The No That Was Said Simply That “no” wasn’t said out of anger. It wasn’t even said out of courage. It was closer to exhaustion—exhaustion from explaining, from justifying, from fighting for something I wasn’t sure the other person truly understood. The offer came from someone whose background I knew well. He wasn’t a bad person. He might have even meant well. He talked about a joint project, a reasonable budget, a chance to be seen. But there was one condition: the tone of…
