How to love the unlovable?

This question was asked to me back when I was in college. I never knew how to answer it then but not anymore. Today, I'll narrate some possible answers that might help loved the unlovable.

1. Clarify the facts.

Knowing the things that makes the person unlovable resolves some matters. You just can't hate someone without reason. There should be a possible reasons behind those walls. And by knowing them! Possible answers may reveal to help.

2. Let that person know.

Its not right if your the only person knowing the problem!? Let them know. BUT! Privately. Don't post it on social media or if drastic measure is necessary?, compromise.

3. Self assessment.

Forgiveness is not an easy tasked. Others takes years, while others months or days it varies individually. But the root of it all, bitterness kills, hatred shows, and love can't grow. Just if you wanted it that way? Then don't love those unlovable to you.

4. Aim for a goal.

If they ain't got one!? Don't be such a fool. People who can't love others can't also love themselves. They who can't forgive can't received any.

We all dies in time, the only thing that we can give to ourselves? Is! "Peace." Yes, that's a big word but it runs along with loving oneself.

*Love the unlovable, and see the love you been dream of.