Pain is normal

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Why do people always feel pain? Why does God give us problems? Why should we suffer? Why not just always happy? We always feel down, feel weak and suffering but why do we experience this?

Numerous questions that we always think while we are in pain. Many thoughts in our head that start to scramble all the time we experience pain. Some people think that they need to stop the pain by killing themselves. Others go to bars and drink a gallon of alcohol just to feel numb to the pain. We have different acts that we do to forget the pain. 

Pain is inevitable in demands to be felt. It's the part of our life that drags and slows us down That we feel the pain everyday. There are wounds that can't be seen in the body but cuts deeper and more painful than anything that bleeds. Pain comes in different forms; it can be physically, emotionally and mentally. Sometimes it's our own decisions that hurt us one of the most painful experiences is losing yourself in the process of giving too much love to someone and forgetting that you're very special too. There's a lot of problems that we take every time we walk into a path that we choose. 

Sometimes on that path we walk because we are afraid that we might fall again, sometimes we run so that we can get to the end faster, and sometimes we think that it's more okay to stop walking nor running because we are afraid, we are afraid to hit the ground and be wounded. We are so afraid to be hurt and to be in pain again. 

It is normal, you are normal if you experience pain. “Fed with the same food, hurt with the same weapons, subject to the same diseases, healed by the same means, warmed and cooled by the same winter and summer, as a Christian is? If you prick us, do we not bleed? if you tickle us, do we not laugh? if you poison us, do we not die?”. This line in Shylock's justification of Shakespeare reminds me that we all experience laughing and to cry.  

Yes it looks like it's a joke that pain makes you a person because all people feel that. It makes you normal that you are now experiencing that. Sometimes we ask if God does exist and we think God knows how it feels or feels that pain? And why did he let us hurt or be in pain?. It feels like a joke when God let us experience that. Yes I know..

In this four sided room of mine where i experience a lot of laughter and pain. Know me too well that every time i run to hide my emotions I go here. I feel alone, I feel something is wrong with me, I feel that I'm not enough. This quarantine makes me stronger and wiser. Yes it is, because in almost one year I experienced a lot of pain. It's funny that when we are not quarantined that problem may not affect me but it's kind of a joke that I may look at life like an easy path. I'm a jolly kind of person that some of my problems I just let it go like I will not even bother about it. But this year, jokes on me because I felt the pain now. This quarantine affects my mental health. Before I sleep I cry a lot and sometimes I just fall asleep while crying. 

Peace begins with a smile..

There are no great things, only small things with great love. Happy are those.

Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.

This line struck Teresa and yes me too. This line tells about why we suffer, why we experience a lot of pain, and why we should experience that. Because it will make us grow and we will learn a lot of things as we face the other problems. This will help us to prevent or solve the future problems. As Life goes on we learn different lessons in our life and these lessons help to achieve our goal and grow to become a better person. The pain we experience is the reason that how strong you are now.

There's a quote that says pain is inevitable and suffering is optional. We must learn to accept our fate. Sometimes we really need to feel pain as a wake up and call to improve our life. Pain teaches a lot of things in life to change someone's perspective in life . There's more pain hidden in this world than happiness that is being shown.

 

 


We must just think that, that pain will not last longer. It is temporary and it will gone too soon. We must think on the better side on the better path that we must take. This pain help us to grow and be more wiser as we walk carefully to the path we should not be fast but slow as we learn more things. God give us problems because he knows we can face that, that we can solve that problem. And yes I’m still in a growing process.

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