People naturally love themselves. He also loves his Creator. In a vast world of the heart, love is basically divided into two stages: one is the love of creation with the Creator, the other is the love of creation with creation. People love their parents, siblings, children, family, relatives, friends from the very source of love for themselves. The Creator Himself loves His creation and has adorned the earth for the best creatures of creation. The Holy Qur'an says: "Allah loves them, and they love Allah." (Surat al-Ma'ida, 54)
If you do not love the universe, you cannot love the Creator. People are immersed in the love of nature, many of them can spend their whole life in the crowd of a group of non-relatives even though they have no relatives. Someone unselfishly extends a helping hand to a helpless person, child or animal. It has been said about human love, ‘and He (Allah) has created mutual love and kindness among you.’ (Surah Ar-Rum, verse: 21)
All worldly deeds and good deeds are just an occasion to strengthen the love for Allah. Gaining the love and satisfaction of the Creator is the highest dignity of a pious person. The best way to achieve the love of the Creator is to meditate, surrender and concentrate on Him. The whole creation loves its Creator, and the Creator Himself loves His best creation and the greatest Messenger, the Prophet (peace be upon him). The development of human qualities, the attainment of Allah's pleasure and the attainment of salvation in the hereafter is not possible for anyone except the implementation of the ideals of the Prophet (peace be upon him) and the placement of His love in the heart. The Holy Qur'an declares with clear guidance, "Say, 'If you love Allah, then follow me, and Allah will love you and forgive you your sins.'" (Surah Al 'Imran, verse 31)
Nabikul Shiromani Hazrat Muhammad (PBUH) is the best person in the human race. His grace and contribution to Muhammad is the greatest in the Ummah. Loving the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) is an essential duty, in the absence of which faith is not purified. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, 'No one of you can be a believer until I am dearer to him than his parents, children and the whole world.' (Bukhari and Muslim) He added, ' You will not enter heaven until you believe. You can't be honest until you love each other again. Shall I not tell you of a thing which will enable you to love one another? (That is) you will spread peace among yourselves. '(Muslim)
If we think deeply about the source of human love for one another, we will be compelled to say without hesitation — my love-love, life-death, my everything is dedicated to that great being, who is my Creator, my Lord; As said by Hazrat Ibrahim (AS), the father of the Muslim nation. In the words of the Holy Qur'an, "Surely my prayer, my sacrifice, my life and my death — all are for the pleasure of Allah, the Lord of the worlds." (Surat al-An'am: 182) , Children and His Messenger should be loved more than anything else. His laws must be obeyed in order to love the Creator.
The love that the Creator has given to human nature is not limited to himself; Rather it is ubiquitous. So people transcend the boundaries of their loved ones and spread their love in the vast environment around them. As a result, kindness, love, affection and the pull of the heart can be received from one person to another. Loving ones can be their parents for their children, their children for their parents, sisters for their brothers, brothers for their sisters and any other relatives. A woman can also get the love of a man. But that love must be valid and approved. Husband's love for wife, wife's love for husband is not limited to Shari'ah approval; Rather, it is a multifarious virtuous deed. In Islam, without a legitimate relationship of nurturing and expressing love, there is no opportunity for a human being to have a heart-to-heart relationship and deepen love.
So for happiness and peace in this world and in the hereafter, one should love Allah and His Messenger and follow the right path. Success can be achieved only if it is possible to follow the Prophet (peace be upon him) in words, deeds and thoughts. That or those who love parents, siblings, spouses, children, relatives, the poor and the needy as usual in the eyes of humanity; He is basically obeying the command of Allah and performing love and duty towards all human beings properly is in fact the name of love for the Creator. However, in the competition of expressing love outside of marriage, it should be one's duty to make the mind suitable for human love in the true sense, rather than indulging in heinous sins, adultery and obscenity.