10 Undeniable Signs That He Is In Love With You

"Does he love me, or doesn't he love me?"

The dream of every woman in love is to know if the guy she likes is also in love with her. Messages, calls or statements are sometimes not always enough for her to be sure that the feeling she has for him is reciprocated. If you're not sure if he's in love with you, read on and find out with just a few signs if what he feels is true or just a liking.

Love is complicated in every way

A guy can say he loves you and not be in love at all. Or he may love you too much and not know if he's ready to tell you or not. Love, no matter how beautiful and romantic it is, is complicated for everyone. And sometimes even scary. For this reason many women keep their love guarded - they do not declare themselves, for fear of hurting themselves deeply.

And that's a problem, because instead of connecting more and more with him, of staying present in the relationship, you're stuck inside your own thoughts, trying to figure out if he really loves you or not. Worries like these produce fear and insecurity, which later on will eventually affect your relationship.

So, do you want to know when a man is really in love with a woman? If he shows these 10 signs, it's pretty safe to say he is.

1. The way he looks at you

He looks at you like you're a rainbow, like he doesn't believe you exist. He might even say "I can't believe someone like you is here, with me". It is not a look of lust or desire. Instead, it is marked by a certain awe, serenity, and inner calm. It's a look reserved just for you. Unlike everyone else. It's not just the way he looks at you, it's the frequency he looks at you. And he can't stop looking at you, if you're close together or a little farther away, for example, in the bedroom, his gaze is always directed at you. 

 2. He Only Thinks About Giving

True love is giving, not taking. That's why parents often love their children more than their children love them. You would think it would be the opposite. Every parent will tell you that you will never know what true love is until you have a child, and that is the best example of love you can give.

When you love someone, you want to give that person everything you have. It's not material goods, you want to give your best, you want to make him happy, improve his life, add up, you want to do things for him because you love him and want to see him well.

“Love is not just a feeling. It is a verb and appears in actions. The greatest action that indicates that a man loves you is when he gives you everything he can.”

3. He Treats You As A Priority

In today's world we keep ourselves constantly busy; work, school, college and so many other things. When a man is really in love with a woman he will do anything to be with her. If he can't, he'll find a way and let her know.

Remember: When a man loves you, you are one of the most important people in his life.

4. He Wants To Be A Part Of Your Life In Every Way

A man in love is concerned with making a good impression, not only for you, but for all your family and friends. He really wants everyone to like him, and in order to do that he will make the necessary effort to convey a good image to the people he loves. After all, he wants everyone to love him too. Furthermore, a man in love is interested in the passions and hobbies of the person he loves. He's going to want to try hard to connect with your life because it's important to him. Her happiness is important to him. All of this, while he immerses you in his life, introducing you to all your family and friends. And when it comes to the future, he doesn't speak vaguely, instead he makes it clear that his future is with you.

5. He Sees More Than Anyone

A man in love sees and notices things about you that others don't. It senses, feels and interacts with your feelings and how your mind works – how you see and process things. He wants to know more about you because he wants to get to know you deeply. He wants to get inside your mind and feel you. Any detail is important to him, so he pays attention to everyone and makes sure to keep them and remember them later.

"He doesn't just love you, he loves things about you."

Loving doesn't just mean making the person feel love, it is wanting to get into their core and wanting to be part of it. It's loving completely, it's loving deeply. A love capable of changing your whole life.

"When someone really sees you, he doesn't just see everything you are, he sees everything you want to be." And when you're not acting right – if you're being a jerk to someone, treating a friend badly, acting inappropriately he'll let you know. Because he only wants you well. He wants to see you well. You may not feel well, but it's a sign that he really sees you and cares about you.

6. Your Happiness Is As Important As His

Sometimes it might even be more. When a man truly loves a woman her happiness is his happiness. That's why he will never say or do things that make you sad. When a man says things that make a woman sad and keeps doing it, he's not in love with her. 

 7. He Misses You When You Are Away

Men generally fall more in love with a woman's absence than with her presence. A man can embrace you with all the love in the world when he is with you. But what about when he's not with you? Does he miss you? Does he look for you or disappear for days without giving a sign of life, and then show up saying he's sorry? Or that you were super busy?

"When you love someone, you yearn for their presence and miss them when they're gone."

This does not mean that you should constantly be thinking about him, for example, every minute, because that would not be love, but an obsession. But his thought should come up suddenly, surprising you when the longing hits. The connection is constant because you feel him even when he is far away. And when you miss him, you'll get in touch - you'll send him a message, funny stuff, or links to articles that you think he'll like, or just tell him something that happened to him that you thought he'd like. But contact happens.

 8. It Is Available For What You Need

Staying in love is easy when everything is going well. It's like sailing at sea on a calm day, but what if a storm comes out of nowhere? How does it respond when a problem arises and you need it? Does he say he's busy and right now he can't? Love is not about one's needs and desires. It's about opening them up to help the one you love.

“When a man loves you, nothing will be more important than being there for you when you need him. It may not always be your ideal scenario, but it will rise and be there. For you. For you."

9. He Doesn't Give Up

A man in love puts everything into a relationship and is committed to making it work. He gives up things to make you happy, he surrenders deeply in the relationship, to the point of falling, both of them have to fall, because he won't get out. If he sees that you want the same thing, he will do anything to get you together, because he wants it, because you want it. For him there is no option to give up, it might even be difficult, but he won't give up, because he loves you.

“If a man says he loves you but doesn't want to try anymore, or gives up because he thinks it's too hard, then it probably wasn't true love. You don't give up on love that easily unless you've put all of yourself in and the other hasn't.”

A man in love only leaves after giving his all. Those who are neither truly in love nor willing are.

10. You Don't Care How He Feels - You Just Know

When a guy loves you, he doesn't have to prove it all the time, you just know it. Everyone around knows. You will feel a sense of peace and calm, no feelings like insecurity, fear or anxiety will arise. Because you will feel connected with him. If you are prone to having these feelings - no matter what, they are generated within you. When we feel uncomfortable in a relationship – when the ground feels slippery, it is because the relationship is not on stable ground, so fear, insecurity and doubt arise, making you feel alone in the relationship.

Don't forget: When a man loves you, even before he says it, he will show the signs.