Wooing a lady can be a huge task sometimes! Not every man has that courage or boldness to walk up to a lady and tell her how he feels.
In most cases, this comes with some insults and embarrassments especially among Nigerian ladies! No insult but that is what it appears to be.
A simple and innocent 'hello' is often met with a 'go and die look'. The lady will look at you disdainfully. Sometimes, they measure you from head to toe to know what kind of answer you deserve.
If your look or dressing is 50% okay to the lady, then you might get a 'hi', if not, you will get 'ehn ehn', what is it' look? 😂
Sometimes i wonder if they get trained to give the kind of answers they respond with. We are just guys trying to throw pass and go for what we think we want.
Truth is, no woman can marry herself, yet they give men serious headache before they could even give him a chance to be a friend let alone date.
Amazingly, no matter how you love a lady, if she doesn't like you, no mountain can move her to look at you twice.
Your best bet is to not even try to avoid some humiliations but if humiliation is 'your thing', then you can go for it.
It means you belong to the class of those guys who believe hard to get ladies are the good ones.
Sorry, they are far from being the good ones. In most cases, they are the one with deceits or what we say 'have cockroach in their cupboard'.
Every man no doubt has one funny story or the other to tell about how they have been dealt with by ladies just because they try to express their feelings.
As a guy, share your story in the comment section below. Tell us what these women have showed you by just trying to throw 'pass' - woo the lady. 😌
Thanks for your time.
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