I do not know, I do not know, how to marry him?
Most boys and girls today think so.
In fact, marriage is as uncertain as gambling. One can win, one can cheat again.
Many people think, first I will know, then I will get married. They think it is to keep the family in harmony.
If it is considered from the point of view of acquaintance, then everyone should marry the friend who has been there since childhood. Because he has been known for a long time.
But there is very little pre-existing relationship with marriage.
If the relationship had been beautiful after marriage, the Angelina Jolie-Brad Pitt relationship would have lasted the longest.
They met in 2004, then lived together for a long time and got to know each other well, then they decided to get married in 2014. But the marriage did not last for two years and ended in divorce.
This is just an example.
If marriage was good only by knowing each other well, then in the western world, those who are getting married after living together, their family will be better. But the divorce rate is higher among them.
As long as they live together, they survive. When it comes to marriage, most people get divorced.
But in a conservative society like ours, most marriages are between two strangers in the family, but the survival rate is much higher here.
When family marriage takes place, it is based on faith. Boys and girls believe in their parents, they believe in their destiny, they believe in social norms.
It is this belief that makes the relationship stronger.
Moreover, there is less expectation or expectation towards each other. As a result, there is no such thing as low receipt or high receipt. It also acts as a big factor.
For this reason, our previous generations, no matter what the sorrows, hardships, affluence, deprivation, love, monomalinya in the world, they lived a successful family life.
This is the rule that demographic transitions will create individualism among people.
As the society becomes more modern, the tendency of people to get married will decrease, the tendency to have children will also decrease, on the other hand the rate of divorce will also increase. It is a part of the social transition that is taking place in the developed world right now.
In fact, in the case of marriage, it cannot be said that the relationship will go well only if you get married knowingly, if you marry a stranger, the relationship will go bad.
Marriage is a custom in which the relationship between husband and wife is formed automatically. If a man is unfamiliar, no matter how unfamiliar he is, he becomes most familiar the day after marriage.
The most important thing is that marriage is a bond through which love and affection between husband and wife are created by Allah Himself.
