Parents are born with the birth of a child. What you teach your child from birth to five or six years is what shapes your child's personality. To teach a child you need to build a friendship with your child. Today we will talk about some effective ways to make good friends with your child. Let's know the methods that you can use to build friendships with your child.
How to make friends with a child
1. Bring attractiveness to food
One of the problems that starts from childhood is that children do not want to eat. So let the child eat like him. Feed at the dining table. The dining table is the main step in making friends with the child. Do not practice feeding around the house or watching TV. Let go of hunger. If necessary, skip one meal a day, if you are hungry, eat like this. Give a variety of home-made delicious food, present differently, bring attractiveness. However, do not give one meal every day. Develop the habit of feeding at regular intervals. Snacks like chips, fried-burnt type foods are better to eat less. Make it a habit to eat more and more green vegetables.
2. Give importance to feedback
Another serious problem with children between the ages of 2 and 5 is that the child does not listen. So look at the child as a mature person. Give importance to children's opinions. ‘He’s a kid, he doesn’t understand anything / What will he understand?’ Don’t make such comments in front of them. Make friends with your child.
3. Keep the behavior right
Keep your behavior right. Because from this age children learn to imitate. Listen carefully to the children's problems. Listen even if it seems trivial. Because the seeds of big problems are hidden there.
4. Do not over-rule
Make sure that the child never suffers from excessive discipline, that is, so that he does not become depressed. Don't gossip in front of others. Don’t bring home the tension of office or business. Husbands and wives should respect each other. Your child will also learn respect.
5. Give small gifts
At this age the child develops various bad habits like finger sucking. Money laundering is created from the age of two-and-a-half years due to lack of security. It is not possible to get rid of currency overnight. Give small gifts to get rid of coinage. In loneliness, many children feel that they are no longer loved.
. Wet the bed
Give paper toilet training to avoid bed wetting problems. Reduce the amount of watering after the evening. Get up once in the middle of the night and go to the toilet. Consult a doctor if the bed is wet even after 5 years of age.
. Give the children time
After the second child, there is a slight decline in the care of the parents towards the first child. As a result, children suffer from Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. This disease is caused by anxiety and fatigue. Can't hold confidence. So try to give the children time. Maintain a normal family environment.
. Eliminate school fears
Kids feel uncomfortable when they are admitted to school. This is very normal. Take it with you and wait outside for a while. Be aware of the school environment. To avoid his fear of the test, explain to him that the test is not so scary. Don't talk about frustration if you don't succeed. Do not be afraid to cut. Thorns cannot be picked up all the time.
9. Give courage
Children cannot be intimidated by reasoning. Give the kids courage. Do not discuss or laugh at things that the child is afraid of.
10. Awareness of baby nanny
Working parents should be aware of the child's nanny. Go home at an inopportune time and try to understand the situation. Everyone wants his child to be healthy and intelligent. But whether a child is intelligent or not depends a lot on his genes. The genes that a child is born with are the main reason for his intelligence and character traits. But, new research says, a child's IQ level depends only 50% on his genes. His surroundings are responsible for the rest.
For some reason your baby will grow up to be intelligent
1. Nutritious food
Omega 3 fatty acids are very important for the development of the child's intelligence. So it is necessary to eat fish, soybean, spinach during pregnancy. Other vegetables that contain iron also help supply oxygen to the baby's brain. Almonds and walnuts are also very necessary.
2. Fit and active
Exercise improves blood flow to the body, which helps the baby grow. When the mother exercises, the level of neurons in the fetal brain increases by about 40%. It carries the power of human remembrance.
3. Talk to the unborn child
If the same song or poem is heard over and over again during pregnancy, the research says, the child can recognize it by listening to that song or poem after birth. You also need to talk to the unborn child.
4. Light massage
If you put your hand on the mother's belly from 20 weeks of pregnancy, the baby can understand it. And the child can also understand the touch of the parent. So massage of almond oil on the abdomen is very beneficial.
5. Story sessions
From 3 months after conception, the fetus's ability to remember sounds or sounds begins to increase. According to him, if a mother or father reads a child's story aloud, the child's brain remembers those words.
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