Hello everyone. Do you remember the last time you asked yourself if you’re okay?
I don’t know but I was thinking why was everyone always asking other people if they’re okay and don’t ask themselves if they’re okay. This may not be a major problem for others but it is.
Here are the reasons why we should be asking ourselves the same question:
YOU NEED IT
Other people are sensitive about this topic because they are guilty. They’re guilty of not prioritizing themselves. Have you encountered someone and asked if he/she is okay and she broke down in tears? I have and I felt awful not because I caused her to break down but because she was waiting for someone to ask if she’s okay. and we shouldn’t wait for someone to ask us if we’re okay. WE SHOULD BE THE FIRST ONES TO CHECK IF WE ARE OKAY. It is our body, mind, and soul. We should be the ones asking ourselves because we are the ones who will suffer the consequences. Let’s not throw a pity party and wait for others to comfort you. We need to be okay on our own.
OTHERS ARE BUSY WITH THEIR LIVES
One of the most common problems in relationships is when their partners forget to check on them. Why? Because others have lives on their own. Their lives don’t only revolve around you. We get mad because they forget to check upon our state, then if that’s the case, we should be mad about ourselves too. If we keep on being like this, relationships won’t last.
IT WILL HELP YOU SOLVE YOUR OWN PROBLEM
Once you asked yourself if you’re okay and found out you’re not, you will be able to determine the actions needed to solve your problems in order to get rid of the feeling and not wait for others to make the decision for you. It’s being responsible for one’s self. If you practice this, you will never ever depend on other people’s advice in solving your problems because you can now assess, determine and solve your own problems.
I’d probably be just blabbing here and there. Haha I’m tired and I just want people to be okay on their own. Also to remind them that we only have ourselves in the end. Let’s practice it. Will add something on the list when I think of another benefits. For now, May you be happy and feeling cute as hell. Kisses
