Failure
is a word that is not good to hear, if someone mentions a plan or goal in front of us and we tell him that you will fail, he will lose his temper. Every second person, especially a young person, seems to be crying over his failures. Sir, I tried so hard to pass such and such an exam but failed. I have such and such a degree but I can't get a job. I work day and night but pay the expenses. No, I failed to get a good post. Now the family is talking. What should I do? Etc. etc. Seeing the condition of such people, a question arises as to why we fail. The fact is that the one who gives success or failure belongs to the Almighty, yes! There are also some obvious reasons that failure can be largely avoided if it is taken care of.
Here are some common causes of failure:
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A mistake in determining the goal (Aim), for example, if a person is interested in computer science but he decides to become a doctor, then he is responsible for the failure, then the goals should also be considered according to Shari'ah. He wants to adopt a sector where there will be disobedience to Shariah, such as lying, deception, and bribery, so it is foolish to target such a sector.
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Error in achieving the goal (Aim). For example, if a person wants to become a car mechanic, he should go to a specialist to learn it. If he opens his workshop from the beginning and starts experiments on people's cars. So you may have to give and take.
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Do not consult with experienced people despite being inexperienced.
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Lack of perseverance also makes one fail. No matter how difficult the path may be, one can cross it by adopting the attribute of perseverance. Look at the drop of water that if it keeps dripping on a rock, then there is something in it. Doesn't pierce anything.
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The time-waster should not be surprised if he fails. The cheetah is a very fast animal that can achieve a speed of about 150 km per hour in just three jumps, but according to experts, it can achieve this speed. He can only hold 70 seconds, otherwise, his stomach will explode, he will not let those 70 seconds go to waste, and at the same time, he already has a plan to control the prey, so an animal needs to escape its attack. It is difficult.
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The mood can also be a cause of failure. When you want to work, when you want to rest. Successful people are not the method, so it is not the mood but the principle should work.
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Those who have high expectations when they do not see their desires being fulfilled declare that sir, we have failed, the work of a horse from a goat can be taken in a dream, not in waking.
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Sometimes there are temporary setbacks on the path to success. At this point, many people get discouraged that we cannot succeed. It should be noted that those around us whom we consider successful have never failed. Happened!
To be continued ⏩.
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