that gives me an inspiration to write on the topic "anger".
What is anger?
Anger is an emotion characterized by antagonism towards someone or something you feel has deliberately done you wrong. Anger can be a good thing, it can give you a way to express negative feelings or motivate you to find solutions to problems. But excessive anger can cause much more problems than it can solve. It's so normal to get angry in fact every human being on earth has that anger spirit in them it's left to an individual to have control over his or her anger.
I as a person I get angry very easily in fact little things piss me off but I gained control over my anger anytime I'm angry that's when I become the most gentle person you could ever know, I won't talk nor act irrationally for the anger to subside and when that is done I will call the person and spelt my heart out to him and her and we'll end it there. Some people gets angry excessively asin out of proportion to the point of them saying what they are not suppose to say and at the end of the day it lands them into trouble. That's when you will get angry and break a bottle on your partner's head unfortunately he or she might end up dead that's a big problem for such person why then don't you accommodate peace which is silence.
In conclusion
The best thing to do is to have total control of one self, control your anger don't get yourself into problems you can't solve all in the name of i was angry no one will listen to you after the damage had been done, you will face the consequences alone. Violence is never the solution to problems, peace is a good advocate let's adopt silence as a means of solving most of our anger issues and we will see a positive results.
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The power of silence
Growing up i' ve learnt alot of things about keeping silence when necessary, it's not every word said to you you must reply. There are times you will have to keep your silence so as to prove an important point.
Keeping silence doesn't mean you are a fool or you don't know what to say, it is simply you taking time out to think deeply in order to make your point more glaring and successful than others. Most of the times, people see me as a gentle lady all because I don't talk but I laugh deep inside of me because I know am not gentle am just quiet. I have learnt alot from my father because he is a quiet man, he talks when necessary and when it's not you will see him sitting quietly observing his environment. People see him as a dangerous man because he doesn't talk much but he is not atall so I can say I learnt that from him.
Silence is golden, silence is divine, your opinions will be respected when you know when to talk and when not to. A wise man once told me that if you are in a meeting be the one to talk last, let every other person there talk then you pick one or two points from them all to make your own contributions. Don't be a talkative, it's better to be a wise introvert than a foolish extrovert, pick your words with wisdom. There is a proverb in my language that says (eyin lohun to ba ti bo ko se ko mo) meaning your speech is like an egg once fallen to the ground it can't be packed anymore. I always keep this at the back of my mind that's why I don't talk much especially when am angry so as not to say what I will regret later. The best time to keep silence is when you are angry because at that point in time you are not yourself and everything you alter out at that time will be used against you and when you are calm you will be wondering when did you say that.
In the world today, people are looking for your mistakes, they are looking for what to hold against you especially speech that is why someone needs to be extra careful not to talk carelessly. Words should be picked carefully don't say because you are older than the person you are talking with then start talking anyhow that might land you in a big trouble and there might be no remedy after you've caused the damage. Wise people are always quiet, they don't talk anyhow because they know how golden silence is, sometimes silence worth millions while careless talk worth suffering.
In conclusion
I will urge us to take our time to read this and reflect on how we live our day to day lives, silence doesn't mean you are a fool, it means you know and understand how expensive silence is. May we not land into trouble because of our speech. Stay safe.
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A name
Good morning my lovely people on readcash, hope you all had a beautiful night rest? Firstly I want to thank God the giver of life and my wonderful colleague @Olasquare also know as @olawalium for this insight. I got my inspiration from his post about nickname yesterday.
What is a name?
A name is a word or set of words by which a person or thing is known, addressed, or referred to.
Why do we give a name?
Giving a name to a thing or a child is a means of identification. Because if we didn't have a name I wonder how we will be addressing one another, probably we will be calling ourselves our hair colour, height, skin colour or attire we are putting on at that moment. A name has alot to do in the live of an individual, you don't just give a name to a child because you like the sound of the name or because you saw a pretty girl or handsome boy that bears the name. There are lots of circumstances surrounding a name, some names has meanings that we never can imagine why such a beautiful name will have such awful meaning.
Kudos to my parents because none of us has an english name, please don't misquote me oo am not saying english name is bad ooo am just saying my parents don't like giving english name because my dad believes it's better to give a child an indigenous name that you know the meaning than giving a child a name you have no idea of what it means. Also biblical names, there are some biblical names that their meanings are not pleasant and people continue to give their children such names because it's a name in the bible. Giving a name to a child is more than saying the name is in the bible, there are good luck and bad lucks each name carries. Some children in the world today are facing misfortune due to the name they were given at birth, many children grow up and change the beautiful names they were given into another thing all because of that's what's in trend now, they don't want to be addressed locally they want a tushed name. My siblings and I didn't have an english name neither biblical names because my parents believe in giving a local name that they know the meaning.
Know the meaning of a name before giving your child
Before giving your child or children names know the meaning of the name you want to give them, make sure it's a name you are sure of its meaning. A name is very important in a child's life. Like they say in my language that(tori to mo ba da ran la n se so mo loruko) that we give a child a name in case he or she commits a crime 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
In conclusion
Therefore I will implore us this morning to always think twice before giving ourselves names because it has alot to do in our lives.
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Power and fame
What do we understand by the word power?
Power as defined in the dictionary is an ability or capacity to do something or act in a particular way. Then let's relate this to we human being, the literal meaning of power is that strength we have to do a certain thing maybe we want to lift a log of wood, that strength that helps us achieve that is the power we have over that particular log of wood. Now let's see it from another point of view what it means when someone is said to have power. Let's take our politicians as an example, they are powerful people they are in the place of power they can do and undo, they go Scot free even when they are wrong and that is power, they control the affairs of the country as they like, they feed their own pockets and no one to question them because they are in the place of power. A common saying says "you can't know the real colour of a person until he or she is rich or in a place of power" and it's true, every one tends to have a camouflage nature we change suddenly especially when we attain a position of power and authority and that is human being for you. You might see a gentle, well behaved man or woman before riches and power and suddenly when he or she gets there you see another different person entirely. He or she mit become wicked and hostile you will now be wondering what has happened to him or her that's what power does. Everyone wants to attain the position of power.
Let's talk about fame
Fame is the state of being known or talked about by many people, especially on account of notable achievement. Power and fame works hand in hand anywhere you see power you will see fame, powerful people are always famous people, fame contributes to individual behaviour just like power does. You will see them beating their chest saying don't you know me? I am this, I am that, they are letting you know how famous they are. Fame can make someone misbehave in so many ways because anyone with fame will see themselves as next to God. It takes discipline to overcome the spirit of pride when someone is famous for soneone not to act rashly. Power and fame are great factors that build individual characters.
In conclusion
Power and fame is good In fact I crave for it too, I want to be in a position of power and I want to be famous, I want to be known, I want to be celebrated but in the hope of getting all these we have to guide our heart, mind and spirit not to be swayed by the good things that comes with power and fame.
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