“The only man who never makes mistakes is the man who never does anything.” there is no one who learns without making mistakes. Everybody makes mistakes. Be it some action or words or decisions our mistakes are in our lives in all possible forms. What makes a person’s mistakes different from anyone is the acceptance of that mistake. In this world where we have 7 billion people but 14 billion faces people try to fake perfection but some happily agree to the fact that only their mistakes can make them perfect. No one is perfect and we all agree to this. Then why are we busy trying to prove ourselves perfect why cannot agree that we make mistakes? The best way of learning is to learn from your mistakes. Accepting your mistake does not mean that you are weak. It means that you are strong enough to accept that you’re looking and smart enough to learn from it. Life puts us in different situation some of which are unexpected and some for which you prepared yourself. But when you are standing on a cross road and you have to make a decision it’s not always necessary that you will make the right decision.
Just as Arianna huffington says “we need to accept that we won’t always make the right decision which we will screw up royally sometimes”. People who hesitate in accepting their mistakes should know that it isn’t a major crisis to accept their mistakes but not accepting it can be a crisis. Making mistakes may not be a big issue but repeating your mistakes is definitely an issue learning from your mistake does not mean that you are going to entitle your actions and decisions as mistakes every time we need to remember that “ant man can make mistakes ,but only an idiot persists in his errors”. If you can accept your mistakes then you can also forgive when anyone else makes mistakes why don’t we have a big heart to forgive others? Why we do we always accept to be forgiven but never forgive? Why do we give mistakes the power make us let go of someone. Why can’t we have the strength to forgive and forget and move on? Because only forgiving their mistakes will make the other person realize where they were wrong. Letting go for someone just because they made a mistake is not fair to mankind we all make mistakes do not let it be the reason you give up on somebody deserves a second chance. Not only others even us, ourselves deserve and living in guilt is a major failure for a person. “Forgive yourself for your faults and mistakes and move on. A mistake does not mean that you are not worth something big. Or that you are not worth achieving anything. A mistake simply means that you are “in progress” ofachieving something and learning. So one should never be afraid of making mistakes. One should never be sitate in trying something new just because you are scared you will do something wrong. Even Oscar wilde says “experience is simply a name that we give to our mistakes” that means to gain some experience we have to make mistakes. Being worried that the world won’t forgive us if you ever feel that way just remembers what bruce lee says “mistakes are always forgivable if one has the courage to accept them”. So never be afraid of your mistakes. Try out everything make life a challenge for yourself and where ever you lack just agree to learn. Make your faults teach you because your best teacher is your last mistake. Built up the spirit to forgive, forget and move on.
Ali khan