#How_to_start_the_child's_reading__
In the present age, every parent wants their child to be good in education. That's why mothers worry so much when their children are small.
I have seen many mothers who, as soon as they learn to speak, sit down to memorize books. And when they are 3/4 years old, they sit down with the thought that the child of Amuk can do it, the child of Tamuk can do it, why can't my child do it. Why haven't you learned to write yet?
But I don't think there's anything to be so terrifying about kids.
But the interest in studies starts from the womb.
You will read more and more books when the baby is in the womb. It must have an effect on the baby. Then from birth you can listen to your baby rhymes, poems or stories. Many may think that so many children will understand all this? But that's not the point. When you tell them to the child, they will stay in the child's brain and he will think of himself as important. Then when he learns to sit, learn to hold toys, give him a book in front of him. Make the book colorful and present it to him. For example, you can say rhymes to rhythm or make different gestures. On the one hand, the child will be happy, on the other hand, he will understand that it is a thing of joy. I do this in my school. So I already have that habit.
And when the child sees that he is reading a book and does not want to listen or read, do not force him. It will be the opposite of hite. The child will lose the joy of reading and will tear up the book. Present the book in front of the child as long as he wants. Then you will see that he is not tearing the book anymore.
Name the different things by looking at the pictures. When it gets a little bigger, you will say the name and you will see how beautifully the child puts his finger on the picture to match the name. My daughter could do it from the age of 18 months. Then when he learns to speak a little harshly, you will see that he is saying the name of the picture by himself. Or the thing seen in the picture is saying by looking at reality. Like my daughter is saying fish by herself when she sees my mother cutting fish at the age of 19 months. That's the decent thing to do, and it should end there. For example, Very Good, Good Job, Thank You, Nice, etc. He will be encouraged to say these things. And learn the difference between good and bad.
And after that when the child is 4/5 years old, do not stress him with studies. Try to teach by showing real things. For example, we will not tell the child to memorize the names of 5 fruits today, but we will tell him the names of the different fruits while actually eating them. Then he will learn the name of more than 5 fruits without knowing it.
It is never right to make a child a parrot. One should not be overwhelmed by too much textbook. There is no need to give to school before 5/6 years. At this age they will just learn to play tricks. Never by force.
And finally, let's talk about our religion - always try to make your child better without trying to make him better.
This means,
Being the best means gaining more knowledge than others. In other words, it is not a matter of importance, how much knowledge someone has acquired by himself. In this matter of importance, whether the knowledge gained is more than other people? That is, the desire to be the best, the desire to acquire knowledge also makes a competition. It is possible to be the best for a while, but no one can always be the best. Then there is dissatisfaction, pain and conflict again. But what if you try to be better than you are? Good means to achieve all that can be achieved. Not from the desire to gain more than anyone else, but to achieve something just for the satisfaction of the soul. There is no competition with other taxes on the way to getting better.
The competition is with oneself. That is, he who tries to be good, sometimes acquires all the knowledge. He became the best without trying.
But whoever tries to be the best, whether he is the best or not, cannot be the best ?? So try to make your child better in all respects. He will be the best for you.
I tried to write on my own. If you make a mistake, I hope you will look at it with a forgiving look.