Ethics and manners of speech are prerequisites and social guidance for mankind wherever they are.
Given the importance of this, basically, humans have an obligation to continue/teach ethics, manners, and courtesy to speak to future generations.
Talking about ethics, and manners. The patterns of human speech conveyed by ancestors and parents to generations differ according to culture and culture. But seeing it all when viewed from the boundaries of taste will certainly be the same, there is respect which can be said of speaking etiquette.
When it comes to manners, there will be a discussion of the word patient. Maybe it is true that human patience has its limits. And if it is repeated never-ending, eventually boredom will arise. At first, it may continue to try or accept. In the end, however, there will be something natural to adopt a stance of assertiveness. Yes, assertiveness is not pushy or bullying, or annoying. But if it's just meaningless it shouldn't be stopped.
A wishy-washy attitude and a lack of trust are indeed evidence that a bad attitude will actually damage a relationship, and it can be said that this is one of the lack of manners. Whether it's friendship, casual friendship, or between a couple. Because without reasoning a meaning, it is just a junk word from a question, it is an attitude of lack of manners to respect others.
It is better if you are disturbed, please firmly say or say it well and softly, you feel disturbed. Not just answering a small talk that turns out to be stale. Or even take the attitude of lacking teaching respect for someone's right to speak. If a question arises it should be answered nicely and politely. If you don't want to answer, say it or shut it up and leave. It is better because it becomes clear that hatred and dislike for something are clear.
We, humans, are all the same, all given reason and feelings. Intellect is used to think well, and the heart is used to understand a situation. If it has functioned, it will produce good reason, of course. However, if the reason is not used properly together with the heart, it is a problem with the process of the situation in a prevailing condition.
If we talk about misperceptions, understandings, or so on, of course, it will be understood if there is a clear explanation. But if there is no explanation and instead take your stance, it seems like you are doing a lot of things that are not polite, of course, it will make anyone dislike it. Said above the sky there is still sky. I, you, and all the people in this world are nobody. We are basically God's creatures who are social and should respect one another. Human rights exist for every human being, we can protect ourselves if they are disturbed, we can stay away if there is no incompatibility. Isn't there a more respectful and polite attitude?
If only people are able to realize ethics, manners, and courtesy in speaking, the guarantee of safety and peace will always be felt wherever they are. Social life will always be harmonious and there will be no disputes that lead to negative things.
Observing the etiquette, manners, and manners of speaking seem to be in line with the etiquette of speaking in the guidance of religious teachings. It states that speaking etiquette could include:
1. All speech should be for the purpose of goodness and avoid speaking falsehood.
2. Speak clearly and easily understood.
3. Do not act or speak in an arrogant manner.
4. Avoid talking too much so it becomes boring.
5. Repeating important words if needed.
And as a conclusion, perhaps a lesson can be drawn from here, drawing the conclusion that respecting the interlocutor is the main value before you take the meaning of your interlocutor to avoid misunderstandings and disputes arising from bad ways of speaking or associating. Strive to be kind and polite so that everyone can imitate your good behavior.
