Get into the habit of admitting mistakes

Some say that humans are wrong and forgetful places. Humans sin is a natural thing and it has been like that since the first time humans were created. However, it is also not justified if the sin is committed either intentionally or unintentionally. Sin is still sin.

Have we ever counted how many sins we have committed in one day? Maybe we are far from sins that are very obvious, such as killing, adultery, and so on. However, what about minor sins? Perhaps we are so used to it that we forget that it is also a sin. Insulting others, gossiping, lying, hurting other people's hearts, and so on. So if there is a question, who among us is without sin? Can we answer?

Regret it all, the intention to admit mistakes is a good start. However, the next step may not always be easy, which is to apologize to the person we have hurt.

For those of us who want to apologize, there is anxiety that usually comes. Will he forgive me? What if he gets angry? I was afraid to face his anger. He must be very sad. Agree?

What to do? For those of you who want to apologize to others, but are upset and confused because of fear, try checking some of the messages below:

First , you are wrong and that means you have to be brave to face whatever the risks are, including being scolded. Take this as a lesson so you don't do it again.

Second , once again, the intention to apologize is good, so why be afraid if you want to do something good. Because this will be good for him and for yourself.

• Be kind to the other person: Maybe the other person will be angry at first, but the other person will be happier that you apologized. In fact, other people will hate it if they see you are wrong but pretend to be innocent.

•Be kind to yourself: By apologizing you will be freer from feelings of guilt. If he doesn't want to forgive, it's a risk, but at least you guys have good intentions to apologize.

Third , lingering in guilt will torture yourself. So do it as soon as possible and move on to be a better person.

Fourth , feel that apologizing is difficult?

Then do it. You guys are amazing because you have managed to do such a difficult thing. You are a brave man.

Thank you for reading to the end, I hope it's useful.

By @Bangs1803