Title: Give Me A Sign Please
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Hello ppl of SAD! I just want to share this story and hopefully get some advice too.
So there's this guy that I really like and he doesn't know I like him (I think). I like everything about him, even his flaws (maybe except for the fact that he always plays league lol but that's it). He does things that makes it seem like he might like me back but at the same time, I'm not sure. I have a really bad habit of overthinking so this might also affect my opinion and view of this. I'm the only person he talks to every day and I also fit his description of his ideal girlfriend.
One day I asked if he likes me and he wouldn't give me a clear answer. But later on, he said he doesn't like me that way and thinks someone else would be better for me. He also asked if I like him after that and I panicked and said no. (Btw this was all through text so I can't tell his tone and no facial expressions.) After this incident, we still talk every day and hang out sometimes.
I don't know what to do now. He also knows that I have a crush that doesn't like me back (didn't tell him that it's him) and he kept telling me to confess to my crush despite me saying, I think he doesn't like me. I know him for 1/2 a year now and we've been talking every single day/night for like 4 months. He's a really nice guy and wouldn't purposely play with my feelings (I think). But he's also a shy boi and jokes around a lot in text and irl. Sometimes when I get clingy, petty, or sad, he doesn't mind and still deals with me and says I'm not clingy or annoying. If I feel down or a bit distant, he would notice immediately and talk to me about it. Sometimes he'll even stay up and won't sleep until I feel better.
If he doesn't like me, I just want to get over him without ruining our friendship. (I don't want to lose him.) If he does, I just want him to confess to me or maybe I'll shoot my shot??? I'm starting to try to make myself stop liking him too because I'm scared of getting hurt from one-sided feelings. But I don't want to fully give up in case he likes me. Idkkkkkk ahfjsakldvjbefreafw someone pls send help lol
P.S. The I think's are because of my overthinking lol, always have benefit of doubt :c
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- Smol shrub
Just tell him how you really feel about him. If he says he doesn't like you, then reduce the talking with him or else you'd get hurt... Protect your heart first. You can still be friends with him but you don't have to talk to him every day and night like you said.