We all love the relationships we have and we want to increase the love, so what should we do to increase love and reduce hatred?

. * ✿❀ ࿐ ≼ Syed Ali Gohar Shah •• ══┅┄ *

Increasing love or reducing hatred is not a difficult task, just a little effort and change your style.

If you want to increase love, increase the amount of praise, and if you want to increase hatred, increase the amount of criticism.

The problem is that we often show generosity in criticism and stinginess in praise, which can lead to rifts in relationships.

Relationships are as delicate and demanding as flowers and plants, just as some flowers are fragrant, some are fragrant, some are prickly, some are thorny.

In the same way, in the garden of our lives, the plants of relationships grow in the form of human beings, some sympathetic, some mild-tempered, some angry-tempered,

If the plants of these relationships continue to receive the water of attention and admiration with the seeds of sincerity and compassion, they will always remain beautiful, fresh and energetic.

Yes, it will happen. During their care, a thorn of a plant will bite in the hand. There will also be pain. Sometimes there will be smelly behaviors like perfumed flowers.

So should we uproot the plants or remove ourselves from the garden ???

Why do we get so caught up in making our relationships so difficult?

Please give them time to develop their relationships,

See which plant has to pay when, how much time, how much water, how much attention, give them all ....