Want the heart to stay happy, don't always force others to like what we want
If you are looking for tips to be happy, surely there are many references that we can get. And all will return to your attitude and life choices. One of the most important things is that we must accept the fact that happiness must be created by ourselves.
To be able to create happiness, we can start by stopping forcing everyone to like us. Forcing something can sometimes even make our own hearts disappointed. Of course, we are the ones who will tire ourselves out if all we think about is how to get everyone to like everything we do.
We Need Rain to Reach Rainbow
It seems impossible that everything will always run beautifully and fine. There must be pebbles and trials that we must face. But by going through and overcoming all these tests, we will feel the pleasure of success and happiness. After all, we will need rain to get a rainbow. We need darkness to be able to enjoy the beauty of the expanse of stars.
Focus On The Best Things You Can Do
Talks and demands of people will never end. Maybe you will also continue to be tired of all the things people are talking about you. But don't let it hurt your heart. Keep creating your happiness by focusing on the best things you can do.
I choose to be unstoppable. I'm bigger than my concerns and worries. the strength of other inspires me daily. i focus on my goal. i trust my intuition and live a courageous life
Let go of what hurts, fight for the one who loves
There will be people who hurt and hate. But also of course there will be people who will always love and be by your side. It's just a matter of how we deal with it all. And one of the best ways to be happy in this condition is to let go of those who hurt and fight for those who have proven to be sincere in love.
Happiness is letting go of what you think your life is supposed to look like and celebrating it for everything that it is
We have our own way of being happy. There is always a path we can take for our good. If you can make a lot of people like you with the good you do, then be grateful. But even if not everyone can like and appreciate you, still be grateful. Because gratitude is the easiest way to get blessings from everything we do.
Take care of our hearts and we must realize that :
Not everyone likes us
Not everyone is sincere to us
And not everyone is honest with us
But don't be so easy to think
Increase your prayers so that God will always take care of you
Don't let yourself become a despicable and insulted person
When someone hurts you. Ask God to expand your patience
No need to grudge, because it will burden your life path. Don't worry, there is an all-seeing God. He who oversees every human action will have its own recompense. Either while in this world or after we leave this world.
Don't forget to pray that Allah will keep you away from evil after this so that your life will be blessed.
Thank you Ayukyukyu2 for your writeup. You have touch the important point. We can not force people to be happy. We create our own happiness. We can only contribute a little in others happiness. Of course God is pleased with the little we contribute to others happiness.