The Irish poet #Oscar_Wilde says the same thing. "It's impossible for men and women to have only friendships. All they can have is desire, weakness, hatred or love."
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#Humayun_Ahmed said, "Boy and girl can be friends but they must fall in love. Maybe for a very short time or at the wrong time. Or too late, and not forever. But they will fall in love."
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✅ Honestly, friendship between boy and girl is impossible and against nature. Because only if there is friendship, nature will lose its existence. Magnets and iron can never coexist. Will attract. If anyone avoids it, he is either pretending or cheating.
The wax will melt next to the fire. Boy and girl can be friends, but at some point they will fall in love or have an affair. And that's normal.
However, their comments are strongly supported by #Flirtationship which means flirting. Strictly speaking, filthiness or sexual attraction. Even a few years ago, we used to look at boy-girl friendships from a place of respect, much like brothers and sisters.
✅ But at the present time it has come a long way from #Friendship_ to_Flirtationship and it is from the philosophy of western culture.
The biggest thing is that nowadays it is more popular than girlfriend, boyfriend relationship because it has no responsibility to anyone, no commitment. Independently both are fulfilling bodily desires. And it can cause social and cultural conflict. Since Bangladesh is traditionally a Muslim majority country. The attraction of Western culture and the attitude of pretending to be modern is its tool. So if parents are not careful now, we are moving towards that culture.
So keep an eye on your sister or daughter; Brother or son is mingling with tears! Companion is the most important thing here.
(I sincerely apologize if I hit anyone)
Thanks everyone