@Ayane-chan 22 April 2022 more from that month

Value Your Friendship *Some of our friends are already like families. We can share things with them that no one can understand. They are always there when we needed them and they treat us more nicely than our family sometimes. Though they are not blood-related to us, we still value them like one because of the care, love, and support that they can provide us, unconditionally.*

And that's what true friends are for, but sometimes some people take advantage of our kindness just because we are friends with them. Then bait you with the line, ***"What are friends for?"*** It's unfair, of course, and sometimes it's already toxic. Friendship isn't just for the convenience of any side, and that goes not just for friendship only but for any kind of relationship. We can't just be friends with them just because we need them, then we'll leave them if we don't need them anymore. Just like what I have witnessed with my friends just recently. I don't want to mention their names here, so let's just call them ***Boy*** and ***Girl***. Here's a little background about them. They both have a lot of similarities in terms of their personality, attitudes, mental issues, physical health issues, and relationship issues. Then, Boy is always there for her during her breakdowns. He always consoles and comforts her until she gets better. However, Girl is sometimes sensitive and sometimes insensitive. She also doesn't want to own up to things that she obviously was the one at fault. Instead, she would just burst into outrage like she was the victim and lash out at Boy. Since Boy is patient and considerate, he wouldn't dare to fight back at her and just give her endless patience and understanding. Boy is often protective over his friends and that includes her. Since every time that she would have a boyfriend, she was always been cheated on and hurt. So instinctively, Boy would be protective of her as a brother every time she has someone new. However, Boy can be overly protective also that he had threatened some of Girl's boyfriends. It leads to an argument between Girl and her boyfriend. Girl blocked Boy on Messenger so her boyfriend can be at peace. Girl also doesn't have control over anything she said to Boy that she had already had hurt him. That's what happened recently between them and Girl wouldn't admit her mistakes. I even apologize to Boy on her behalf since she wouldn't do it. When I told her to go and apologize, she just told me that she doesn't care about Boy and threatened us that she would even block him from all her social media accounts. Well, that's totally unfair on Boy's side. Though I don't have anything to do with them, as their friend also, I feel sorry for Boy for what had Girl did to him. It's like the friendship that they have built at their lowest times didn't matter anymore for now that she has found someone new who could make her happy. It's like those years of sympathizing with each other and lifting each other's souls have been instantly thrown away for now that she is already fine. I'm not comfortable that I have a sulking friend over there, bearing all his hurt feelings alone. I'm the one who keeps on saying sorry for her though it's not my mistake, just to comfort Boy. Well, we just concluded that maybe it is just really her nature and we can't do anything about it anymore. Since we are the one who is more mature in viewing things in life, we just have to understand her more and then be there for her again until she learns from her mistakes. Fortunately, right now, they already have reconciled and I'm glad about it. Friendship should be valued. May we find someone new in our life anytime but true friends are always there. Ready to listen to our stories, console us, comfort us, and encourage us, whenever we need them. I can testify to that since I have that sudden breakdown also, and the ones who often comfort me with late-night talks are Skater Boi and Acoustic Boi. That's why whenever they needed help, I'm often ready to help them as long as I can do something for them. A lot of people may just come and go in our lives as we face it every day. However, friends will always be there, no matter how far the distance between you with them. Just a chat away, and they respond. Much faster to respond than your boyfriend sometimes. *(Kidding)* We should value them with all our hearts. Friends like that are rare. That kind of people just doesn't come often into our lives. We should take care of what relationship we have built with them, not ruin it by just some random guy who can't understand us all the time. *Hiyaa!* *Another day, another blog again. Even so, thanks always for reading!*

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