It's okay not to be okay
Taking the title from a Korean drama, which has a pretty good storyline, in my opinion, when I first watched it, but on this occasion it did not discuss the contents of the drama or provide a story about the synopsis of the film. It's just that the title to be used is quite interesting and wanted me to write the umpteenth time when this article was created.
Being fine, or in other words we say calm or no problems. In life, of course, this is not possible because in life we will always be faced with what are called problems.
Problems often become polemics in living a person's life, the degree of severity depends on the person's own view of it. It's just that there are definite provisions that have been outlined by the word destiny where the matter depends on the level of each human being according to their own abilities. So there is no problem that is said to be inappropriate to the level that falls on a person when in fact humans are actually capable of solving the problem.
Then, from the statement above, questions may arise about the truth of this condition, because in reality many are unable to face the problematic conditions they face.
The answer is actually very simple and clearly visible, where the result of their inability or the heavy burden they bear is their choice to use the word inability to face the problems they actually face or have created themselves. For example, suicide or running away is a step that can be said to not be a solution to the problem.
Human growth from era to era has indeed shown the condition of mental unpreparedness that is faced at all times, where decline has always been the highest value of the existence of an increasingly advanced and developing era. Competition, way of life and life patterns are often used as a basis for living life. In fact, mental readiness is built based on self-readiness based on reason, morals, and religion which should be formed continuously.
It's okay not to be okay, it's something that should be seen as normal, because it's normal for humans to face problems and tests in life. If not, how can we humans feel what happiness or calm is? Doesn't it feel bitter in the end to know how sweet it feels?
Even if it is developed to be different or not the same, it is not a violation or difference. Because that's where diversity is created and harmonized. If someone looks at the value of a nation, race or religion, it can be said that the level of humans who have such basic characteristics is small.
It's okay not to be okay, maybe right now it has to be faced and resolved. So face it with a smile and never run away from reality, be strong in your heart, prepare mentally and always think positively about moving forward every second that ticks.
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Not everyone is prepared to face life situations. I coin it to education. The education that parents give at home is the basis for everything in life, the basis of maturity, responsibility, goodness, and everything.
And I think this is quite important. Create capable and responsible human beings.