self realization and success

Self realisation is usually mistaken for "self actualization". And in my opinion they are both interconnected, and they both have to do with one's self.

Self actualization in psychology means: man's aspiration to achieve goals and fulfill his potential. On the other hand self realization is to "know one's self".

Now, the latter would have more to do with maybe pursing knowledge about a variety of things, expanding one's horizons, perhaps reaching great heights give back plenty to the society and make a good name for one's self.

But in trueness, one cannot actualize one's full potential without first knowing one's self, thus the importance of self realization. Many today sadly have not attained self realization, and the saddest part of of that truth is that many do not even know that. Some have found it hard to stay focused on one thing for a long time, some even find challenges in setting goals, thus do not even have ambition, almost like they float.

The journey to self realization is a long one, it does not happen in a day. It sounds easy, and many may claim to fully " know" themselves. But how much do you really know you? You could be conscious of your state of being, but still not know exactly who you are. Now everything concerning a persons state of mind and level of thinking or imagination is one way or another connected to self esteem. Today people call other's "push overs" why? Because they can't hold their own, and they are always unsure of themselves. They do not know who they are, or what they are capable of becoming. And therefore cannot move forward.

What is the way to self realization?

First, is accepting your flaws and issues, all your problems. The key is self love, and self appreciation. Doing this would boost your esteem and belief in yourself. Then the hard part, is coming out of your comfort zone. Do what you dislike doing, things you have found yourself too lazy to indulge in or too abstract to concern yourself with (this does not include anything harmful to your life) expand your mind. When you find yourself doing this you are slowly setting goals and achieving them no matter how little they seem. The aim is showing yourself you are capable of achieving more than what you believed you could. When you have achieved self realization, self actualization becomes easier.

Take that journey today, be a success tomorrow.