It really hurts right? You just been wondering what if i did not fight with her, if i did not get angry maybe our relationship is still okay. So maybe right now I'am not having a difficult right time now to move on. These are the words that usually what is in the minds of people who are experiencing a broken relationship. But I'am saying to you right now that while you are smiling you just found out that you are saying to your self that is why your relationship did not work out because there is a a lot of reason and that you did not deserve that person. So in this article i will be sharing to you all my read.cash friends seven tips on how to move on from a broken relationships.
1.ACCEPTANCE
How can you move on if only just simple things that already gone is you could not do? Acceptance that is no more already, that it is over, no more second chance and he already have another by her side he don't like it anymore. Yes you still love her but no possibility for it to happen, sometimes there is a feeling that you want to bring back the relationships again, but you are already there to the fact that you already accept it that she will come back or no you already accept it. Because once you have accepted the truth that it is over, then it is the start to move forward on your own life.
2. IMPROVE YOURSELF, FOCUS AND LOVE YOURSELF
Start to improve your self, go to a make over . But not for her and for any other people you do it for yourself. If you are okay not only emotionally, physically and all the aspects of your life that you need to improve and fix you must do it all. So when the times comes that the right person for you has arrived in your life, you are all fix and completely okay. And you are not afraid to love again and give the right love you are willing to give for that right person. Love yourself first, again don't do this for other people do this for your own selves.
3. DO NOT TAKE REVENGE
Do not plan to make revenge do not find someone as your space goat, what ever she have done to you either he replaced you with some one or betrayed you, do not take revenge. Just like what i have said to you earlier you just enjoy yourself, enjoy the time for your self that was gone that has been wasted when you are still with her.Because once you have taken revenge you can hurt someone, and you could hurt yourself either so the situation will get worst. And in the end he is not even affected on what you have done.
4, DO NOT STALK
In my personal experience before in my past relationships. Why? because I did not stalk i don't care i do not care at all of my ex. Control your feelings of thinking of her. because some other's i don't know if they really giving punishment of their selves that too much thinking will get hurt of their feelings. Especially if you already in the middle of the process that you almost there to move on. Then you try to stalk, then all of a sudden you are back to square one again.
5. BE WITH YOUR FAMILY
Be closer to your family, what ever happen with you, your family is always there to help and accept you. To your parents, siblings and loved ones in life. Spending time with the family is very nice because family is irreplaceable, will never ever hurt you especially your arents.
6. STAY AWAY FROM HER FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Aside from moving from her, you should also do moving on with the people who are surrounded by her, may it her friends or family members. We could deny that we also get close to them so we have to move forward from them also for a moment. Especially to her friend that you become your friends also. But in her family side if you already got really closeness to them, so it will become a big issue if you will continue those relationships with them.
7. BUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR GOD
Be closer to GOD this is the most important things that you should do in the times that you are struggling, you can not breathe anymore, you did not even know where you want to go. It is a very good feelings that despite all of the sadness and heartache that you have been through still a very nice feeling that you know GOD is with you all the time that he is there and will never leave you. Be closer to your GOD and i'll promise you nothing will go wrong in your life. God may not be able to give you that person that you want know, but GOD is still writing the perfect love story for you and you have to just wait for that moment and just trust him on the process.
So that is it for my article, I hope it helped on how to move on if ever you experience this. And i pray to GOD that what ever you are experiencing right now you will get pass through it not so quick but in GOD's great time he will heals it all as he heal the problems in our world brought by the pandemic and we will all move on this matter. Thank you and keep safe everyone.
