Reality
#___Reality
Watching dramas has created a certain kind of ignorance in Pakistani women and that ignorance is "only my house"
The first three families lived together. If the eldest brother was the highest earner, he would pay the school fees of the other brothers' children, pay the house bills or ask for a bargain. The same elder brother used to buy cloth bags on Eids which made the same clothes for all the family members.
And that big brother's job kept growing. This man's wife also became a mother and took care of the whole house and took care of everyone's needs. That is, the bigger the heart of the wife, the bigger the heart of the husband. So their provision was also open. There was also respect in the family
Then it happened that another ignorance was born. That ignorance was the ignorance that died in search of daughter-in-law, leaving family, nobility, piety, shape, fashion, wealth and education !!!
When such low caste beauties were made into daughters-in-law and put in houses, they started showing colors.
Then the ignorance of "only my home" began to be born with children.
Oh, you have taken the contract of their children.
You can't feed my children.
How long will your sisters rejoice over your earnings?
We have not opened any orphanage.
And when the husband started obeying his wife's words, the house was wiped out.
And the houses began to crumble.
My mother says and always advises her daughters-in-law
That when Allah has chosen your husband for you so that all the members of the household may get sustenance from his hand, do not intervene by mistake.
If you say that the rights of your children are being fed to the children of other brothers, then what is the news that your children will not have such a provision?
What news are you getting from the fate of the children of these brothers?
Do you know whose child is in which family that you are also getting from?
If you just start making your home your child, you will still get what you are destined for. And you should be afraid of fate lest what you are getting from others be taken away.
"I am very afraid that something like this will come out of my mouth," she said. God is just giving us and you and if you live happily and consider the whole family as your own, then surely a very happy life will pass.
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Masha Allah
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And there is a woman who has passed away. She was also one of our relatives who, due to her ignorance, destroyed the family of Amir Kabir.
Took the husband away. They all quarreled, but in the end there was such a famine in the house that she left, but she ruined her husband and children and fell prey to famine.
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If Allah has enabled you to provide for someone with your own hands, then consider it your good fortune. Don't be arrogant about it.
Explain to the women of your house.
It is your job to discover what that is and to bring it about. Otherwise, these foolish wives will ruin everything and finally shed tears and accuse you that if I was doing wrong then why didn't you stop me?
It's time to dump her and move on