There's something I hate the most about myself. Something that can make me very angry and sometimes make me unable to contain my emotions from overflowing or not answering it. One thing I hate the most and one thing I hate the most to hear from the mouths of other people talking about something I really hate.
If I hear someone ask about school or education problems about my children. If I hear about the problem then somehow my emotions will immediately peak. Why? Because on average most people who ask are just asking without being aware of what they know. Especially about advice or just small talk.
The thing that makes me angry the most is that they judge and give opinions on educational issues about where they should go to school, why they don't choose a good school or why they should provide such and such an education. Things about my children's school problems are not their children's problems. For me, I really don't like it because the problem of children's education or school is the responsibility of parents. And it is not right for people to judge or give opinions to others about the good or bad of an education or the place where they go to school.
Is education seen from the problem of how expensive or good a place to study is? Is education only obtained at the place of learning where the school is the place?
Moreover, it is a matter of judging and giving this and that opinion about something they think is better. Good according to you is not necessarily good according to people. What's good for you isn't necessarily good for someone else. Expensive or cheap is not a guarantee of producing good and right students. Good or bad does not necessarily produce students who will be the best.
Not to mention the problem of financing, are you the one who finances other people's children who go to school in a bad school according to your assessment. If asked or turned back to people who impose or like to judge other people's education, do you want to pay for education in a place that you say is the best?
The average is just bullshit and certainly will not want to and instead say it is our own responsibility. Certainly so. Therefore, don't talk nonsense, opinions without judging let alone forcing can only be accepted
But if it's beyond all that you can't accept then I say watch your mouth. Speak based on good and right thoughts.
School or education is not based on your values, heartless observers. School is an obligation without any assessment, but the school aims to provide a proper education and make our children educated. Educating is not teaching a value or value for building a school.
Education is appropriate or not not from the high cost of a school. Education is obtained from the sincerity and willingness of educators and the children they teach. Schools for children aim to make children better than us and know more about science. It's not us who go to school but our children. If you still have a problem with a value or place, wouldn't it be better for you to go to school instead of your child.
We as parents should give a valuable lesson to our children not to set an example comparing something based on our views or the material alone.
The problem of everyone's abilities is different, and it's not our right to judge let alone force our will to be followed by others. Being wise, and selective is a must. Keeping and giving the best is our obligation to children. But not forcing our will to have to apply to children let alone other people. Being an adult on the journey of life is more important to be given to our children so that they become knowledgeable, strong and wise souls.
