Before I Forget:
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY IT SEEMS LIKE SOME WOMEN CONTROL THEIR HUSBANDS?
When you see a happy home, it always seem like the woman is in control because you see her handle almost every aspect of the family. In fact, she becomes her husband’s manager. Unfortunately, a greater part of the society will mistake such happy home thinking the woman is using some kind of charm on the man. But what can really cause your husband to want to give you his all and place you above all? Read along let’s find out! (Proverbs 31:10-12)
When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband.
When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband.
When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances.
When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting.
When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend.
When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mode.
When a woman is appreciative, she receives gifts unexpected from her husband.
When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him.
When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly.
When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time.
When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids.
When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments.
When a woman is vulnerable, she is loved by her husband.
When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves.
When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband.
When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the almighty.
When a woman is selfless, her husband relies on her completely.
When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together.
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.
Be your husband’s biggest supporter.
Probably the single best thing you can do to be a good wife to your husband is to be his biggest fan. Ladies, your husband needs your encouragement, your support, and your belief in him. This will bolster him up with confidence and make him feel that he can do whatever he sets his mind to.
For me, I find it easy to offer my husband support and encouragement, but I also have to step back and try not to take over for him. I am guilty of loving to plan and control, and there are times I’d love to jump in and micromanage. Yet this would not be a true way to support him. I offer help and advice when he seeks it out, but otherwise, the best way I can support him is to just chill out and know he’s got it handled. I think that simply stepping back and being quietly supportive is actually a really strong way to say “I know you got this! I believe in you!”.
May the LORD GOD bless your marriage and your home always accommodate JESUS CHRIST. Amen.
Is still me Angelcash your one and only lovely friend, thanks for reading my article. If you are a woman just love your Husband very well, I wish you happy weekend.