When will we try to be gentler on ourselves?
As you can feel, the world is not a place to spoil. The world rains down a lot of questions, problems, tests, pain, etc. Not infrequently if you are made to cry, fall down, have a bad idea about the Creator, make our own mind and heart quarrel.
From the first, the world has been hard, makes it difficult, and it can't be helped. And imperceptibly, we make things worse by making things difficult for ourselves.
If we only glimpse and feel the surface I think it is right that this world is cruel, lousy, and always a scourge. especially for the younger generation, or even young scholars. most of us will always think about what a cruel world ahead there is. We will think about how difficult the world is in front of us. It is a scourge when we think about the economy. it will seem very clear what the economy will look like, and how difficult it will be to find a job.
Maybe some of us say "Never mind" these words really seem to be a ray of hope that will provide a little comfort in our brains. That's true but if we look deeper, the words "Never mind" will give the impression that we give up on the circumstances of the times and surrender to the provisions of destiny. the word seemed not to encourage us to soar far and develop with all our abilities and creativity. so to conquer this cruel world we have to say "Never mind" but after we shed all our sweat and after we bow down to Him.
Never mind… your job is not to find answers and solve all problems.
Never mind ... living a life that is not according to expectations does not mean you are a complete failure. At least respect your own efforts. Appreciate the strength to survive and face it all.
Never mind ... any need to compare your own life with others. They seem to have it all, live it with ease, and enjoy life. But that's just the appearance. We never know.
Never mind… any need to regret, scold, and blame yourself for all flawed or failed relationships. You saw for yourself how even a couple who is too sweet and affectionate can divorce. All of that becomes a screening process until you find who is a worthy winner.
Never mind ... ease grudges for all the rejections you receive. Painful, indeed. You have struggled and given your best, but all you get is a shake. Rejected. But it must be remembered, that rejection does not mean that you are very bad, very inappropriate, and very lacking. Rejection can be "the beast delivering the best gifts". Rejection makes you stronger, rejection becomes God's way of protecting your heart, rejection becomes a turn that leads you to the best path, and rejection becomes a big motivator to change yourself to be even cooler.
Never mind… there's no need to drown yourself in a sea of guilt. It's okay to say 'no' when your own heart does whisper the word 'no'. Eliminate bad taste, which could offend or disappoint someone. You can't always say 'yes' just out of pity and discomfort. Too often sacrificing yourself will certainly be eternal torment.
Never mind… that perfection never existed. You cannot be the perfect child, the perfect parent, the perfect partner, the perfect friend, the perfect neighbor, and the perfect human being. You are only human. Forgive all the mistakes and mistakes yourself. Continue to try to be the best, but there is no need to give severe punishment to yourself when you make mistakes, mistakes, or forget.
Never mind… you already have a lot of enemies. No need to add to it. Don't let you be your own enemy.
The world has sent many things, which then turn into real enemies. The world continues to challenge and strafe tests. The world doesn't want to know. Even if we are tired, in a bad mood, embarrassed, sick, or are complaining screaming. Does the world care?
If all of this is added to our hardness towards ourselves, how about that?
Still a long journey. We have to learn to apply what people suggest; approach God, be patient, accept, be gentle with yourself, keep trying, and be accompanied by prayer. All of that can become mainstay weapons when the world puts up bodies to sharpen attacks. The World Is Already Harsh and Cruel To You, Will we Be Likewise To ourself?
Thankful, and grateful. there is no need for us to look up to us about this pseudo-world thing. look down on us. If we are a scholar, you don't need to look at successful scholars and fight to sacrifice everything just to be like him, it is enough that there are still many underprivileged children who drop out of school. Likewise with other professions, but look at the things above our profession as a motivation for developers and an accelerator of the rate of our self-development and creativity.
THE WORLD IS BEAUTIFUL IF WE ARE GRATEFUL. Thanks.
