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A couple went to a counselor.

They were arguing fiercely. They couldn't even see each other's faces. He thought that the advice of the people should be followed and a little therapy should be given. When they both entered the office, the counselor noticed the tension on their faces. He asked them both to sit down. When they sat down, he said, "Now tell me, what is your problem?" So they both started talking at once and in one breath they hurled mountains of criticism at each other. Both were unwilling to back down

The councilor let the two of them vent their frustrations and quietly waited for their fight to end. When both of them got tired of talking, the councilor said to them, "Well, this is a story of fighting and flaws. Now tell me each other's strengths." What do you two like about each other?

Both became completely silent. They didn't say anything for a long time. The counselor realized that they were so angry with each other that they did not remember each other's good things and did not want to remember each other. Write each other's strengths on your own paper.

Once again, they did not write anything for a long time and anger was evident on their faces. After a long time, as soon as the husband started writing something on his paper, suddenly his wife also started writing something on her paper. It seemed that the two were still sitting at the competition filling out their papers.

When he wrote, the wife handed her paper to the counselor. She returned it and said, "Give it to your husband." He will read it himself. The wife gave it to him and took his paper. They both started reading and after a while tears flowed from his wife's eyes. They were very happy to read each other's compliments. The atmosphere in the room suddenly changed. It was as if the two of them had never fought. The councilor's duty was fulfilled. They were entering the room as if they were fighting, laughing, smiling and putting their arms around each other and leaving the room. Every human being has a combination of many strengths and weaknesses. If we look for the faults of others, we make their lives miserable, and if we focus on the virtues of each, we make our own lives and the lives of others easier. The decision is in your own hands.

(Thought of Humanity) ـ `

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