Read This If You Feel Like You Don't Belong

Facing our unfulfillment in our human need!

I understand where you are.

The feeling of wanting to fit in, but you know that if you do you'll be losing your authenticity as well.

So what do you do?Do you prefer to stop being lonely or authentic? Why peoples like you aren't showing up in your life?

Sometimes the only thing I desire is the answer to those questions, but I like to think that if this is happening for a reason, is because something far more beautiful is on the horizon.

Someone that will truly connect with me is around the corner, waiting for me , to show me the reality: that I was never alone, It's the belief that I've created with myself that was making me lonely. It isn't something that has to do with me.

Feeling like you belong somewhere, whether it's a group of people or a life partner, is the most human thing possible. We humans have the necessity of being part of something bigger than ourselves, so am I criticizing myself for not having any needs met?

It shouldn't be a bad thing that I'm feeling apart from everyone , it should be a starting point, yet the feelings still prevails.

And that's okay, let yourself feel whatever you are feeling.

And I want to share this with you because you might needed to read that.

Feel whatever you feel, then the answers should come up slowly.

The first answer that you will begin to understand is that being alone is one of the beautiful things although loved ones are the most important part of our life but we learn much more things when we are alone, we experience many things while being alone. Being by yourself implies socializing with your interior for once, and that will get you know better. And by that, paradoxically, you'll be more socially attractive, because it shows that you know who you are .

The second answer that will appear is that you've made a choice that is deserving of thousands of applause: the fact that you prefer being by yourself that being surrounded by bad company. That's one of the deepest ways of self-love, you know?

You are literally telling to yourself that you deserve people that resonate with you. People with high energy, and you won't accept to lower your vibe in order to accommodate others. At that moment, you are defining your authenticity and giving deep love to yourself .

I am writing this in hope you can understand this. I know how anxious can it be when you seem that you don't fit in somewhere you feel like you should , where everyone has friends, partners and you are left by side with your thoughts and barely anything more.

But, by adopting the thing that i mentioned before, you'll be the most fulfilled person in the room.

You need people, of course, we all do, but first of all: you need yourself. At the end of the day the only person that is going to be with you , 24/7, no matter what, guess who? IS YOU. So , I would recommend you start making a habit of giving yourself love in the hard times.

Because in the easy times, yeah loving yourself is like 2+2, but in the phases of life that are complicated, that is where your self-love has to shine the most.

When everybody leaves, don't think that doing that as well is going to solve something. If you abandon yourself, you are are left with your own doom. If you stay on board, things that are out of your imagination because of how beautiful they are, are on the horizon, waiting for you.

Just wait for them a little longer, you are almost there, I know you'll be patient because it's about you we are talking about.

I BELIEVE IN YOU, I LOVE YOU , TAKE CARE!

I hope you learned something new today or just helped you to see a different perspective on life.

Thank you for reading , I Appreciate you a lot and I would love to read your thoughts in comments .

We'll see each other in next article until then , thanks for reading.

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