Which is seen in our dismissal and conversations and in matters with the common people. We show extreme restraint when we are disgusted by someone's very bad behavior and while abstaining from gossip, we still call the training of the person in front of us bad, while everyone is so sensitive about their own training that Seeing the letter come, it becomes more and more out of reach ...
There is no need to be out of yourself after hearing the name of training. Training is just the name of an environment. The environment in which you have lived is a part of your personality. For example, if you lived in an ignorant environment as a child. What is your fault if you have grown up in the streets? Or what is your fault even if the parents could not be found due to bad luck? But fortunately you have read and written and are not correcting yourself, then it is your fault. Now you can train yourself ...
Parents are responsible for their good and bad up to a certain age and train as well as they know. Then you can be forgiven for your ignorance in childhood and boyhood ... But when you become independent, you are responsible for your own good and bad. There is no need to come out if someone targets your training. Improve your habits with good company and reading good books. Just like when you go out, you fix your hair, polish your shoes and press your clothes. Wash your face and apply a little lotion. If possible, even lipstick powder ...