Do you guys know how beautiful one's self is? How hard it is to hate yourself and to hurt yourself? Do you think it's just for fun? Or Because of childish brain or immaturity? Or to gain attention?
Well let me tell you dear it's not, it is not fun not immature act nor for attention, it takes a big stoned heart or I should say a broken heart and Lot's to courage for self-harming
No one in this world will want to do this without any reason everyone has their reasons.
Some do this to manage their emotions some do to avoid the things going on inside them or outside, for destruction from that unbearable pain and they soon get addicted Because the feelings the pain keep coming again and again and they do self harm to avoid the pain and the feelings and they become addicted to this solution.
Yes there are solutions for every problem.
There are people to listen, to give you advice or to help you with your problems in your bad situations but does it helps all the time? No it doesn't work all the time, sometimes words just don't help no matter how strong or true they're and that's when things get worse and at that point, you just don't see anything else expect self-harm and it's the only thing that satisfies you, sad but true.
So the point is, nobody likes hurting themselves the things, the situations the people, Abuse, torture and situations like this made them do this. It looks easy but it's not it's painful but when you're numb from inside it doesn't hurt anymore and you feel addicted even if you want to quit this Habit, at that point you just can't because mental torture is not fun it leads a person to this stage.
So instead of taunting them after all this and pointing them or blaming them on their self-harm act, better be kind to everyone try to understand them and their situations and never let them reach this stage where nothing else works except self-harm.
thanks for reading 🖤
I've already posted this on my Uptrennd profile
https://www.uptrennd.com/post-detail/self-harm-is-not-a-joke~ODA5ODk2
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