I think I heard that sentence from Celine Dion some years back but till date it guides my actions and decisions. How about you?
In life we face some many challenges and pressures that make us reach some kind of decisions and conclusions. Remember to think again, think well before you close up all opportunities or relationships. You do not know when you will be needing them. They might be the only thing left to save you but you have blown the chance away.
Meanwhile comes when we allow our judgement to becloud our sense of reasoning, how we must have saved ourselves from such nightmare if we thought things through.
I know someone who knows some one biting herself hard now for a decision she didn't think through 12years ago. With a little disagreement, she broke a relationship that almost culminated into marriage. She left without knowing she was pregnant already. All in the family of the guy begged and wanted to settle things between them, but to no avail. Now she want the opportunity back but its long gone. The man is married with three kids but she is a single mother of a child. You cant believe she wants the man back now, claiming some prophets said her destiny is with the man she abandoned since 12yrs ago. She is back with a boy of almost 12 years and she wants her "man" back.
Please did they not say opportunity comes but once? I do not believe in that though but it is demeaning to see someone going back to lick her vomit just because she didn't think things through before taking a rash decision. She thought she had everything under control, but the man survived and moved on.
Think Twice. For the sake of the memories you had, for the future. Think things through but if you still feel you are justified and want to take the decision; --REMEMBER THE WIFE OF LOT. haha, do not look back.
What do you think about regrets? Have you made any decision you never thought through? How can you help someone biting fingers? Haha
Meanwhile if you are related to the man would you advice him to have her in your life again? Or just collect the child if granted? Will you tell the woman at home?
Some people are just confused in their life and want to bring problems to someone happy sha..
Thanks for the visit.