Chapter 4:
The Dark Side of Communication.
Medyo mapaet ang nakahain ngayong hapunan mga master. Never ito naging subject sa school.
Nagtataka ako kung bakit may subject ng English at Filipino pero never napagusapan ang ganitong bagay.
Samantalang, tinuruan tayo gumamit ng figure of speech, pronouns, verbs at adjectives.
Pero yung practicality ng communication and what really happened tuwing may naguusap.
Parang wala😅
Marami pa talagang matututunan sa
University of Life. 🎓
Kaya wag na patagalin.
There are 2 types of specific influence.
#1 Genuine Motivation
#2 Sincere Manipulation
2015 I discover a book about the power of influence. I remember, very little naman ang interest ko pag dating sa influence at communication. Mainly because, we humans are wired to communicate. To express oneself through the use of communication.
How naive I appeared to be that socialization is very dynamic. Ibig sabihin, ever changing. Nagbabago.
Upon reading books, attending seminar, listening to podcast, researching about influence.
I discover that there are two sides of every communication. Dito papasok ang darker side.
Please mga master.
Kung patuloy mo itong binabasa.
Sikreto lang natin 'to ha?
This subjects are not meant to be shared pa talaga since very dangerous kung gagamitin to sa ibang tao.
I got interested to learn this subject because I want to learn how to protect myself especially in
the Art of Communication. Where words are powerful beyond measure. I basically polished communication by meeting different boss and learned from each behavior.
Kaya eto na. 😊
Introduction pa lang yung kanina.
Medyo mahaba 'to dahil carefully crafted ang bawat salita to avoid confusion and misunderstanding.
The dark side of influence is
"Sincere Manipulation"
The word manipulation comes from latin word "Manus" meaning "hand"
To control something with calculation.
The usual portrayal sa word na Manipulation ay something dark, dangerous, bad, unholy.
Siguro dahil sa napapanuod sa mga thriller movies.
Sa mga betrayal scenes.
But actually, manipulation is just a neutral word to control something. Nagiging mali lang if ginamit mo sa tao para sa self interest at mapasama yung tao.
A good of friend of mine study the subject of manipulation not to use it to harm but to learn how to protect ourselves sa intention ng iba.
Sa totoo lang,
madaming tao ang madalas nakangiti.
Maayos ang pananamit.
Mabangong kasuotan.
Ngunit sa loob ay madilim.
Using manipulation and fake expression to create a good impression.
Mainly because of their self-interest.
Kaya naman nakakabilib yung ibang tao na nagsakripisyo ng sarili nila para sa ikabubuti ng iba.
Dahil isinantabi nila ang pansariling interest para sa ikagiginhawa ng iba. Apir🙏
Disclaimer:
I'm not persuading you to use manipulation as a way to deceive others.
Para manloko ng iba.
May karma po yan😅
May masamang balik
ang masamang intensyon😅
Kaya okay ng alamin to protect yourself and your loved ones but never use it to harm others.
Ayun master.
Nabitin ka ba?
Hayaan mo, pag nakaluwagluwag.
Gagawa tayo ng libro all for the subject of manipulation haha😅
Hanggang dito na lang muna.
Maglalaba pa kami 😅🙏✌️
